# New to PheroTalk **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 13, 2010, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563 "2010-05-13T01:53:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![p.lemac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@p.lemac](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/p.lemac)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/1 "2010-05-13T01:53:45Z")
Hi. I am ~36 years old and recently stumbled across this website. I cannot believe the amount of time and effort being spent by the members. I just personally hope and pray that I don’t get burnt again. Have wasted too much of what little money I have on various things. I never believed in this stuff but I somehow gathered the courage to order and use Dr. Amend’s [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/). It worked like a charm with my wife the first two three times but then just stopped working. More or less of the product did not make a difference. She is absolutely wonderful but needs help in getting things started (I know I am being vague here but I am new and concerned about my privacy). Once she gets started, she is a little reserved and that is where we really need help. It is not her fault but just the restrictive culture she was brought up in. She has admitted that she would love to try anything and everything but then when the time comes, she backs off. Anything you guys can suggest, we will both appreciate it. ---
**Author:** ![celerytree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@celerytree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/celerytree)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 3:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/2 "2010-05-13T03:59:57Z")
Welcome to the forum! Perhaps you should consider trying a little bit of [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/). It works just like it sounds, by kicking things up a notch. While I haven’t had the opportunity to try it yet, I’ve heard it works wonders in the bedroom. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/3 "2010-05-13T04:16:43Z")
Welcome to the forum. It is a bit uncomfortable talking about personal things at first, but the internet gives a degree of freedom. You may want to refrain from stating things that identify you, but that is easily done. Many qualities of human relationships are widely spread in the population, so writing about them won’t identify you. ---
**Author:** ![Bearcat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bearcat/32/739_2.png) [@Bearcat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bearcat)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 4:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/4 "2010-05-13T04:51:34Z")
> [@p.lemac](#): > > Hi. I am ~36 years old and recently stumbled across this website. I cannot believe the amount of time and effort being spent by the members. I just personally hope and pray that I don’t get burnt again. Have wasted too much of what little money I have on various things. I never believed in this stuff but I somehow gathered the courage to order and use Dr. Amend’s pheromone product. It worked like a charm with my wife the first two three times but then just stopped working. More or less of the product did not make a difference. She is absolutely wonderful but needs help in getting things started (I know I am being vague here but I am new and concerned about my privacy). Once she gets started, she is a little reserved and that is where we really need help. It is not her fault but just the restrictive culture she was brought up in. She has admitted that she would love to try anything and everything but then when the time comes, she backs off. Anything you guys can suggest, we will both appreciate it. Try a combination of Turn up the Heat and Instant Honesty (after gauging each of them individually). Turn up the Heat is a sexual/seduction pheromone and will get her in the mood or amplify her sexuality. Instant Honesty is a [social pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) but it will get her to talk about her feelings (which because of the TUTH, will be very horny feelings) and could result in her being more open to suggestion. You will likely have to initiate that kind of conversation if she is reserved, however IH really puts people in the mood to discuss what is on their mind. Also, humans typically like to be congruent so we do not typically say one thing and do another (unless on purpose) so those conversations and feelings might lead to some adventurous behavior. Finally, good luck and happy hunting; be sure to report your findings on this forum! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![p.lemac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@p.lemac](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/p.lemac)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/5 "2010-05-13T05:14:32Z")
Thank you so much all of you. I have been so reserved about posting anything here but finally found the courage to do it today. You guys are wonderful. I will let all of you know “how it goes”. Of course let me know of any other suggestions you may have. I am very new and still don’t really know much about all this. Thanks again. ---
**Author:** ![p.lemac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@p.lemac](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/p.lemac)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/6 "2010-05-13T14:58:38Z")
Any chance I can get the $25 gift certificate? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/7 "2010-05-13T20:35:43Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![p.lemac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@p.lemac](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/p.lemac)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2010, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-pherotalk/38563/8 "2010-05-13T21:03:02Z")
Thank you ever so much 🙂