# new here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 15, 2008, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187 "2008-02-15T18:02:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ibgb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ac8455/32.png) [@ibgb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ibgb)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/1 "2008-02-15T18:02:54Z")
my name is greg and recently divorced 39 yr old. I am a little shy but involved in a lot of group activities. nice to meet you guys and hope to talk soon ---
**Author:** ![Baldman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baldman/32/2015_2.png) [@Baldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baldman)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/2 "2008-02-15T18:14:49Z")
Welcome mate 🙂 I think you’ll find your stay here a very pleasant one, even if you don’t buy anything it’s still a great community to be a part of. Everybody here is amazingly helpful. Throw a little more info our way so we can get to know some more about you. Where are you from? What is your ethnicity? What do you hope to get from your use of [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)? All those things will help the experts here guide you onto the right road to acheive the outcome you’re looking for 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ibgb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ac8455/32.png) [@ibgb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ibgb)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/3 "2008-02-15T18:18:26Z")
6’1" 250 caucasian male 39 yrs old from atlanta ga. U.S.A. I just purchased a314 and instant female magic for social interaction and dating. thanks for any help you can give. ---
**Author:** ![Baldman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baldman/32/2015_2.png) [@Baldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baldman)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/4 "2008-02-15T18:24:45Z")
Good choices there mate, I am by no means an expert, I’m only new myself but I’ve picked up alot by reading the mens forum back to front. Personally I’d add some - Ammo : The basic staple of most of the people here, adds attraction and some lesser effects of A314. PERFECT for dating - Instant Shine: Another very popular pheromone for users here, this will perk up the people around you and make things far easier in a dating situation. This apparently also mixes very well when combined with Ammo. A314, when used in the wrong way, can be intimidating to new people and for us inexperienced users (After we’ve figured out our optimal application) should be cut down a little bit with a [social Pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) to lighten the status and intimidation that A314 can bring since it can be a bit ‘full on’ in a dating situation. Depends on the kind of girls you’re going after though 😉. Some of the experts in here will be able to tell you how to get the most out of your A314/ Instant female magic combo though 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/5 "2008-02-15T18:25:46Z")
Hi Greg, welcome to Pherotalk! The mens section stickies are a great beginners read and will help you to understand the products available more quickly, the stickies are the posts pinned to say above the other posts. Have you decided which products you might be interested in already? I am rather shy myself, instant honesty and instant openness helped me to open up and be more talkative in social situations and people respond well to them also. Either may be helpful to you too. Instant shine is another great product to wear socially it gives a feel good vibe to the wearer and those around you. What inspired you to try pheromones or have you used them before? ---
**Author:** ![ibgb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ac8455/32.png) [@ibgb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ibgb)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/6 "2008-02-15T18:30:29Z")
bought some pherlure a couple of months ago but any thing that I noticed was very subtle but I like the fragrance. from what I’ve read so far the a314 is a decent alpha male formula. thought I would try the female magic to offset the intimidation factor . ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/7 "2008-02-15T18:35:11Z")
The socials I mentioned would also be good to offset any intimidation you might notice. A lot of the new users here have posted about Pherlure, and unfortunately most are unhappy with it. You’ll love your new Androtics products! ---
**Author:** ![Baldman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baldman/32/2015_2.png) [@Baldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baldman)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/8 "2008-02-15T18:36:42Z")
Another one stung by Pherlure hey? 🙂 Join the club. While it does work for some (read very few) people most of us have found it to be nothing more than a great smelling cologne. Actually Instant female magic looks like it might be a good companion for the A314. But I admit I don’t know alot about how well they mix. Seems like a good team though 🙂. Overall, your reason for trying pheromones is a very common one and many many people here have found success in using Pheromones for the same reasons. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2008, 6:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/9 "2008-02-15T18:42:13Z")
Hello Greg and welcome to the forum. A314 is a great product but it is very touchy for social sets and datingl. You are going to be projecting a very apha leader kinda vibe that you are going to have to BE in order to carry it through. The problem comes in that it can push away a lot of women. IT will draw certain woman who are drawn to those kind of men. But if you are not the part, they will sort it out quickly. I agree with Baldman and Inkling - Ammo and the social products like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty are probably your best bet given your personality and dating aims. The good news is that by posting here you will get a $15.00 gift certificate towards some more toys! Welcome again to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2008, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/9187/10 "2008-02-16T00:39:12Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 Hmmm I dont know if those were the best choices for what your looking to achieve. A314 is great and gives off the alpha respect vibe but it dosnt nessesarily attract. You will have to initiate because most people will be waiting for a cue from you. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is to calm and ease it wont off set the intimidation much. Instant Shine and Instant Openness do that. Ishine is warm and upbeat it draws people to you. IO is happy and chatty and also draws people to you. No worries though, when you get your GC just get a to-go bottle of Ishine and that should take care of it. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours** 😃 If you have questions just ask 😉 Tisha