# New to...Everything! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 21, 2011, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845 "2011-06-21T03:28:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/1 "2011-06-21T03:28:53Z")
Hello everyone! I am new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/), and also to this forum. I have to admit though, between last night and today I have read so many posts I feel like I have been here forever already! I’ve known about pheromones for quite awhile and have looked them up online and in reviews, but didnt really come across anything like this forum to really put me over the edge and take the plunge…also I have a personal situation going on right now that gives me extra motivation to give it a try, but more on that later 😃 I talked to someone who uses pheromones for work in sales, she works with mostly men and though shes not sure whether it does work or not, shes up for anything that could give her an edge. I looked up what shes uses online and the reviews were kind of all over the place…I started googling, one thing led to another and thats how I found this site. For my personal situation and my interest in pheromones, Im early 30’s and single. I was in a long term relationship with a guy now in his late 30’s. We were about to move in together and talking marriage when everything came to an abrupt and heartbreaking end a couple years ago…we havnt been intimate in over a year now. We really have just been spending time together as just friends. Over the past couple of weeks, things have taken a a turn for us, in that hes gotten a lot more affectionate, asking me out a lot more, instead of just seeing me for lunch or such hes invited me out to things with his friends and even with his family again, and hes even cooked dinner for me and a few times now Ive spent the night, no sex…just sleeping together. I placed an order (which should be arriving tomorrow!!!) of IS and IS/b both in To Go to test them out. I am very interested in the IS, because hes had so many problems with work and his health that he’s just not happy and his mood is so in the pits, but he looks forward to time with me, and has asked me about going on a couple trips with him this summer. I guess in a way, I wonder if the IS will really add to how he feels and associate me with that feel good vibe. And also hoping the IS/b will just put things over the edge in the intimate department too. From everything Ive been reading here, pheromones cant make something happen that isnt meant to be, but can add to what already exists… That we do still love and care about each other a lot does give me some hope. My family is convinced hes going through a mid-life crisis (hes never been married and no kids, plus hes the child of a super messy divorce) and that getting so close to it with me freaked him out. Its just that…I want more than a close friendship and as of a few days ago, he told me that he wants more for us as well, but hes just not ready for it yet. Also, theres been a lot more sexual tension between us lately, but neither of us have acted on it…just really affectionate and flirtatious. If this in any way can help I would be more than happy for it. At a minimum, if the IS can make him more optimistic and in more of a feel good mood, not hearing him complain all the time would be worth it 😛 Okay, so that is my intro, both to the forum and to pheromones! I should be getting my shipment tomorrow morning, and I will be seeing him tomorrow too…so Ill get my chance to test it out and see how it works. If you read through all of this thank you! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/2 "2011-06-21T03:40:56Z")
> [@OutreDame](#): > > Hello everyone! > > I am new to pheromones, and also to this forum. I have to admit though, between last night and today I have read so many posts I feel like I have been here forever already! > > I’ve known about pheromones for quite awhile and have looked them up online and in reviews, but didnt really come across anything like this forum to really put me over the edge and take the plunge…also I have a personal situation going on right now that gives me extra motivation to give it a try, but more on that later 😃 > > I talked to someone who uses pheromones for work in sales, she works with mostly men and though shes not sure whether it does work or not, shes up for anything that could give her an edge. I looked up what shes uses online and the reviews were kind of all over the place…I started googling, one thing led to another and thats how I found this site. > > For my personal situation and my interest in pheromones, Im early 30’s and single. I was in a long term relationship with a guy now in his late 30’s. We were about to move in together and talking marriage when everything came to an abrupt and heartbreaking end a couple years ago…we havnt been intimate in over a year now. We really have just been spending time together as just friends. > > Over the past couple of weeks, things have taken a a turn for us, in that hes gotten a lot more affectionate, asking me out a lot more, instead of just seeing me for lunch or such hes invited me out to things with his friends and even with his family again, and hes even cooked dinner for me and a few times now Ive spent the night, no sex…just sleeping together. > > I placed an order (which should be arriving tomorrow!!!) of IS and IS/b both in To Go to test them out. I am very interested in the IS, because hes had so many problems with work and his health that he’s just not happy and his mood is so in the pits, but he looks forward to time with me, and has asked me about going on a couple trips with him this summer. I guess in a way, I wonder if the IS will really add to how he feels and associate me with that feel good vibe. And also hoping the IS/b will just put things over the edge in the intimate department too. > > From everything Ive been reading here, pheromones cant make something happen that isnt meant to be, but can add to what already exists… That we do still love and care about each other a lot does give me some hope. My family is convinced hes going through a mid-life crisis (hes never been married and no kids, plus hes the child of a super messy divorce) and that getting so close to it with me freaked him out. Its just that…I want more than a close friendship and as of a few days ago, he told me that he wants more for us as well, but hes just not ready for it yet. Also, theres been a lot more sexual tension between us lately, but neither of us have acted on it…just really affectionate and flirtatious. If this in any way can help I would be more than happy for it. > > At a minimum, if the IS can make him more optimistic and in more of a feel good mood, not hearing him complain all the time would be worth it 😛 Okay, so that is my intro, both to the forum and to pheromones! I should be getting my shipment tomorrow morning, and I will be seeing him tomorrow too…so Ill get my chance to test it out and see how it works. If you read through all of this thank you! 😃 No problem 🙂 Welcome to Pherotalk though 😃 You choice was right about the products you picked. You can help your situation by dropping hints on how should things between both of you should work. Remember pheromones are just tools that you have to use in your own way still. Looking forward to your journal 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/3 "2011-06-21T03:53:46Z")
