# New to the phero life **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 19, 2008, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905 "2008-09-19T22:37:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![AnonymousOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba8739/32.png) [@AnonymousOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnonymousOne)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/1 "2008-09-19T22:37:34Z")
Hello, I live in the City of Angels, California, I’m in my mid forties and I would like to learn more on how pheromones can help marraige, communication with wife, and our sex life. Unfortunately she will not participate with me here or through counseling, so I must take measures my own way. Will “[Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)” help me get her to talk, maybe even counseling? ---
**Author:** ![AnonymousOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba8739/32.png) [@AnonymousOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnonymousOne)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/2 "2008-09-19T22:38:36Z")
Hello There! ---
**Author:** ![\_Carl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/_carl/32/429_2.png) [@\_Carl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_Carl)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/3 "2008-09-19T22:42:30Z")
Hello there! I’m new too. I’m just seeing what others would have to say. ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/4 "2008-09-19T22:43:07Z")
Hi AnonymousOne, welcome to the forum. IFM will certainly help, in making her feel good and relaxed. But it does very much sound like an IH job. A combo of the two is probably pretty awesome. ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/5 "2008-09-19T22:45:12Z")
Hey Anonymous, IFM will help your wife feel more comfortable with you–beware that it may have a depressing effect on men. Thus, it may help in persuading her to go to counseling and your communication with her. To increase romantic tendencies, consider TUTH. That is what it is designed for. Now, in order to qualify for the GC, you’ll need to open up a bit more. Tell us your age, what you do, where you live, and other potential pheromonal applications you might be interested in. ---
**Author:** ![ohshit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ohshit/32/1184_2.png) [@ohshit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ohshit)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/6 "2008-09-19T22:45:35Z")
Hi AnonymousOne, Welcome to the forum To improve sex life, maybe some Turn Up The Heat can help you. To enhance your communication on a deeper level, I think you should try some Instant Honesty. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) can help you too, if you need her to relax. Maybe this could work well with Instant Honesty. Any question, just ask ---
**Author:** ![\_Carl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/_carl/32/429_2.png) [@\_Carl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_Carl)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/7 "2008-09-19T22:53:33Z")
Here’s my opinion AnonymousOne! I’m not that qualified to give advice on counseling or on [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). But I believe you should also look into some guides on how to reconnect with your wife or a guide on how to re-establish communication with your wife. Perhaps by having the pheromones and having some kind of guide that will show you how to re-establish communication with your wife is what you need. It makes sense right? You’ll have the pheromones to help you make her more open to communication. And then you’ll have some tips from a guide to give you ideas on how to properly open up communication with her. I hope it works out with you. ---
**Author:** ![AnonymousOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba8739/32.png) [@AnonymousOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnonymousOne)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/8 "2008-09-19T23:16:07Z")
Thank you for the reply, I never thought about intant honesty. > [@ohshit](#): > > Hi AnonymousOne, > Welcome to the forum > > To improve sex life, maybe some Turn Up The Heat can help you. > To enhance your communication on a deeper level, I think you should try some Instant Honesty. > Instant Female Magic can help you too, if you need her to relax. Maybe this could work well with Instant Honesty. > > Any question, just ask ---
**Author:** ![AnonymousOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba8739/32.png) [@AnonymousOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnonymousOne)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/9 "2008-09-19T23:18:27Z")
Thank you Carl, You hit the nail on the head, that’s exactly what I’m looking for, a way to get her to communicate without the yelling or name calling, and maybe get some professional help for us. > [@\_Carl](#): > > Here’s my opinion AnonymousOne! > > I’m not that qualified to give advice on counseling or on pheromones. But I believe you should also look into some guides on how to reconnect with your wife or a guide on how to re-establish communication with your wife. > > Perhaps by having the pheromones and having some kind of guide that will show you how to re-establish communication with your wife is what you need. > > It makes sense right? You’ll have the pheromones to help you make her more open to communication. And then you’ll have some tips from a guide to give you ideas on how to properly open up communication with her. > > I hope it works out with you. ---
