Hello Msquick! Welcome to the forum.
There are lots of pheros, and some are more suited to the workplace than others. A good one to start with is Instant Openness. It’s a fun, lighthearted phero that encourages people to talk to you, and makes them feel more chatty.
Another one that is fun is Instant Shine. It’s bright, confident, and a mood uplifter.
If you’re looking to convince your husband, try Instant Sexiness, either A or B. There are two varieties, and the following link will help explain the difference.