# New to PheroTalk and its Products **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 19, 2009, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614 "2009-09-19T12:20:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![vampier310](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/ea5d25/32.png) [@vampier310](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vampier310)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/1 "2009-09-19T12:20:50Z")
I have searched online for sometime now and this site seems to have the products that I might want. I was wondering if someone can guide me to which product would be best for me. I’m Vampier from NJ, and have been married for about 5 years. For the past 2 years its been a rough road in the bedroom area and I wanted to find something that can get my wife in the mood. I’ve tried making her weekends less stressed, by cooking, cleaning, and letting her just relax, but at the end of the night, I tired to get her into the mood and its not working. We playfully sexual play a little bit, but that’s about it. I wanted to know which product do you guys have that I can use to get my wife back horney and desire me once again. Maybe this happens in normal marriages where the sex life tends to diminish, but I don’t want that to happen to me. Any advice would be greatful from men or women. Thanks. HELP. ---
**Author:** ![vampier310](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/ea5d25/32.png) [@vampier310](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vampier310)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 12:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/2 "2009-09-19T12:22:25Z")
After looking at the products I am looking towards buying Turn Up The Heat. Do you think this is a wise selection? Anyone. THANK YOU for such a informative website about its products. THANK YOU ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/3 "2009-09-19T13:04:21Z")
Hi Vampier Welcome to the forum! 🙂 TUTH is great for spicing things up in the bedroom. It’s very sexual & works great around the time she is ovulating. You may want to have a look at other phero’s as well to increase the intimacy & connection. Many times thats more effective when trying to get us ladies horny, we like to have that emotional intimacy 🙂 [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) (IH) is great in that it helps increase the _quality_ of communication. It’ll make you and the person you’re talking to feel more comfortable and it gives a sense of closeness to the conversation. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 1:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/4 "2009-09-19T13:06:42Z")
Welcome! Tell us abit about both your personalities, and how you got to where you are. That will help with recommendations. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 2:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/5 "2009-09-19T14:10:07Z")
As Xiphoid said, Instant Honesty can help. As can [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). For some reason the androstenol seems to be sexy. It’s said that men have sex _to_ relax, whereas women have sex _when_ relaxed. Perhaps she may feel under pressure. IH and IO help there. Also, Dial Magnetic body wash has androstadienone (sp?) in it, which helps to relax and arouse women, so you could try that. However, I believe that it has negative effects on a very small number of men (including suicidal impulses!!!) so just be a little careful with it. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/6 "2009-09-19T19:54:17Z")
Welcome my friend! ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2009, 9:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/7 "2009-09-19T21:13:53Z")
Thank you for joining! Glad you are here. The above suggestions are excellent, IH and TUTH. Yes to them for you. ---
**Author:** ![vampier310](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/ea5d25/32.png) [@vampier310](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vampier310)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/8 "2009-09-20T16:32:28Z")
Thank you all for your input. I will purchase both IH and TUTH. Can someone tell me if using both at the same time causes negative results? Or which one should I try first? Again THANK YOU, all of your input has been great. I never knew there was a site out there like this that have true individuals that help one another out. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/9 "2009-09-20T17:28:25Z")
Don’t jump into combo’s just yet. Test each phero individually so you find your “sweetspot” for each before combining different ones. Also, you should keep in mind that your wife is used to your natural phero signature so it may take her longer to react to the phero’s than it would someone who doesn’t know you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2009, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/10 "2009-09-21T17:59:40Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![vampier310](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/ea5d25/32.png) [@vampier310](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vampier310)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2009, 11:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk-and-its-products/32614/11 "2009-09-23T11:46:48Z")
Just ordered my products along with the free gift. THANK YOU. Can’t wait to receive them. Once I do I will post daily on how the TUTH works.