# New to the Forum! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 17, 2008, 6:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719 "2008-09-17T06:43:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![clem9403](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@clem9403](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clem9403)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 6:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/1 "2008-09-17T06:43:33Z")
Hello All. I’ve been reading this forum for about a week now, and finally decided to join. A bit about myself: I’m 45 years old; happily married. I’ve used pheros before…about 2 or 3 years ago. I was wearing pherlure at the time. My main objective was(and still is) to wear it around my wife to spark things up. But she wasn’t affected by it NOT ONE BIT! At first I thought it was her…maybe her smeller was broken or something, but after reading a few posts here, I’ve learned that Pherlure is hit and miss. Which is true. It had no affect on my wife, but I did get a few hits from using it. Anyway, I hope to try some of SmartMones to get the results I seek. Thanks for reading! ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/2 "2008-09-17T06:49:30Z")
HI clem! So glad you decided to join if you havent already read the men’s sticky section, I suggest gettitng familiar with those. Glad that you are going to try out some other [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I would suggest taking a look at Ammo to amp a lil sexual vibe around your wife. Oh and if you want some HOT bed time play, consider TUTH, it can be quite fun. Otherwise if you want to go for more of a positive vibe or just deeper conversation, take a look at the socials. Let us know which of these sound like a good way to go and let us know how you and your wife respond to eachother now. Welcome once again! CC 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![clem9403](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@clem9403](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clem9403)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 7:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/3 "2008-09-17T07:00:38Z")
Hello Curiouschic. Yes, I’ve read the men’s sections. Great information over there! I definitely want to try Turn up the Heat with maybe some Ammo or [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (she’s more ‘frisky’ when she’s in a happy, bubbly mood!) And as soon as I get my products and try them out, I will definitely post my results. ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 7:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/4 "2008-09-17T07:06:30Z")
hello and welcome to the forums. try some IFM around your wife, that will certainly clue you into the working status of her “smeller”! IFM has been a standout product for me, works especially well in combination with instant shine too. actually, the entire Instant line is worth experimenting with, read through the stickies in each forum for a wealth of information and first hand reports, then add your own so that we can all benefit. ---
**Author:** ![clem9403](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@clem9403](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clem9403)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/5 "2008-09-17T07:20:28Z")
Thanks josef. I will try [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) too! I plan on doing alot of experimenting with alot of these products! I can’t wait! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/6 "2008-09-17T23:55:52Z")
Well Hello Clem and welcome to the forum. You know I read your intro and there’s something you need to understand. Where I have had zero experience with pherlure so I can’t knock it, but many of the members here do a pretty good job at that. The thing you have to remember is that with mones you might not get the results “right away” around those you know the best. Here’s what I’m thinking about that: You see your wife knows your natural mone signature so it might take a couple extra days for the new enhanced mones to really kick in. Give it a bit of time and be patient. She is so used to how you smell naturally that the first couple of times she might be a little confused about it. Its going to take her a little bit of getting used to. Believe me though, when she does its going to be some sparks in the bedroom, sofa, table, fridge, floor, etc…🙂 I’ll be sending you a $15 Gift Certificate this evening later to help get you started. You might want to pick up some to go bottles just so you can get a wider range of products without busting the bank. There the same thing only smaller and less expensive to help keep you in budget while you learn and figure out whats going to be best. Welcome to the forum ---
**Author:** ![clem9403](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@clem9403](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clem9403)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2008, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-forum/19719/7 "2008-09-18T05:11:59Z")
Thanks SteveO. I’m glad you mentioned that it may take time for my wife to get used to the new smells. I just always thought she was ‘weird’ or something! LOL I will definitely keep that in mind. I also look forward to my GC. I will order some To Go’s as soon as I receive it. I do have a question to the forum. Everyone’s mentioned that some the -mones can be covered with cologne. Well, I’m not a big cologne wear-er. I plan on wearing the mones after showering with a shower gel. Has anyone done this, and if so, will it make as good a cover as cologne will?