# New Member Hi! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 21, 2008, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923 "2008-05-21T12:07:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![IT\_Ninja](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4da419/32.png) [@IT\_Ninja](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/IT_Ninja)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/1 "2008-05-21T12:07:14Z")
Hey everyone, I was referred to this site by my wife of all people haha. I live in a small town where I do non-profit computer work for the family’s around here that just cannot afford the ridiculous price for computer service. I have an associates degree in Information Technology and I do street magic on the side. My wife and I have been together since college about 3-4 years ago. Things are starting to get a little stale around the edges of the relationship,So we both came to the decision to try dating other people (We are being very adult about the whole situation). Mainly I am looking for shear sexual attraction and possibly something that would make a woman more comfortable around me. Granted I am a magician and that usually breaks the ice easily, We are both kinda running our own little fun test’s with these [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). P.S. Anyone that happens to be concerned about me and her relationship (As thats usually how it goes) We are just trying this temporarily. We both are still madly in love with each other, We both feel it would just strengthen out relationship to spend some time with others, we still live together. Thanks people, Peace ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/2 "2008-05-21T16:25:17Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. wow a wife who refered you - that is great. You will not need to explain or broach the subject gingerly. Not to mention the cost - lol. Great situation. Well I will leave the relationship thing up to you. As far as pheromones go - I would go with Ammo, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IO and IH. TUTH may be a consideration also if you are just looking to close the deal once you get some rapport established. ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/3 "2008-05-21T16:29:12Z")
Hey IT and welcome to the forum. TO get you started I reccomend taking a look at the stickies in the mens section. There is a lot of great advice there for newbies (and even phero veterans). Take a look at the different products available and what others have experienced while using them. You wil find that each person has found a certain product works especially well with their chemistry and it is the one that they will often reccomend. Being a female I havent tried the mens products (except for TUTH, which I LOVE) But if you want to give off a good sexual comfortable vibe I would start with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), it seems to be a male staple around here. Your younger so make sure with all the products you try that you start with a little and add 1 spray until you find your sweet spot.(less is often better) Where are you planning on meeting the ladies? If you are going to be looking for purely sexual encounters, you may want to go with a product like Dirty or TUTH. Otherwise if you want to come across more softer yet distinguished around the ladies go for some iunstant gentleman. The social pheros (Instant Honesty, Openness, and shine) are always helpful in breaking the ice. Why dont you tell us a bit more about the situations you are wanting to meet these other ladies and how you act around them now. Welcome to the forum!!! CC 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/4 "2008-05-21T16:36:05Z")
Hi IT\_Ninja & nice to have you as a member 🙂 So you are refered here by your wife, good for you 🙂 You have to come to the right place. Anyway that’s kind of you to help your community there that can’t afford to pay computer services 🙂 So you are looking at pheros here to help in your relationship with your wife. I say go for it! With your talent as a magician & pheros here i have confidence that you will strengthen your relationship even better with your wife 🙂 For more detail in phero here click on this link\> [Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168) & for other info on phero, do check the Men’s Forum here & ask any of the experienced ones here if you have any questions. I hope you will enjoy yourself while in here 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![nnn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/58f4c7/32.png) [@nnn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nnn)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/5 "2008-05-21T16:43:40Z")
Hi and welcome, > [@IT\_Ninja](#): > > … for shear sexual attraction… Turn up the Heat or [Raw Power](https://a314.com/product/raw-power/) would work well, as the raw sexual mone is -none. > [@](#): > > …something that would make a woman more comfortable around me. Granted I am a magician and that usually breaks the ice easily… This one has more possibilities. I’d say IFM or IH, but that’s just based on my personal experience. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 5:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/6 "2008-05-21T17:22:02Z")
Hi IT, Welcome to the forum. It is a strange arrangement with your wife on dating others. Hope it will bring the best out from both of you to enhance your relationship. I think Ammo is the best phero to recommend. It will attract girls and it has also mild sexual attraction. It is a all rounder product and you won’t get OD from using it. IH is also good to have girls more intimate with you and talk more personal stuffs with you. It will also make the conversation more meaningful and longer asting. Have fun ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 10:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-hi/12923/7 "2008-05-21T22:57:51Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Hey as long as your both happy thats what counts and I think its great you can both be mature and understanding of each others needs. We are all pretty open minded here. You have to be cause we talk about all sort of subjects LOL I think you should get Turn Up The Heat for sexual attraction. This would be best for when your on a date or clubbing. I also think for comfort you should try [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) or Instant Honesty IFM is best for when women are cranky or having PMS but it also helps ease womens nerves and gives comfort. Oh Yeah I wanted to add that AMMO would be good for daily use, You dont want to wear TUTH for normal everyday activity. AMMO has a mild arousing attractive vibe. IH is more intimate and deep but it also adds comfort. If you have any questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email shortly** 😃 Tisha