# New here~ **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 30, 2009, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/25567 "2009-01-30T23:09:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dell224](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cdc98d/32.png) [@dell224](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dell224)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/25567/1 "2009-01-30T23:09:26Z")
Hi everyone. Name’s Daniel and i’m 20 this year. Am an asian living in Singapore. I happen to pass by this forum few days ago and it totally got my interest. Im the type of guy who people normally won’t notice. I don’t really get much attention from people. I know about this ever since im …12? and yea, its always been like this. I seriously can’t figure out why. I know im more introvert and don’t usually initiate conversation with people as I fear running out of topic to talk about and got into a very awkward situation.☹ Its not like im not friendly or aggressive towards people. I know im trying to be as friendly as possible by trying to lend a hand when help is needed. End up being treated like a stupid as they only come to me when they need help, rest of the time im invisible. Maybe im a boring person 😕 I did some reading around the forum and i quite like the helpful community here. So i decided to give it a try hoping to atleast have people giving me chance for conversation instead of depriving me of it. Since im still a student, the price can be a bit steep especially the shipping fee, so i need some advice on what to get. I think IS and IH would be a good choice? Thx for reading 😉 Pardon my english. heh ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/25567/2 "2009-01-30T23:24:26Z")
Hey there Daniel, welcome to the forums! I’m sure you’ll get all the fun conversation that you could want, and probably even more than you were looking for. 😉 And you’re english is actually pretty good! So kudos to you! I know how hard learning a 2nd language can be… i’m still learning German and it’s been quite a time of it. Let’s see here… are you trying to get girls to notice you more, or just people in general? Let me explain some options, then i’ll let you choose which one sounds the best for you. First off, probably the best pheromone for you would be Instant Openness. It gets the people around you (as well as yourself) feeling more chatty and makes you seem more approachable. Very good for getting that conversation flowing, which would be great for you. Instant Shine is a great anytime pheromone, since it gives off a “healthy glow” to the people around you and makes them feel more energetic and upbeat, as well as gives most people the self-effect of more confidence. Instant Honesty gives off a vibe that makes the person you’re talking to feel more connected to you, which tends to lead to deeper conversations (not just about the weather). While i like it alot, it tends to work better if you’re already good at talking to people (in my opinion). Now ammo is a sexual product, which means it has androstenone in it. However, it is well buffered with [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) so that it’s much harder to overdose the amount you spray on yourself, as well as comes pre-mixed with a cologne coverscent. It creates a sexual spark to your interactions, without screaming “I’M JUST HERE FOR THE SEX!” 😛 Hope that helps some! Ask any more questions you might have and hope to hear some more from ya! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/25567/3 "2009-01-30T23:45:33Z")
Hello and welcome! MFG gave you some great advice.. I would consider the “instant” line, or parts of it. Instant shine, which will help your confidence, instant female magic, to calm women down, instant openness and honesty to help with convos. Not sure to what extent you are hoping to use [pheromones](https://a314.com/) for, help with the ladies? If so check into ammo, thats a great product for attraction Hope this helps, good luck! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/25567/4 "2009-01-30T23:50:21Z")
Hello Daniel and welcome to the family. We have several people from Singapore here. You guys need to start a club or something … lol I think MFG gave you some good advice. The social products are a great place to start for a variety of reasons. First, they can be worn just about anywhere for any reason, even at work. Second the results are often very easy to see - people are more talkative - in the right context - and often more upbeat, happy and just plain tend to stick around you. Finally, and perhaps just as importantly, they are often more effective in the romance realm than most guys give them credit for. Women like guys who they think are fun, easy to talk too and make them laugh. And they wwant to feel connected to those guys. The social products will give you all that as MFG has explained. IO is great for helping along those intial conversations. IShine helps the people around you feel happy and upbeat. Instan Honesty helps generate feelings of connection and often deeper conversation as a result. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2009, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/25567/5 "2009-02-01T01:55:35Z")
Hello Daniel Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name is Tisha and I am the hostess here on PT. Glad you decided to join us. IH and Ishine are great products to start with. MFG explained them to you in his post. You may want to think about IO over IH at first because it has a bit more draw in my opinion. IH is deeper conversation but I think you need more help in breaking the ice first. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way. 😉** Have fun Tisha