# New to forum need a recommendation **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 13, 2014, 12:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862 "2014-01-13T00:29:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![fasteddie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/a698b9/32.png) [@fasteddie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fasteddie)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 12:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/1 "2014-01-13T00:29:11Z")
Hello, I’m new to the forum today. I’m 50 years young and a male from Florida. I need a recommendation to what [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to try first to get my wife back that is 46 years young. Ok here is my story, I’m currently separated from my wife. We are going on a ski trip to Colorado that was booked many months ago and she doesn’t want to waste the money, so we are still going on the trip together. At this point we are getting along but she still wants a divorce. When we get back from trip I think she will file for a divorce. We are going to be next to one another a lot of the trip. Like the plane trip, also driving to the ski resort alone in car, the same condo just us nobody else, skiing together plus all the meals we will eat together. I feel I just need and edge to spark things again that is why I’m here. Please help me with my situation. Thanks and looking forward to hearing from you all. ---
**Author:** ![rolandcubed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rolandcubed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rolandcubed)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/2 "2014-01-13T01:05:37Z")
Hey fasteddie, welcome to pherotalk. You’re in an interesting situation. Do you know why she wants to divorce you? Is it a lack of sexual interest or sexual spark? Or are you two terrible at communication? Regardless of the case I’d get IH which gives a feeling of closeness between the user and whoever is near them. Be careful though, she might be very free with her words and you might not like what you hear! Someone else might have better recommendations than me but I think IH is a good start. ---
**Author:** ![GabRulez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gabrulez/32/394_2.png) [@GabRulez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GabRulez)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/3 "2014-01-13T01:45:15Z")
Hey welcome to Pherotalk! Very interesting situation you are in. If you need a spark, I would recommend using [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) wich will change the vibe around you and make both very happy. It has a strong positive effect on humor. But Instant Shine is too simple to be used alone. Too add self confidence, sexyness and a good energy, I recommend using AMMO + Instant Shine. AMMO is probably the most complete product in the instant line. It can be used for seduction, going out and daily wear. As a first time user, I also recommend you using pheromones carefully. The first steps are to find your sweet spot ( the amount of mones calculated in microgramms) and also find the application points. Here is some useful links you can read a bit on it: > [@Application points 101: a guide to where on the body to apply pheromones](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/application-points-101/53343): > > Originally found here: [Application points 101: chest, neck and ears, and taming -none products under a shirt](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/application-points-101/52170) Application Points 101 You gesture your hand with precision, moving across the audiences olfactory senses, with every calculated move, you enhance their senses and draw them in. You smile as you move around the room, trailing behind you the scent, people look around and spot you, from the corner of your eye, you spot a women, possibly of your dreams for that night. You draw her in wit… > [@Phero color chart by MuskCloud: a visual guide to choosing mixes](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/phero-color-chart-by-muskcloud/1833): > > MuskCloud, I uploaded this in photobucket since your attachment was never approved. I hope you don’t mind. Once again, Give all props to MuskCloud. He put a lot of work into this. Hope these advices help. If you have any more questions don’t hesitate to ask. -GabRulez- ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 2:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/4 "2014-01-13T02:53:39Z")
Also, with you at 50 and she at 46, you can use Androstenone much more freely than a younger guy and she will likely be happy with a much more balls-out/status signature. So think on some TUTH, probably 2x (and at 50, get Heavy [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as well) to increase the sexual proportion of the mix as the day/night goes-on. It would also be worth thinking on some A314 - Which has a mature, capable, trusting, status signature that conveys all the right things relationship-wise to adult women. Normally I’d say the oil is best but in order to make the maximum impact in the shortest time, the /a spray is a very viable contender here. Some IH/IS in the mix won’t do any harm as it helps her to open-up in a good/close/bonding/conspiring way and the IS helps keep things on the feelgood track. A314/TUTH and A314/IH/IS/TUTH are two excellent mature/high-status sexual mixes. Although Ammo/IS is maybe better in daytime/general activity/polite company - Save the big-guns for night! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 6:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/5 "2014-01-13T06:51:31Z")
Hello, Eddie! Welcome! I agree that it will be a little hard for us to help you come up with a custom-tailored recommendation unless we know a little more about your situation. I understand that it can feel a little awkward to talk about, but we want to come up with the most effective solution. Does she feel like she’s not very close with you? Does there need to be more connection and bonding? Does she wish you would take on a more masculine or assertive role? Does she feel like you are too assertive or overbearing? Has she lost that romantic spark and wants to regain the attraction? Does she feel inhibited around you? When is this ski trip? How much prep time are we looking at? I agree that [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will probably be good in whatever mix you use. That is a great one for bonding and closeness. ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2014, 8:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/6 "2014-01-14T08:55:04Z")
Hey Eddie, I was just reading up on p96, and it really reminded me of your situation. It might be worth looking into, as it sounds like it would help your situation significantly, even not knowing the full story. It’s a step beyond a blind starting place. Here’s where to find a good amount of info: [Did you miss P96? Well folks it's back in the store again!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/did-you-miss-p96-well-folks-its-back-in-the-store-again/60799) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2014, 9:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-forum-need-a-recommendation/60862/7 "2014-01-14T21:33:35Z")
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