# New to Mones. Hunt for the Affection, attention, &admiration of men in 20s. Gay/34 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 19, 2015, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076 "2015-10-19T17:23:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![john81226](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/6bbea6/32.png) [@john81226](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/john81226)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2015, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/1 "2015-10-19T17:23:10Z")
Hi, I’m John, a gay male teacher 30s relocating from the inner city to the wide open spaces of rural Colorado. All well and good, except that I’m on the hunt for the admiration, affection, affirmation, and attention of younger (20s) men I meet (NOT my students or colleagues) without falling foul of conservative sensibilities. I’m new to fragrances in general and [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) in particular, yet have jumped into the deep end with both feet. A large shipment will be arriving by the end of the week, and I’ll go from there. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2015, 8:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/2 "2015-10-19T20:31:39Z")
Hi John, Welcome to the site. So what did you order so far? You still should qualify for the 25 GC. I don’t know much about what works for Gay men TBH. I would look at MB(Mystery Boy) and also you have to look into HankBuddy Journal and will find a lot of great info. I hope he comes in and offers you some advice. I wrote some articles in my journal about scent and you are more than welcome to check them out. Neroli is about the standard and works really well and you can use a cover scent if you prefer after it dies down. I would definitely try the pheromones by themselves first. IO you could try this one to help them open up for the shy ones. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2015, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/3 "2015-10-19T21:03:14Z")
Hi John! Welcome to the wonderful world of pheromones! I use these products for both social and business situations, though it’s been more business than social lately. I’m also gay in my late 40s. You said you have a large shipment coming in. What did you get? If you got A314, IG, Instant Shine, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), then you’re off to a good start. I started with IG and IShine with very good results from both men and women. I’m still experimenting with IG, but it seems to capture the attention of both younger and older men for me. Instant Openness is helpful if you’re not the type to initiate conversations, like myself. IShine is also helpful to keep everyone’s mood up. A314 can be helpful if you want to attract guys in their late 20s, but you might need to and IShine. (I just started using A314, so I can’t provide too much information just yet.) Also check out my [journal](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-older-gay-male-perspective/64949). Justintime469 also keeps a great [journal](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/justintime469-journey/63877), very detailed. Products used for straight men to attract women are also useful for gay men to attract other gay men, so I found his information very helpful. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2015, 8:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/4 "2015-10-20T08:08:21Z")
Hi John! Welcome to PheromoneTalk! That’s quite a big shipment indeed. And since you got everything, I think HankBuddy’s recommendations are good. For now, as soon as you got the mones, bear in mind that your primary objective is to get your sweetspot for each of the molecules you ordered. I dropped your free GC into your email earlier y the way. It has no expiry so, you can use it in your future orders. Just retrieve it and save the code number. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ========= _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“New to Pheromones”** to **“New to Mones. Hunt for the Affection, attention, &admiration of men in 20s. Gay/34”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![john81226](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/6bbea6/32.png) [@john81226](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/john81226)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2015, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/5 "2015-10-24T01:22:42Z")
My Shipment arrived today! YAY! on the 1st shelf, 30ml sprays: [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) Instant Honesty Instant Openness Instant Shine Mystery Boy on the 2nd shelf, 10ml Alpha A314 on the 3rd shelf, 5ml Ammunition 1x Ammunition to Go Come Talk to Me 2 Instant Gentleman Instant Honesty 2x Instant Shine 2x Openness to Go Puppy Love Turn Up the Heat 2.5x on the 4th shelf, 5ml MX297 P131 So, as I understand the collective wisdom of the boards, I’ll try each one by itself for a few days, beginning with 1 spray and working my way from there. I do have a question: because I work with kids K-12, are there some of these I should leave at home on days I’m teaching? I also hadn’t considered the self-dosing effects because, of course, I’m the one who will be most exposed to the potions. Thanks for the help! J ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2015, 10:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/6 "2015-10-24T10:52:45Z")
Yep. The TUTH please. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2015, 3:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/7 "2015-10-24T15:57:09Z")
Yeah, you weren’t kidding when you said you had a large order coming in! I agree with Dee. When teaching, avoid using TUTH. To that, I would include A314, Ammo, and MB. Basically anything with androstenone. This mone might be too intimidating, depending on your overall personality. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), however, might enhance the father figure aura with kids. This could be to your benefit in gaining trust and cooperation. This and the other Instant products would be a good place to start if you want to use mones in the classroom. When you start experimenting, document your experience in a journal. This will help you keep track of what worked and what didn’t work. You will also need to find your sweet spot, which means figuring out the dosage best suited for your body chemistry and situation. Keeping a journal is also a good idea because other members can benefit from your experience as well as offer advice if you encounter an issue. But most importantly, have fun! ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2015, 11:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/8 "2015-10-25T11:47:45Z")
> [@john81226](#): > > My Shipment arrived today! YAY! > > on the 1st shelf, 30ml sprays: > Instant Gentleman > Instant Honesty > Instant Openness > Instant Shine > Mystery Boy > > on the 2nd shelf, 10ml > Alpha A314 > > on the 3rd shelf, 5ml > Ammunition 1x > Ammunition to Go > Come Talk to Me 2 > Instant Gentleman > Instant Honesty 2x > Instant Shine 2x > Openness to Go > Puppy Love > Turn Up the Heat 2.5x > > on the 4th shelf, 5ml > MX297 > P131 > > So, as I understand the collective wisdom of the boards, I’ll try each one by itself for a few days, beginning with 1 spray and working my way from there. > > I do have a question: because I work with kids K-12, are there some of these I should leave at home on days I’m teaching? > > I also hadn’t considered the self-dosing effects because, of course, I’m the one who will be most exposed to the potions. > > Thanks for the help! J Lovely Collection friend, jealous of you ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2016, 5:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/9 "2016-08-31T17:06:30Z")
Hi John! This is just a routine reminder. In case you are planning to make one big order soon, don’t forget about your GC . You can still use it. And hey, how about creating a journal? We’re excited to know about your exciting [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) adventures over there, you know? Happy pheroing! ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2016, 11:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-hunt-for-the-affection-attention-admiration-of-men-in-20s-gay-34/65076/10 "2016-09-02T11:26:29Z")
I would love to hear your experience good or bad with some of the items you got. I hope you would start a journal we can follow and continue to help you out.