# new to pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 14, 2010, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630 "2010-10-14T22:21:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![noob420](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/74df32/32.png) [@noob420](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/noob420)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/1 "2010-10-14T22:21:17Z")
Hey, I’m a 20yr old guy, from Chicago. I’ve recently become interested in pheros after seeing an ad for pherlure. And after much research I found Androtics. Based on what I’ve read here, Pherlure is a waste of money. I have somewhat of an idea of what products i want to try but I’m open to suggestion. I’ve been looking at alpha a314,Instant shine,Instant openness,ammunition, and TUTH. I would mainly use them at parties. I want to gain some confidence, and just overall have a little more fun. ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/2 "2010-10-14T22:25:02Z")
You really can’t go wrong with the products you listed. You might look into CTTM2 also, it’s great for parties. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/3 "2010-10-14T22:25:28Z")
For parties mostly, the best thing for you to get would be some AMMO and socials like Instant Shine, CTTM/IO, and some IH. A314 is great but it takes a while to get a handle on it, from my experiences. Although I strongly believe its great by itself and with enough learning and conditioning, you can get girls just with that. Heck, you can get em now without it, but what I’ve found was overall, A314 makes things that much better. You’re still younger so I would defer and try out [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) first. ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/4 "2010-10-14T22:25:38Z")
Welcome to the forum. The products you’ve mentioned are very good. If you’re using them mostly for parties, I would recommend you get Ammo, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and Instant Shine first and foremost. A314 can sometimes be intimidating and serious which isn’t great for parties. TUTH is an excellent product but it’s not quite as versatile as Ammo as an overall attractant. Now if you don’t mind, tell us a little about your personality. It will get you a $25 gift card and also help us to give you advice specifically for your situation. ---
**Author:** ![noob420](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/74df32/32.png) [@noob420](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/noob420)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/5 "2010-10-14T23:07:58Z")
I’m kind of a shy person, sometimes I can be socially anxious. I was reading that the self effects of Instant shine could possible help that. ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/6 "2010-10-15T01:02:30Z")
> [@noob420](#): > > I’m kind of a shy person, sometimes I can be socially anxious. I was reading that the self effects of Instant shine could possible help that. IO and IH would be better for that. IO would help people open up to you, while IH would help others feel connected and close to you. Also, AMMO and A314 are good choices. I think IG might be a bit better than A314 for you for now, since you seem shy. A314 do wonders, but you have to approach and make things happen with girls! ---
**Author:** ![noob420](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/74df32/32.png) [@noob420](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/noob420)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/7 "2010-10-15T19:30:21Z")
thanks for the help… is that enough info for the gc? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/8 "2010-10-15T20:42:54Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Noob! Yes it is. You being shy reflects even in your writing..lol I hope when you post your results you are not so tight lipped. Cool did a great job in making suggestions for you. A314 is a product I think all men should have however some of you have to work your way up to it because if you are shy it won’t work for you. You got to master that part of you and then reap the golden results from it. Your gc was issued. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![noob420](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/74df32/32.png) [@noob420](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/noob420)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2010, 8:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/9 "2010-10-16T20:36:37Z")
Thank you.. one quick question if I Could only get one which should it be. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), IS, IO,IH, or IG ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2010, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pheromones/42630/10 "2010-10-17T01:38:25Z")
ammo, since you want to use it for parties. However, you should also get IS or IO to make connecting easier 😉