**Author:** ![\_Carl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/_carl/32/429_2.png) [@\_Carl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_Carl)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/10 "2008-09-19T23:21:01Z")
Your welcome dude. ---
**Author:** ![AnonymousOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba8739/32.png) [@AnonymousOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnonymousOne)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/11 "2008-09-19T23:21:06Z")
Where do I go to qualify for the GC? > [@Tenant](#): > > Hey Anonymous, > > Instant Female Magic will help your wife feel more comfortable with you–beware that it may have a depressing effect on men. > > Thus, it may help in persuading her to go to counseling and your communication with her. To increase romantic tendencies, consider Turn Up The Heat. That is what it is designed for. > > Now, in order to qualify for the GC, you’ll need to open up a bit more. Tell us your age, what you do, where you live, and other potential pheromonal applications you might be interested in. ---
**Author:** ![Im4Vikes13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/858c86/32.png) [@Im4Vikes13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Im4Vikes13)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2008, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/12 "2008-09-20T01:29:36Z")
There’s no form or anything like that to qualify for the GC. Just add to this thread with a little more info about yourself. Start with where you live, how old you are, what you do and what you’d like to accomplish with your pheromones. On top of knowing what you want to do with them, knowing about you helps with advice on what to use. If you’re really shy for example the social mones would be good for you, if you’re really young you might want to be careful with the -none products, etc. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2008, 9:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-the-phero-life/19905/13 "2008-09-20T21:54:34Z")
Hello AnonymousOne and welcome to PheroTalk, a community of friends seeking to better the world through chemical persuasion. OK, does that not sound like a commercial for Prosaic? LOL 😃 I think I have enough information to provide you with my expert advice. I’m very happy you decided to take everyones advice and open up a bit more about your situation. Although it might seem like we are a nosey bunch of creeps, this information is vital for the members to provide you with the best possible information on your road to success. By providing the information, you are telling us not only what we need, but that you are willing to share of yourself. In time, the willingness and support of your fellow PheroTalk members will provide a benchmark for the meaning of what it is to genuinely share with others. OK, first it was Prosaic commercials, now it sounds like the New SteveO Age of Wisdom and Shared Glory Cult. Come join me and our fellow brethren in worshiping God, who was accidently encapsulated in to a cobalt blue bottle. Androtics bottles are cobalt blue. This is what you get when SteveO has little sleep! 😛 So now that you have qualified for your $15 Gift Certificate (GC) which will arrive in your email inbox in just a short while, I would like to provide some feedback. I believe your choice of IFM might just be the way to go. Not many new members are savvy enough to select a product that is going to give the desired effect. Awesome job for researching! While some of my fellow forum members mention that it can have a depressing effect on men, that might be a little harsh and in need of an explanation. I have used IFM to the extreme and have never had adverse effects. It can however, in some instances cause men to feel a bit bummed as in the sense of down (i.e. Lazy, unmotivated, couch-potato-ish, kicked back, over-tired). I don’t recall anyone ever claiming to be depressed, but I would imagine that’s more to do with individual brain chemistry than mones. In your mid-forties I suggest pairing that with some TUTH to create that sexual spark. Now TUTH is mostly Androstenone (-none) which we naturally produce. The older you get, the less you produce, so you should be A-OK. At your age you should be absolutely fine in a couple of sprays, and like always for a free private consultation you may always call me on the [Pheromone](https://a314.com/) Hotline: Get Fast & Friendly Help from Real People at the Pheromone Hotline. Call 1-800-671-6464 in the USA, or +01 425-786-2001 Internationally For rapport with the wife and to create that spark back into the conversation, there is a mix of items that always get me that desired effect. It’s a combo of IO at about 3-5 sprays and IH at 1-2 sprays. IO is going to get her talking, chatterbox conversation like talking, while IH will keep that chatterbox valuable and not break down n gibberish. If you must choose one over the other, please go with the IH. The IH will be deeper, more value driven rapport conversations. The good news, there’s always lots of good news on PheroTalk, is that all these consumer line products are available as To Go bottles in the store. These are travel size and less costly than the full size bottles. It’s a great way to get your feat wet and not break the budget. (To Go 5mL 40 Sprays – Full Size 30mL 200 Sprays) Again I welcome you to PheroTalk and look forward to your continued participation. GC will be there in about half an hour.🆒