# New to Cali and new to pherotalk **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 11, 2010, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673 "2010-04-11T22:28:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hellothereguyz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/dfb087/32.png) [@hellothereguyz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hellothereguyz)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/1 "2010-04-11T22:28:58Z")
Hello there guyz and girls . I found this site from google. My Age - 20 Sex - Male Location - LA Okay well i am new to this country so well everything is new to me , the people the places etc. So well i just wanted to go to the clubbing scene and get some girls you know so that i can get accustomeed to this place. Anyway i go to a college too and well i wanna make some friends . esp girls 🆒 so i guess using [pheromones](https://a314.com/) wil give me an extra edge. By the way to increase my chances with girls i am also reading this book called "The Game - Neil Strauss ". This book is about the techniques which Pickup artists use to oickup girls . So well these pheromeones are defintly gonna help me. I am just curious , which pheromones should i buy . I am sure , that i am gonna buy A314 for sure coz i wanna project this alpha male personality. but anyway… Oh yea ! i hope i get the gift certificate 🙂. Maybe more than 25$ . lol just jk PS: sorry for my English. English is not my first language . 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/2 "2010-04-11T22:34:28Z")
Well Well, Hellothereguyz, you already did your research I see. Welcome to the forum! You’re pretty ahead on what you have to do. I have a few questions about you. One is how do you approach women? Do you have a hard time? Are you shy? Are you easy to talk to? Tell us about your personality. A314 would be good but you would need to use perhaps IO or IShine with it, so you seem approachable yet alpha. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) would be a good product to bank on as alone it works well. Club scenes, even TUTH works well. Depends on your motive. Are you trying to go as far as you can go with any girl? Trying to find that one girl? I’m sure you must have qualified for your certificate but answer a few of these and I will help you with recommendations! ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/3 "2010-04-11T23:10:13Z")
A314 is good but can be strong and sometimes intimidating, as was said Instant Openness and Instant Shine can go a long way to making it more approachable and less intimidating. I’ve heard that for your age group [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is a better alternative to A314 but I haven’t used that product myself. Rules of the Game is a good book, you might want to supplement it with Mystery Method and/or Magic Bullets. All are basically based on the same principles and most importantly can teach you to recognize signs that a woman is attracted or interested in you…essential to know if your products are working. If you use A314 limit yourself to a single drop on your finger, split and applied behind your ears and down your neck. Add one or two sprays of Ammo regular strength And one spray of either Shine or IO. ---
**Author:** ![hellothereguyz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/dfb087/32.png) [@hellothereguyz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hellothereguyz)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/4 "2010-04-11T23:17:49Z")
Well , as of now, i am uncertain if i should get the A314. Its bcoz i was reading some posts and some ppl mentioned that A314 gives u that grandfatherly personality . So i am still uncertain about what i should get, u knw. … About my personality: Well the thing is that i have never ever approached women. It might be coz i was too shy well to be exact i guess i didnt have balls to approach them lol. But now after reading this book and researching more abt Mysteries methods, i am confident as of now. My main motive: It is to stop those awkward silences when i talk to girls and well, make them more friendly and open. PS: i was thinking to buy A314 coz it is an oil based product and i live in the valley so it is hot and humidity is next to none. but anyway i open to suggestions ---
**Author:** ![hellothereguyz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/dfb087/32.png) [@hellothereguyz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hellothereguyz)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/5 "2010-04-11T23:20:33Z")
So what do you guys think? is it a good idea to use , like a single drop ( maybe even half ) of A314 combined with instant openness ? ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/6 "2010-04-11T23:21:15Z")
Don’t worry about the grandfatherly vibe. If you buffer it with the right products it just says “In control”. Ammo makes it sexier, Shine makes it more fun and likable. ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/7 "2010-04-11T23:22:26Z")
> [@hellothereguyz](#): > > My main motive: > It is to stop those awkward silences when i talk to girls and well, make them more friendly and open. Take Rad’s advice and try [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) along with Instant Openness (for the opening up part).. Instant Shine can replace the Openness as well or you can try all 3 in a combo. or as he said, A314 and buffer it..you should be fine 😛 ---
**Author:** ![hellothereguyz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/dfb087/32.png) [@hellothereguyz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hellothereguyz)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/8 "2010-04-11T23:25:24Z")
And what do you guys recommend for the Club scene? ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/9 "2010-04-11T23:28:25Z")
Ammo plus shine, period ---
**Author:** ![hellothereguyz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/dfb087/32.png) [@hellothereguyz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hellothereguyz)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/10 "2010-04-11T23:31:01Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > Ammo plus shine, period What about turn up the heat + shine ? i am just curious 😕 ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/11 "2010-04-11T23:34:08Z")
Turn up the heat is good for me, but I’m almost twice your age and I mix it with other products. Ammo is more well rounded and thus more cost efficient. Plus it’s less likely to come off as too sexually aggressive to some people. ---
**Author:** ![hellothereguyz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/dfb087/32.png) [@hellothereguyz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hellothereguyz)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/12 "2010-04-11T23:35:13Z")
cool, thanx!! 🙂 So a314 plus IO for sure? ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2010, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/13 "2010-04-11T23:39:02Z")
either io or shine ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2010, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-cali-and-new-to-pherotalk/37673/14 "2010-04-12T23:37:22Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.