# New to site and seek advice!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 25, 2008, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234 "2008-09-25T00:19:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![zoso495](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/278dde/32.png) [@zoso495](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zoso495)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/1 "2008-09-25T00:19:32Z")
Well I am 22 years old and I work in the retail world. In my line of work I meet a lot of people “ladies” for the most. I am a straight guy and who has not had much relationships with women but for some reason they feel attractive to me. I will say I am not the best looking guy or the worst, I am 6’3 280lbs with an athletic body but with some weight not too much. I sort of builded a rep for seeking the “older” women, Mature as I would call them. Due to the fact that I had dated one from work for a while, but she is no longer there. So my situation is, there are a few women work very close with who have showed me signs of interest. Even though I tend to neglect on purpose from time to time. There is even one who is planning a wedding but with no date yet. Out of respect for that I just try to ignore. There are other’s that are older and have shown signs of interest I tend to do that same thing. Not to mention some of the young and older customers that come in. I get a wink here and there, even while there hubby is looking some at something. The was this one that I was interested at one point while I was seeing someone, but she seemed to ignore. I knew she wanted to just say no but now the tables are turned. I just don’t understand is how all of the sudden these women are finding me atractive? Mainly the ones from the work place. I think it just from rumors that flew around from the ladie that I was seeing. But when customers come by I feel its just a vibe I send out. I need help to understand. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/2 "2008-09-25T00:57:43Z")
Hello zoso, welcome to the forum! I would say that ammo can help you in general since you are around alot of women for your work. IH would be good for the ladies who are already close to you and showed some interest. Do you need anything to help your retail work, or just for attraction for the ladies? Either way, ishine is very good: it makes people happy, so possible more returning customers and happy friends around you! Let us know if you have any questions! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/3 "2008-09-25T01:21:40Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. As far as attracting the slightly older ladies it probably deals a lot with body language, etc.. You are probably sending out signals that they interpret as interested and being a big handsome guy why would they not explore the opportunity …? I agree with MB - a little Ammo might just help a bit. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) would also be a great social to work with. You may also want to explore A314 for work and maybe instant Gentleman. Check out the threads in my signature block for more info. ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 1:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/4 "2008-09-25T01:32:16Z")
Hey zoso, welcome to Pherotalk. From your post, I am still not really sure what you are hoping to achieve with pheromones. Are you looking for something to help you seal the deal with some of the women who are giving you IOIs? It certainly looks like you are not having any problems hooking people and getting them interested. That being said, I would recommend looking into the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/). IO, IH are good for increasing the quantity and quality of conversation. IShine is good too, it will give you a confident, uplifted vibe. This may even help your duties in retail. Another pheromone that may help you with your duties in retail is A314; several salesman have given it shining reviews for helping them with sales. It is **important that you act congruent with the signature given off by A314 though. You cannot be shy; you must be confident when using A314.** Good luck buddy. ---
**Author:** ![zoso495](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/278dde/32.png) [@zoso495](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zoso495)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/5 "2008-09-25T01:51:37Z")
Thanks for the responce. I would love to use somethings that will seal the deal with the ladies. Also something for work. Is it ok to use more than one [pheromone](https://a314.com/)? The lady customers return to the store many times. I would love to try the pheromone to take everything a step forword not only just for work, but with the women. ---
**Author:** ![zoso495](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/278dde/32.png) [@zoso495](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zoso495)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/6 "2008-09-25T04:56:12Z")
Well I am having a hard time to choose the right phero. I would love something to seduce ladies even just random. I know it may seem a bit odd but thats what I would want. I want to get the attraction from them and have them want me. Also I would love somethink for work. I work in the Retail world of cell phones. I would want people to trust and love me more, and then some. People love me, I am a man of respect. Most inportant I’m a gent. I want it all to improve. Are there any bad smells with the Phero’s? What is a sweet spot? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2008, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-site-and-seek-advice/20234/7 "2008-09-26T00:12:48Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 So from what I gather from your posts the ladies are digging you and they are interested but your having trouble sealing the deal. Thing is pheromones can bring about all sorts of different emotions and feelings. They can influence and make interacting on many levels much easier. But you still have to make the move to seal the deal. They wont do that for you. Now you mention that women give you alot of IOU’s and most people love and respect you but you want more. Again pheromones can help but they are not gonna do it all for you. Your a guy and although the world has changed most women are gonna wait for you to give some IOU’s back or for you to make the move. My suggestion to you would be start with the basics like AMMO [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty I would also suggest some Instant Shine for the work environment. They come in to-go size so you can try a few things out and see what you think. > [@](#): > > Is it ok to use more than one pheromone? Yes the pheromones here are made to be layered with each other for different effects. > [@](#): > > Are there any bad smells with the Phero’s? It depends on which ones your using, Some can smell funky but most of them come in a cover scent so you dont notice it. They are easy to cover with your own cologne scent if you want as well. Others dont perceive the smell as bad when your wearing them. > [@](#): > > What is a sweet spot? Its a phrase we use in here to indicate your perfect dosage for each product. We are all different and need a different amount of sprays to see results. If you have any more questions let me know. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha