# New researcher from PA! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 11, 2011, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-researcher-from-pa/49277 "2011-03-11T19:12:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 9
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 9:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-researcher-from-pa/49277/9 "2011-03-11T21:33:52Z")
> [@LittleMarilyn](#): > > Thanks, that’s extremely helpful! I’m the kind of person who tends to avoid even one beer around others who are drinking, because even the slightest push makes me babble and I’m likely to blurt out something silly that I didn’t mean to say, so narrowing down which product will be least likely to have that affect on me when I wear it is VERY important. I like the trick about the wrists…is it also true for putting it in your hair, round the back of the head, to keep it away from your own nose? Also, is there an optimal wait time, say 15 minutes, between putting it on and then going out to company, which might help mitigate the effects on me? Or do you find that the instant line’s self-effects don’t hit the wearer all at once? > > Thanks so much for your help, I can’t wait to try them all out! [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is the most likely product to get you babbling, so if that is something you really want to avoid, either don’t use it, or use it carefully. And yes, your hair can give great diffusion, I often apply there as well. You will want to test each product separately first, so that you become familiar with how each affects you, and the dosage that produces the best effects. This post should help \*\ ***How to Find Your Sweet Spot?** ([An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration - #9 by SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003/9)) . \*\*Everyone’s chemistry is different, and some products can cause self effects right away, and others might not. You just need to experiment to find out what works best for you. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-researcher-from-pa/49277)._