# New here...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [July 5, 2009, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399 "2009-07-05T05:42:45Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![pretty123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9f8e36/32.png) [@pretty123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pretty123)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/1 "2009-07-05T05:42:45Z")

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Hai Everyone,  
I am a 26 year old female from Florida, not an outgoing type, and married for 6 years. About a year ago my husband got a well-paid job, that he is not at all interested in but forced to stay because of our bad financial situation and working more than 65 hours a week. Ever since, he is more worried and tensed about the work and not interested in any sexual relationship with me. Even if he get few week vacation, he is worrying about going back to work. So its going to be one year since we had a really good bed time. This is ruining our marriage too.  
After one of my friend suggest to try a [pheromone spray](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/), I started searching about it and found this forum. I will be so glad if any of you guys can suggest anything than can attract my hubby to me. Hopefully that will end up in … Thanks.

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**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 5:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/2 "2009-07-05T05:55:52Z")

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Hi pretty123, and welcome to the forum!

I am sorry to hear about the current bump in the road you and your husband are going through, both financially, and sexually. You have come to the right place though.

Depending on what kind of vibe your husband is attracted to, there are two formulas of Instant Sexiness available. “A” (IS/A) is a more sexy, alpha female formula, and “B” (IS/B) is a more cute, playful formula. I suggest going with the version that best compliments your own features, as it will amplify your own beauty further. IH is great for making more meaningful, deep conversations, and could prove to be very useful in your current rut. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is an amazing product. It will make you both feel great, and hopefully alleviate some of that stress you are both facing.

If your husband is interested, there are also some formulas out there for work as well. A314 is a great product that gives off a respectful and trusting aura around the user. many people use it in thier daily work life, and it has been proven useful in climbing career ladders and bringing in more clients to businesses. It may help him get a promotion, a raise, or even at least let him get a break from those long work weeks he has been struggling through.

If you would like more information about any products, check out the Pheromone Guides located in my signature below. they give an in depth analysis of the products sold here, and can give you a better idea of what is just right for your needs. If you have any questions about any particular pheromones, or any other questions, don’t hesitate to ask, as we are here to help you.

Cheers,

-mco;

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**Author:** ![pretty123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9f8e36/32.png) [@pretty123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pretty123)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 6:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/3 "2009-07-05T06:17:34Z")

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Thank you so much. That was very useful information…

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**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/4 "2009-07-05T06:25:38Z")

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Hi pretty, welcome to the forum,

I understand your situation, too much works make people tired to think or care of people surrounding us, especially family.

The first think you should try is the [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) to relax and make your husband feel good, and I would recommend IShine. It is know to uplifting mood, making the people around you feel good. I would also recommend Instant Sexiness for spicing up the relationship, IS/A project a confident sexy female vibe, while IS/B projects a soft kittenist sexy female vibe. You can choose which ever verson you would like to be or you husband love. IH also a great social productss for helping to deepen your conversation and connection of more closeness with your HB.

Wearing pheros, and give him a massage would be a great help for your relationship. (IMHO I myself love to be massaged by my gf when I am not well or feel tired)

Hope this help

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**Author:** ![pretty123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9f8e36/32.png) [@pretty123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pretty123)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 6:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/5 "2009-07-05T06:57:29Z")

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Wow.. I am so excited. I can’t wait to try these. By the way thanks for ur reply.

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**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/6 "2009-07-05T12:07:58Z")

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Hey Pretty,

Welcome to the forum.

The people above have recommended some good products. Some of the females should be by soon, and may be able to help some more.

I would second the idea of checking out the threads MCO recommended, and take a look around at some of the products using the search feature.

I assure you there are others here who have gone through, and are going through a similiar situation.

Don’t be affraid to ask questions, you have found a very knowledgable community that is more than willing help.

Please let us know what you decide on.

Again, Welcome

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**Author:** ![Flirtatious](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flirtatious/32/2270_2.png) [@Flirtatious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flirtatious)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/7 "2009-07-05T13:31:09Z")

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Hi Pretty!

Welcome! Your situation seems frustrating, I hope you can find here what you’re looking for, there’s quite some stuff for us girls here that can help you!

You already had the reccomendation for ISEXI A and B and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). Shine is quite a mood lifter which is a really good suggestion, it might relax him some more.

ISEXI A gives you a more dominant vibe and ISEXI B is more playful, you know best when your husband might like! Make sure you read the Womens guide, since there are more products that might help you, but they are harder to work with. I’m not sure if I can mention them here, but read there, and you’ll find out al about the really sexy stuff 😉

Wait… here’s the link: [Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/30399/8 "2009-07-07T21:09:40Z")

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Welcome to Pherotalk Pretty123!

I agree that the situation may be frustrating for you and I am sure he feels the same way too. Continue to be patient and loving to him not forgetting that you too love each other and not many people are lucky enough to find this thing called love.

In addition to the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) I suggest you get him away from home if you can at a place that can relax him and get his mind off work.

Good luck and keep us updated on how we can further assist you.

Your GC was already issued!
