# New to PheroTalk **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 13, 2010, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702 "2010-04-13T03:08:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sophia\_c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a6a055/32.png) [@sophia\_c](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sophia_c)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/1 "2010-04-13T03:08:30Z")
Hello everyone. This is my first time on PheroTalk. My name is Sophia from Houston, Tx. I’m 35 years old and a mother of 4. I have heard alot about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and actually got a bottle from a family member. (It was from a different dealer). Didn’t really do what i expected it to do. Seems like it only attracted to me much older men who (love) to drink or drug addicks. Funny huh? Was it the pheromones working or was it my magnetism to older men who didn’t take care of themselves? 😮 LOL So my question is how do you really know if there are actual pheromones in a product? And which products would you recommend? Do pheromones come in a perfume or are they unscented? I have been interested in finding a pheromone not only to attract friends, but also romance. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. Thanks guys for reading my post. Best Wishes, Sophia ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 3:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/2 "2010-04-13T03:22:58Z")
Hey sophia! Welcome to PheroTalk! Yes pheromones come scented and unscented. In the beginning, what’s recommended for the beginner users, is to use the Instant Line. These are usually scented unless you get them custom and unscented if you ask them. Now what would you really like to accomplish with pheros? DO you want them to approach you? do you want to approach them? DO you want to spark it up? Tell us about your personality a little bit, if you may, and what you would like to do with these. P.S. Usually you can tell if pheromones are in perfume if it’s listed in ingredients, ex. Androsterone, and etc.. You should qualify for the gift certificate once you fulfill these. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 3:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/3 "2010-04-13T03:42:16Z")
Hi Sophia, Welcome to the forum. I suggest you try [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and IH. IH will make the men closer to you. They will talk more personal and details with you. They will be honest with you too. IShine will make them feel you are more attractive and sexier. IS A is for more dominant and tougher vibe. IS B is for more feminine and softer vibe. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![sophia\_c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a6a055/32.png) [@sophia\_c](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sophia_c)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 5:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/4 "2010-04-13T05:37:41Z")
Thanks for the replies. They have helped cuz I wasn’t sure that pheromones worked for other reasons than to attract men. More about me: I want to try the pheromones yes to attract the opposite sex. I am a confident person and able to walk up to a guy and start the conversation. But it seems like the younger guys turn out really seeing me as a good friend after talking to me. Or it’ll start out as a friends with benefits situation. And it end up horrobily. And like I said in my earlier post, it seems like the older men seem more into me then the younger.(Some one that’s not like 50-70 age range) But thats definately not what I’m looking for. I want to try the pheromones to feel more confident and attractive. And I would love to try something that would have them open up and tell me their true intentions instead of having to guess what’s this guy’s thinking of me and if this is the true thing. I am a mother of 4. I’m in school for metaphysical arts and sciences and will graduate in 2011. I’m outgoing and very socialable. I have a tendancy to be shy at times. I am a social drinker and drug free, who likes to go out and have a good time. I’m not really too big on going to bars and clubs. But I do like a good party. The thing I hate is for a man to act interested in me just to try to get to my daughter. (Have had alot of those lately.) Well, thats about all I can think of right now. Thanks again ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/5 "2010-04-13T06:48:55Z")
As a first product, I think IShine would be great. I dont know much about female products, but IShine is good for both genders. It keeps conversations lighter and more playful and the self effects are amazing for most people. IO is also a good idea, it keeps conversations going and also makes it easier to get them started. IH can make guys more honest about any intentions. I find 4 sprays to be very very effective. however, be careful to spray it away from your face like your wrists. good luck ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 12:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/6 "2010-04-13T12:40:56Z")
You post implies that you’re interested in younger guys, if I’m mistaken feel free to correct me. But I also get that you seem to be looking for more of an actual relationship than anything else. As well you seem to be looking for more “high quality” men. Since you have no problem taking initiative (much respect to you for that as so few women do) I’d suggest Instant Sexiness A described as Angelina Jolie in a bottle. Sexy but in a strong way. Weaker men might be intimidated by the vibe, while stronger more confident men will be more responsive. Instant Shine has a lot of great effects among them being that it can create what is described as a youthful energy. This may help attract men closer to the age group you’re looking for as well as creating a pleasant feeling for people around you and a good little self effect of confidence boosting. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is great for first meetings, light and chatty and fun Instant Honesty is good for later on when things get more serious and you want to create a sense of connection and rapport. Basically when you decide you’re attracted enough to the person that you want him to feel like he can tell you anything. CTTM2 has the same ingredients as both in a 50/50 ratio, so you can see that if you start dating somebody you can move from one to another and then another in a progressive succession as things progress. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2010, 6:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/37702/7 "2010-04-13T18:23:30Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.