Thanks so much PheroJack! Now that you mention it, I will start a journal! 😃 I did also think of getting IO and IH to try and help too, but with my personality, I decided against it. Well, definitely the IO at least, he complains about work and his health so much as it is, Im not sure I want to hear him go on about it even more! Also, if you cant tell, Im such a chatterbox as it is…and Ill strike up convo with anyone anywhere, so that might be kind of dangerous for me. I _really_ would love though to try the IH around him, deeper conversations with him would be lovely, but again, Im afraid it will work on me too, and Ill end up being the one to spill my guts all over the place. Also, perfect strangers always feel compelled to tell me their life stories, so I think that whatever is in IO and IH, I over produce naturally..hah! I start a journal when I get my shipment tomorrow and document how it goes 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/4 "2011-06-21T03:55:29Z")
> [@OutreDame](#): > > Thanks so much PheroJack! Now that you mention it, I will start a journal! 😃 > > I did also think of getting IO and IH to try and help too, but with my personality, I decided against it. Well, definitely the IO at least, he complains about work and his health so much as it is, Im not sure I want to hear him go on about it even more! Also, if you cant tell, Im such a chatterbox as it is…and Ill strike up convo with anyone anywhere, so that might be kind of dangerous for me. > > I _really_ would love though to try the IH around him, deeper conversations with him would be lovely, but again, Im afraid it will work on me too, and Ill end up being the one to spill my guts all over the place. Also, perfect strangers always feel compelled to tell me their life stories, so I think that whatever is in IO and IH, I over produce naturally..hah! > > I start a journal when I get my shipment tomorrow and document how it goes 🙂 And that’s exactly why I didn’t recommend IO or IH. Seems like that’s not really the addition you need in this relationship, right 😉? And I will make sure to check on your journal 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 3:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/5 "2011-06-21T03:59:01Z")
Am I that obvious?! Hehehe…! Thanks again!!! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/6 "2011-06-21T14:12:39Z")
OMG OMG! My package arrived _just now_!!! Thank you thank you for also including IO and TUTH! Im so excited about that because I read more about TUTH after I placed my order and was so disappointed I didnt include it…you all read my mind! There was a bit of leakage, but not much…I got to smell it though and woah it smells _wonderful!!_ That is the neruoli right? I love it!!! And I often wear essential oils as scents and to mix with my soaps and lotions, so this is right up my alley for what I like. And if anyone asks what scent Im wearing, I can say neruoli without giving away my secret! hehe The candies and handwritten note were such a sweet touch too! Youve now become my favorite place to shop…ever! If I could buy my groceries, clothes and furniture from you I would lol! Im about to go and pick kiddo up from a sleepover, Im going to try the IS and see if it has any effect on her, her friend or her friends mom. Kiddo is as bubbly and happy as I am, so not sure if it will have any affect on her lol! But will be interesting to see! Then, Im heading to my ex’s place right after…and Im going to add TUTH before I see him. Yes I know..so mean! hehe! But dang, its waaay too tempting to try that before I try the IS/b…I mean, now that I have it and all, I should right? Or is this where I do the pherobath and try all three?! 😃 Okay, Ill restrain myself. (maybe) I will definitely start my journal this afternoon after he leaves for work to tell what the results were. Im so excited here!!! Cant wait, cant wait! I dont know if the IS is what leaked and having an effect on me, cause Im just bouncing with excitement here like you woudlnt believe hahaha!!! I definitely need to hold off on the IO for now…Im already so excited, I can imagine Ill be talking a mile a minute about nothing if I put that on, which would definitely counter any effect of TUTH hahaha! Okay, gotta get going, will start my journal in just a few hours. I hope everyone has an amazing day!!! ---
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/7 "2011-06-21T17:21:39Z")
Okay…well, my ex just left for work, and I wish I could say there was a mad firey passion in his eyes as he forced himself to leave…hah! ahhh, but no. Ill put the details in my journal, but I think Im going to have to play around with it to see what works for me… ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2011, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/8 "2011-06-22T19:37:22Z")
Welcome to pherotalk OutreDame! It seems like you are right on for being patient with him and coming to us for that extra push. From what you said in your introduction it seems like things are progressing in the right direction. I wouldn’t be surprised if he himself is on the forum asking for advise on how to open up more to this amazing women in his life. The women in the female section would have more advise and tips on how they got men to come out of their shell. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2011, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-everything/50845/9 "2011-06-23T02:59:56Z")
Thank you so much Mickaelia!! Im guarding that GC to get something _really_ good hahaha!!! Going to do my research and see what works for me. But I dont think that Ill be able to hold onto it too long, its already hot in my hands and I gotta let go! hehe! I really appreciate your advice, I do think things are already on a good path, but the path is sooo long and sooo slow! Anything to jump start things is a good thing! Thanks again!