# New to group...Hi **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 26, 2008, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-group-hi/24277 "2008-12-26T21:04:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 9
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-group-hi/24277/9 "2008-12-26T22:12:38Z")
Hi Frank 🙂 Welcome! Well, in addition to Instant Shine, if you’re looking for women to feel more comfortable around you I’d go with [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/). Ammo, of course, is great for sexual attraction. The thing is ya gotta get women comfortable first, right? That and social products like Shine and Instant Openness are the ticket to that ride. Then you can hit 'em with the sexual ones. Get them relaxed and feeling good in your presence before you attempt the kill…much more receptive that way. Instant Honesty is also a wonderful product that enables a deeper level of communication. It inspires deeper less run at the mouth, go-go choo-choo-train conversation than does Instant Openness. It depends on what type of connection you’re trying to achieve. Also, most important, no matter what you spray on…you’re gonna have to walk the walk. Read this it’ll help. 😉 > [@Congruence? What's That?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805): > > What is congruency? We talk about this alot but do we really do a good job of explaining it to a newbie? Do we really understand what goes into congruency ourselves? I looked up an array of definitions to find one that matched my idea of congruent/congruous/congruence. There is the purely mathematical “congruent figures have the exact same size and shape”. Then there is the more legalizish “Congruence is the degree of match between two codes”. My favorite is “Agreement of character (parameter)”. … Oh, and read the rest of the sticky’s at the top of the men’s forum. Lots of great info for you there, too. So, even though you have that “mr. serious” vibe goin’…are you friendly, outgoing…can you talk to/open people? Telling us a bit more about your personality will help us suggest the best products for you. Oh, and could you tell us how you found our little community? That additional info will qualify you for the $25 Gift Certificate our lovely mod Tisha will be around, soon, to issue to you. Good Luck and have a blast Frank! 😃 We’ll look forward to hearing about your adventures. Bella --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-group-hi/24277)._