# New to Monies, Recommendations? :)

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [March 2, 2012, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775 "2012-03-02T00:08:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![Sioul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/94ad74/32.png) [@Sioul](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sioul)\
**Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775/1 "2012-03-02T00:08:34Z")

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Im very new to the Pheromone world and absolutely love this forum! 😃

So I guess Im looking for some recommendations that could help out with my current situation that I spoke about in my introductory post here.

I met my recent ex a couple of years ago through college in my home town but it was only last year that we started talking online and really hit it off. He had moved away to attend a university and came down to visit me and left in a relationship, haha. We saw each other as often as possible, but we mostly spoke online. Early in our relationship we had a couple of quarrels which I blame on myself (having trust issues from previous ex), the long distance (both our first), and miscommunications through text. Eventually he started to see me as “immature” and “young” despite only being a year difference in age. Shortly after I moved in with him in the fall, he stated we should just be friends (with benefits, of course) and left it at that. While we live in the same apartment, we have separate bedrooms and he spends most of his time in his with the door shut. Currently he is not pursuing anyone, and neither am I - but for whatever reason, even without monies, I get a lot of unwanted hits \>\_\_\<;;

After a couple of months of self improvement, I realized the errors in my ways in the past and would like to try to reconnect with him. However, he still has this immature/young image of me with the mindset that we are completely different people even though we have many things in common. Whenever I try to talk to him, he avoids responding, making it difficult to carry on a conversation. He has a habit of saying Im not a very good talker; which is true, Im very much a listener but lately Ive become very intimidated to talk to since he wont give me any feedback. He is very busy with college courses so I can understand why he keeps himself cooped up in his room, but it means very little social time between us ☹  
He has his moments where he comes in my room to “cuddle” in the morning or to hug me when he makes his way to the kitchen, but it makes it hard to read him with his usual behavior 😑

Anywho, to the point. I ended up purchasing Scent of Eros for Women after reading a few reviews (over Essence of Women) and currently awaiting for it to arrive next week. I also purchased Instant Shine (1X) since I read so many good reviews on it and Im excited to try it tomorrow when it arrives! Had I waited, I would have ordered some other mones, but I figured Id gives these two a try and “become a believer” before I ordered more haha.

With my given situation, would there be any recommendations to what other monies I should try? With all the different MX’s and P’s, it gets really hard to see how different they are from one another. Im definitely looking into [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and from what I can tell IS/A+B are no longer produced? Personality wise I guess Id be considered friendly/cute/sometimes ditzy so not sure what would really compliment that.

Id love to start a journal with all my experiences with mones, really hoping it’ll produce some results and help my ex and I reconnect! 🙂

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775/2 "2012-03-02T01:26:38Z")

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I gave you some suggestions is the newcomer area, though as I said there, they are all out of [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/B unfortunately. You may want to try MX397, which I have had good results from, happy, cheerful, attention-getting, confident.

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**Author:** ![Gingiber\_Pardus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/dfb087/32.png) [@Gingiber\_Pardus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gingiber_Pardus)\
**Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775/3 "2012-03-02T03:25:54Z")

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Hi and welcome to PT, always good to have new moners especially female 🙂 As IBS is out right now, I’d suggest IS and also maybe some TAL and TAH as a combo. Essentially to balance out the ditziness 😉 I’ve only just started experimenting with [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) so am unable to say with certaintity how much that might be useful in your situation but my initial tests suggest that could also be a winner. Congruency is also imperative with mones so have a play and start a journal, that way you can keep track of what works, how and in what situations and start to develop a mone plan 😃 Good luck and keep us posted

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**Author:** ![Sioul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/94ad74/32.png) [@Sioul](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sioul)\
**Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 5:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775/4 "2012-03-02T17:06:06Z")

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Thanks for your suggestions! 🙂

I sprayed the IS Togo on today as soon as it arrived, I was so excited to try it out haha. I waited a bit before I went to talk to him; at first he was a bit moody as he usually is in the morning, but then he started to lighten up A LOT. Later on, he came into the kitchen and tickled me while I was loading the dish washer, haha. And prior to posting this he was very huggy. All exposure times were short since I wanted to ease into this and avoid being over bearing.

As far as self effects, cant say I notice anything different. Ive been in a pretty good mood all day, though I spent a good bit of it watching a workshop online.

So far, Id like to say IS is a success! 😃  
I already went ahead and put in an order for TAL, TAH, IO, IH, and IS (regular size) to arrive on Monday haha. Ill definitely be trying them out individually to see how they all work out before mixing anything 🙂

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**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\
**Post date:** [March 6, 2012, 4:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-monies-recommendations/54775/5 "2012-03-06T04:06:23Z")

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You’ve gotten a nice balanced combination of mones. That should get you started. Let us know wat happens 🙂