Sam, I think Ammo is the best product for you to start with.
But also, don’t overlook the socials like Instant Honesty and Instant Openness. These are great for breaking the ice. Communication is the big ice breaker to attraction, and these two deliver the icebreaker. Read more about them here: The Mens Guide
Finally, can you tell me what your problem was with the mystery method boot camp? Thanks.