# New Person Post **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 5, 2008, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985 "2008-08-05T20:03:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Descender](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Descender](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Descender)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2008, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985/1 "2008-08-05T20:03:41Z")
So, I just found this site yesterday. I was reading an ad in a magazine and just wanted to check out [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and this is the place that my google search led me to. A bit about me. I’m 32. I’m married. I’m a confident guy. I’m 6 foot tall, around 200 pounds. I work out quite a bit. Working out is something I’m kind of addicted to. Years ago I used to do some modeling for Banana Republic and a few other men’s stores. So someone thought I was fairly attractive at one time 🙂. But that was years in the past and I’ve lost my hair, so I keep it sheered to the lowest level with clippers. I guess, as far as looks go, I’d be kind of like a cross between Vin Diesel and Kelly Slater. To get to the point, here’s what I want to change: People seem to be very intimidated by me, I don’t want that. I’m not mean at all, I’m a very easy going guy, I never yell, and rarely ever get angry. But when I talk to men, you’d think I was going to hit them. They avert their eyes, look down and act really nervous. When I talk to women, they blush, they fidget, and they stumble over their words. Women give me interested looks on a fairly regular basis, but very few people, women or men will ever strike up a conversation with me unless they’re very self confident people. Now my intention is not to get women, because I’m happy with my relationship and my wife is quite the beautiful woman. But I don’t want people to be intimidated by me. so I’m wondering what would be a good combo to really open people up. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2008, 8:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985/2 "2008-08-05T20:18:31Z")
Hello Descender Good that you found Pherotalk & decided to join it so welcome 😃 By reading your biodata there, well you must be a good looking & mascular guy 🙂 Ok i have analysed your intimidation situation & i would greatly recommend [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) & Instant Shine as these two will give you a much smoother conservation with people in fact breaking the ice & make people feel comfortable with you 🙂 Hope my info helps 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2008, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985/3 "2008-08-05T20:27:53Z")
Welcome to the forum, Descender. Phat sounds called it! Go with the socials like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine. They’ll make you more approachable. Enjoy your stay… ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2008, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985/4 "2008-08-05T20:48:27Z")
hi! welcome to the forum i ditto on the suggestions. i use instant shine myself and it really helps with social situations. it makes ppl want to approach you more and want to stay talking to you. hope i helped a little and welcome! \<3 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2008, 9:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985/5 "2008-08-06T09:12:46Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest a few products. IH Ishine and IFM IH is a deep communication mix but also gives a feeling of comfort and closeness. Ishine is very upbeat and can help soften your persona IFM would be great around the ladies, It calms and eases and makes them less nervous. If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to your participation in the forum. **Your GC will go out shortly 😉** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Descender](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Descender](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Descender)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2008, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-person-post/16985/6 "2008-08-06T19:47:29Z")
I appreciate the help. I’ll probably order several of these within the next few days and try them out to see what works best for me.