# New member saying hello!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [November 4, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491 "2008-11-04T19:26:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 12\
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**Author:** ![myblackgirl777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f0a364/32.png) [@myblackgirl777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myblackgirl777)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/1 "2008-11-04T19:26:40Z")

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Hello!  
Im M, from London, (UNITED KINGDOM) im 20 years old and im female!  
I randomly got introduced to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) on another forum, based on how to capture a man,!!  
the lady said she strongly belives in the chemistry so i did a little research which lead me here, and with such an addictive personality that i seem to have im ready to make my first purchase!  
If it works on me i will be spreading the news to LONDON! LOL  
Look forward to becoming an active memeber of this forum!

Thanks  
M!

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**Author:** ![myblackgirl777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f0a364/32.png) [@myblackgirl777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myblackgirl777)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2008, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/2 "2008-11-04T19:27:48Z")

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OH I HAVE just come out of a 4 year relationship (yes since i was 15-16!)  
so never really looked at any guys so hoping it will give me a boost to my confidance to chat to random guys!!  
I also like the pretty boys!

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**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/3 "2008-11-04T19:38:32Z")

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Hi M, welcome to the forum!

I believe they’re out at the moment, but you probably want to start by looking at Instant Sexiness. It comes in two versions. Version A is rough tomboy (ala Angelina Jolie) and version B is soft sex kitten (ala Marilyn Monroe). You’ll have to decide which best suits your personality.

Instant Shine will give you an extra boost in confidence, as well as enable others to see you as more confidence. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) can help get people chatting around you too.

Hope this helps, good luck!

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2008, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/4 "2008-11-04T20:04:19Z")

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Welcome M-  
for a confidence boost and a happy vibe I would recommend [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). It will give you and those around you a happy vibe which will carry over to other products you might be wearing.

as for social chatting, IO, IH and CTTM2 are the ones to try, they vary slightly in effect and have some good points.  
IO is good for starting conversations, more people say hi to you  
IH is good for carrying conversations, it helps keep people talking.  
CTTM2 is somewhere in the middle some say a 50/50 mix, but it’s effects are not the same or similar to IO+IH, it is more of a people start talking about random stuff you might be intersted in, and then they keep talking.

Best of luck to you, and let us know how they work for you.

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2008, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/5 "2008-11-04T21:02:00Z")

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Hello and wlecome to the forum.

So you like the pretty boys hmmm - sorry - pretty I’m not. Not even cute. But even if I were I’m married and more than twice your age … lol.

Robbie and Woofie have given you a good preak-down and some pretty good advice with the social products. They can be used in a variety of situations from work to general social to romance.

As far as the womens-specific products go, I know them pretty well but I generally prefer to leave those recommendations up to the experts who use them. Maybe one of the pretty guys here can help .. lol. J/K.

Good luck and I am sure one of the ladies will be by to give you a proper welcome soon. I promise there are lots of women users here.

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2008, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/6 "2008-11-04T22:15:03Z")

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Hi! Awesome! Another female poster on board!! Yeahhh!!🙂

Well, looks like the guys gave you a nice welcome but I thought I’d pop in here too! So, tell us about your personality…outgoing? shy? talkative? strong-willed? Also, is your only goal to chat more with random guys 🙂 or will you be using them elsewhere like work, clubbing, general socializing, etc? Those sorts of things will help us to give better recommendations 😉

You may want to start reading thru the stickies in both the men’s and women’s forums too as they contain some really good info!

Glad to have you here and will be looking forward to your reply…

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 2:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/7 "2008-11-05T02:49:32Z")

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

Can you tell us a little more about your personality and objective for mones. Is it just increased socialization your looking for or do you want to drive them mad LOL 😉

Are you shy or outgoing ? Confident ?

