# New to Mones, saying Hi...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-saying-hi/32513>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [September 14, 2009, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-saying-hi/32513 "2009-09-14T02:27:12Z")\
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**Author:** ![dc\_809](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/71c47a/32.png) [@dc\_809](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dc_809)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2009, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-saying-hi/32513/1 "2009-09-14T02:27:12Z")

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Hey everyone, I’m a 20 year old male from WV. I have been interested in [pheromones](https://a314.com/) for a while now and I wanted to find out rather they worked or not. I found this website while browsing the net so I thought I’d give it a shot. I’m not exactly a shy guy but I’m not the most outgoing person either. I can talk to women but I have a hard time approaching them to initiate the first conversation. Since I’m new to all of this I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what would be the best product to use to help ease the tension and preferably get the girl to come to me. I’m a college student and I have a few girls that stare at me and act really interested but they never start a conversation and of course I don’t either because I’m afraid of looking like a fool. So what do you think would be the best product for me to start with and then when they become comfortable with me what could I use to take it to the next level?

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**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2009, 4:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-saying-hi/32513/2 "2009-09-14T04:49:13Z")

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Women generally won’t come to you, so I recommend going to them. I find [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) helps a bit in this regard; you might also try A314. Instant Openness is a good ice breaker, and younger women respond well to -nol.

But the most important thing is to learn to control your focus. Your focus is on yourself, on not “looking like a fool”. Your focus should be on her: curiosity about her. This will take practise, of course. But when you notice yourself thinking about how you look to others, just change what you’re paying attention to.

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**Author:** ![hohohate](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hohohate/32/2429_2.png) [@hohohate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hohohate)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2009, 6:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-saying-hi/32513/3 "2009-09-14T06:10:42Z")

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I really like Tuth, it got girls wanting to be realy close to me and walk with me everywhere.  
But i think that [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) works the best in my opinion, even if it’s not on your list. Just the most noticeable effects. good luck on your research bro! hope it works out for you.

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**Author:** ![dc\_809](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/71c47a/32.png) [@dc\_809](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dc_809)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2009, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-mones-saying-hi/32513/4 "2009-09-14T20:38:29Z")

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Thanks for the comments & tips guys. I’ll definitely look into those products mentioned and I’ll work on my approach as well. I know this is probably asked a lot but how many sprays would you recommend for a first time user?