# New member **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 31, 2008, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780 "2008-01-31T14:06:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![elpcmdlw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/91b2a8/32.png) [@elpcmdlw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/elpcmdlw)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780/1 "2008-01-31T14:06:39Z")
Hello Everyone. My name is Dolores and I reside in upstate N.Y. I work in the mental health field and love my job. I am very interested in all kinds of cats,large and small and would like to try some [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/).I have a man that I am “seeing” but the relationship is stale and not going anywhere.(he says he likes it just the way it is,I do not!) I could use some advice from others. By the way, I have used pheromone products before and never got any results (and they were very expensive) Hoping for some feedback i wish you all a wonderful day! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780/2 "2008-01-31T17:42:20Z")
Welcome Dolores. I’m looking forward to your reports on how animals, mental health patients, and others respond. If you tell us a little about your personality, the ways you relate to others, and what you would like [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to help with, perhaps we can make some suggestions of interest. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780/3 "2008-01-31T18:15:28Z")
Hello Dolores and welcome to the forum. I can’t give you a whole lot of advice other than to talk to him and see what it is he really wants. If it isn’t the same thing you are looking for, well then, maybe better to be looking than on a dead end street. At the same time there are some great products here that really do work that can help sort things out. IH can get some good deep honest conversation going so you can sort things out. And there are a couple others that can kinda spice things up and see if you can’t get him out of his rut and heading in the right direction. Hopefully Tisha will be by soon to give you the best advice on those “other” products. Again - welcome to the forum. Good luck and looking forward to hearing more from you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780/4 "2008-01-31T18:44:36Z")
Hello Dolores, Welcome to the forum 🙂 What have you used before may I ask ? Just the product names no links, this will help us determine what may work better for you. There is alot of great products here and the best part is you can buy small to-go size bottles to try them out before spending alot of a big bottle. Plus you have us in the forum to help you learn to use them. It takes a little practice to get it right. Its not always easy to mimic what mother nature gave us. I think the best place to start is with Instant sexiness A. Its sexy strong and attracts attention. Alot of ladies report increased confidence with wearing it to. Another good one to try is Instant Shine, this is a upbeat youthful mix that draws people to you and makes them feel great. Its one of my favorites. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) or Instant Honesty is great to open people up. Instant Openness is more chatty fun while Instant Honesty is more of a deep conversation and closeness type mix. If you have any questions just pop on down to the ladies forum. We have alot of fun down there. Look forward to chatting 🙂 😃 **Your GC will be in your email in the next 48 hours 😃** Tish ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780/5 "2008-01-31T19:00:51Z")
Hi Dolores, welcome to the forum. Tisha has given you some great starting points for Androtics products, and I think you will find these products really do work! If you will tell us a little more about personality and how you interact with others, we can probably give you even better advice. If you have looked around the forum your probably already seeing not only what a great source for information on pheromones it is, but also what an awesome group of members we have. If you haven’t been looking around much yet, I encourage you do do so, and would recommend starting with the stickies in the womens section, where you will find lots of helpful tips and information. Again, welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![elpcmdlw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/91b2a8/32.png) [@elpcmdlw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/elpcmdlw)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-member/8780/6 "2008-02-05T20:25:16Z")
Thanks Tisha, I also have some questions, such as if I would like more “attention” and affection from my boyfriend which is the product I should be using and how much? Any ideas? Also, does it matter how old the woman is? (I am post-menopausal in my 50’s) Thanks for all ideas and info. dolores