I am looking forward to your reply so I can send you for your GC.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![myblackgirl777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f0a364/32.png) [@myblackgirl777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myblackgirl777)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 8:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/8 "2008-11-05T20:32:20Z")

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WOW!  
Im really impressed with this forum lots of replies to my small contribution, really appreciated.  
Well  
i think i have a split personality! for one, i model and compete in pageants in my spare time (Which would suggest im confidant) but in the same breath i can be quite shy!

however since the separation of my boyfriend and I, i think i have become generally more confidant in myself, thoose around me.  
So i dont belive i am shy any more, maybe im just too used to saying it.

I am a more inward although i do think this is changing too with the new found self belief!  
I am not really talkative, people sometimes call me a snob! (but its only because of the shyness at times!)

My objectives!

-Get a fantastic job once i graduate, which means going through the interview process, which can involve various interviews talking and demonstrating strong confidant personality

-Meet my husband!( lol, yes im 20! not planning to marry till 27-30!) however i want to have a long relationship before i do get married, and since my ex was my husband/planning to be my husband im back to square one! so i need to find a replacement! lol..

-to be generally confidant

-I am also crap at flirting so i guess confidance will also help in that section.  
I have been on this site for about 36hours lol since finding out about it on tuesday learning as much as possible, and i think  
the angelina j looks interesting as does the instant shine, and the mx135.

thanks once again for all your support its FANTASTIC!

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/9 "2008-11-05T23:05:17Z")

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> [@myblackgirl777](#):
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> i think i have a split personality!

LOL!

> [@myblackgirl777](#):
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> i model and compete in pageants in my spare time

Wow! You must be stunning!😃 We have several known beauties on this site (I’ve seen pics!). I guess this forum is beautiful, inside and out!😉

I LOVE that you wrote down your objectives like that! It’s VERY helpful! Reps to ya!

> [@myblackgirl777](#):
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> i think  
> the angelina j looks interesting as does the instant shine, and the mx135.

I think you would do well with Instant Sexiness A (“Angelina Jolie in a bottle”), [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and MX135. I LOVE wearing ISexiness/A and IShine!!! They make me feel really sexy and confident and puts me in a good mood. MX135 is fun and sexy too! Great choices!!!

You may also want to consider adding Instant Openess to your bag of goodies too. It’s a great personal space diminisher, and helps make people open up and talk more and gives a nice “connected” feeling.

You’re on the right track!!! Keep us informed of your adventures!!

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**Author:** ![myblackgirl777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f0a364/32.png) [@myblackgirl777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myblackgirl777)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/10 "2008-11-05T23:10:05Z")

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[quote=“river”]

LOL!

Wow! You must be stunning!😃 We have several known beauties on this site (I’ve seen pics!). I guess this forum is beautiful, inside and out!😉

I LOVE that you wrote down your objectives like that! It’s VERY helpful! Reps to ya!

I think you would do well with Instant Sexiness A (“Angelina Jolie in a bottle”), Instant Shine, and MX135. I LOVE wearing ISexiness/A and IShine!!! They make me feel really sexy and confident and puts me in a good mood. MX135 is fun and sexy too! Great choices!!!

I Actually love this forum already! you guys are so friendly and helpful thanks for taking time to comment and help me!

Truely fantastic!

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [November 6, 2008, 9:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/11 "2008-11-06T09:02:40Z")

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I’m so glad you decided to come back and post more about yourself. A BIG welcome from me to you on [PheroTalk.com](http://PheroTalk.com) Tisha would have loved to bop back around, but unfortunately she had some family stuff to tend to. She did ask me to ensure that you got yourself qualified for the GC and guess what? You did with flying colors too 🙂

Sounds like you got yourself some expert advice already from our lovely ladies. I want bog you down with a guy trying to dish out female advice though. **I will say that your GC is on its way**

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**Author:** ![myblackgirl777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f0a364/32.png) [@myblackgirl777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myblackgirl777)\
**Post date:** [November 6, 2008, 11:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member-saying-hello/22491/12 "2008-11-06T11:44:32Z")

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oh wow, thanks i didnt realise you get a GC!  
What a great community!  
i shall have to go to my other forum and get some of the ladies to come here!
