# New member- Pheromone Suggestions for Gay Attraction, Dating & Confidence. 27/M/USA **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 8, 2016, 5:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054 "2016-06-08T05:12:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![abaproo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7cd45c/32.png) [@abaproo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/abaproo)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 5:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/1 "2016-06-08T05:12:43Z")
Hello all, new member, looking to start trying [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I’d kinda like to have a little more confidence in my daily life (work) and I’d like to get back into the dating scene(single for 7 years), but I’m a little rusty and have a hard time starting a conversation sometimes. Once I get a conversation going, I can usually keep them on the hook for hours, but the attraction to become a little more than acquaintances never seems to be there. I’d love to be the charming, handsome, confident CEO that everyone admires by day and the charming, handsome, confident, sexual animal by night… but I’ll settle for something in between. Any suggestions are welcome. Also, money is tight for a couple more months so probably starting slow. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 11:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/2 "2016-06-08T11:48:34Z")
Hello and welcome. Usually i recommend UPIP for newbie’s, but in your scenario , would say directly jump onto A314 oil , use it with IS and AMMO (when ever close to females). Start with lower doses, and find your sweet spot. (caution A314 is a potent stuff so, always, be on lower side of doses, may be with 1 drop, when with females, else they will consider you as a serious male). ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2016, 6:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/3 "2016-06-08T18:48:30Z")
Hi abaproo, Welcome to this forum. I am not the best person to give you recommendations for the gay side of things, but I can give you general recommendations for the social and work situations. IOpenness: This will help you strike conversations with complete strangers more easily. People will be more enclined to follow through ith the conversation. IGentleman: This is a status booster. A great product for the workplace. It gives grounded self-confidence and helps keep a col head in the most unnerving situations. People will ask for your advice a lot. A314: This is a stronger status booster which gives out a leadership vibe. It comes in spray and in oil. The spray version is included in the men’s starter pack so does the other products mentionned above. Regarding the dating or party scene, you’ll want to try [MX297](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx297/), it makes you the life and soul of the party if you act accordingly. Regarding gay attraction, I suggest you have a look at Hankbuddy’s and Zedster’s journals in the men’s section. They have great journals on the subject. ---
**Author:** ![abaproo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7cd45c/32.png) [@abaproo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/abaproo)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2016, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/4 "2016-06-09T04:22:00Z")
Thanks! I’ve read a couple of replies from Hankbuddy but I’ll have to go look for their journals. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2016, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/5 "2016-06-09T13:22:18Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, abaproo! I’ll agree with the guys’ recommendation. A visit on the journals of those two mentioned above would greatly help you. It will give you an idea for you to play with and to see where are you going to start your own [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) journey. 🙂 I know the GC I sent into your email would be very useful. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 =========== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“New member- 27/M/gay/USA- looking for suggestions”** to **“New member- Pheromone Suggestions for Gay Attraction, Dating & Confidence. 27/M/USA”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2016, 3:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/6 "2016-06-11T15:08:55Z")
Hi abaproo, Welcome to the site. I totally agree with looking into Hank’s and Zedster’s journal as you will see what is working for them. I know you mentioned money is tight, but if you can I would still look into the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would get everything you are looking for and then some. The kit is already discounted at $150 and with the $25GC it would be $125 plus I see you are in the states so you would qualify for free shipping also which is a $10 saving, so I would really consider it because in the end it does come down to experimenting to see what is best for you. So for about $115 you would get everything to try shipped. I will still list a few in case you really want just a few. 1. **MB** I have not seen many reports on this one, but it is designed for a gay man so I would look into this one. 2. **[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)** I think you will have good luck with this one. From what I understand gay men are attracted to a man’s signature so this should work out good. Very balanced and nice cologne scent to. Very balanced and good for day game. For attraction. 3. **A314** For the CEO vibe and work this is your best bet. They have the A314A and A314B spray also in the smaller 5ML spray bottles being on a budget. The B is a softer version. This thing is the Holy Grail for a lot of us for business and work. This will just command respect and Authority. 4. **IO** This is an ice breaker and will make the approach a lot easier. For maximum effect I would try on your neck so it helps you open up to. There are so many that can help you that it is really hard to list them all. I know the kit may be slightly more, but if you look into it and what you are getting you will spend almost the same amount if you order a lot of these separate. The kit also does come with the A314 spray also, so well worth it. Whatever you decide though we are here if you have any questions. ---
**Author:** ![abaproo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7cd45c/32.png) [@abaproo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/abaproo)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2016, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/7 "2016-06-13T01:51:00Z")
> [@Dee\_A](#): > > Welcome to PheromoneTalk, abaproo! > > I know the GC I sent into your email would be very useful. 🙂 > > =========== > _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“New member- 27/M/gay/USA- looking for suggestions”** to **“New member- Pheromone Suggestions for Gay Attraction, Dating & Confidence. 27/M/USA”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ I’m looking forward to ordering but I haven’t found the $25 GC in my email. All I saw was the email with your response but no GC. Any help would be great. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2016, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/8 "2016-06-13T04:39:23Z")
Maybe check your email account’s junk mail box or spam folder. The gcs sometimes end up there, sadly 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2016, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/9 "2016-06-13T09:24:09Z")
Yep. check the spam box. And make sure that you are checking the right email. I always send GCs to emails used in registering an account to PTalk. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2017, 11:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-pheromone-suggestions-for-gay-attraction-dating-confidence-27-m-usa/66054/10 "2017-08-23T11:00:23Z")
Hi abaproo! I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it all fine. Don’t forget to share your test results, my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-pheromone-advice-tricks-and-tips/men-s-journals/22) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. It’s your own phero time machine. For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-pheromone-advice-tricks-and-tips/45). Expert pheromone users usually browse this area. Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you. There are new perfume oils now in the store that may suit your needs too by the way. You might wanna check it out. Thanks! Chat soon!