# New to this: single at 21, which pheromone would get girls to notice me? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 18, 2009, 7:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181 "2009-11-18T07:26:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![K20Z1TypeS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ac8455/32.png) [@K20Z1TypeS](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K20Z1TypeS)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 7:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/1 "2009-11-18T07:26:25Z")
Ok so i’m 21 5’10" black hair and slighty overweight. Have been single now for 3 months and i have just about had enough of it. When i found out about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) i thought it would be a great way for me to find someone new. Because girls never notice me no matter how hard i try so i just quit trying. So i need some advice on what would be a good pheromone to use to get girls to notice me. ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/2 "2009-11-20T16:16:51Z")
Get AMMO and maybe instant shine You should be able to get some additional attention with those two. Shoot me a message when you get them and start using them and if you keep a journal on your daily use I’ll pop by and help you out. I gotta be honest with you though - You sound dejected right now, that attitude is not an attractive attitude. Confidence/Positivity are essential for getting attention and creating attraction - AMMO will help give you a boost, but without an attitude makeover you will only end up disappointed. Check out [Personal Development - UrbanMonk.Net](http://www.urbanmonk.net) - it’s a great resource for tools to help you overcome negative emotions. ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/3 "2009-11-20T16:35:23Z")
first, youtube “the secret first 20 minutes” on youtube and turn your life outlook around. It will be the most important 20 minutes of your life, at least it was one of the key 20ish minutes in mine, totally changed my life outlook. I’d get Instant shine. It helped me feel less depressed physically and mentally when I was in a dejected state as a result of an accumulation of life pain. Instant openness is also useful. It got me from feeling dejected and not wanting to talk to people to wanting to. IH also makes these conversations more interesting and less surface-based/shallow. So CTTM2 is a version of 25 percent IH and 75 percer IO basically. I’d get ammo, DEFINITELY your key imho. Sexual, social, everything. Makes girls attracted to you after you open them up as long as you are somewhat confident, fun, etc. They will not eyeball you like “what is wrong with this guy, does he really think he can get me?” they basically automatically start trying to gain rapport with you, or are just like wow this is a really attractive dude. While pheromones dont do the work for you, ammo is pretty easy to figure out after the first couple times and is well buffered… good luck man it’ll get better i promise. good work finding this site for real ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 5:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/4 "2009-11-20T17:06:20Z")
Not to contradict you Conundrum… the secret is a good idea - positivity IS powerful… unfortunately “The Secret” is kind of like the answer to Life, The Universe and Everything in The HitchHikers Guide (the answer is 42… unfortunately the question is never revealed). It’s like having the key to the door for a better life, but not knowing where the door is located. I actually had completed forgot about the Podcast that actually started my Personal Development journey - Check out [Bad Buddhist Radio](http://www.badbuddhistradio.com/pc01.html). There are 60 podcasts that offer a straightforward, practical, path towards achieving happiness. Don’t be scared by the “buddhism” - The podcast especially espouses buddhism as a practical life philosophy and is quite critical of the religion/mysticism that surrounds buddhism. ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 5:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/5 "2009-11-20T17:14:43Z")
Completely agree with you and really respect everything you’ve had to say. I’ve toyed with Buddhism, Judaism, and some other religions in my short life thus far. I recommended the secret there because it is not religious, it’s applicable no matter someone’s pre chosen (by their parents) religious beliefs. People are often stuck on the stigma of buddhism as a religion and not the ideas, so the secret is kind of a nice transition and then they find buddhism or religious ideas on their own. Also, while the first 20 minutes are kind of inspirational but lofty/lack of substance, the whole vid itself gives applications and is much more inspiring. Like writing down exactly what you want your life to look like and strategies to get to those points. Never seen the hitchhikers guide but I always just figured it was 69. Buddhism is really elegant and straightforward at the same time. The goal is achieving genuine happiness through simplicity in the absolute most basic terms, at least that’s how I think of it. Definitely worth checking out for everyone who reads this series of posts, and I will listen to the bad buddhist radio right now! ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 5:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/6 "2009-11-20T17:38:40Z")
> [@conundrum12](#): > > Never seen the hitchhikers guide but I always just figured it was 69. It’s a hilarious series of novels by Douglas Adams… well worth the read The movie sucked in comparison ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/7 "2009-11-20T17:43:44Z")
yeah that kind of just sucks in general about the way our society is set up that I assumed you were referencing the movie ☹. Before the movie came out I definitely knew about the books but now I just assumed movie haha ---
**Author:** ![K20Z1TypeS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ac8455/32.png) [@K20Z1TypeS](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K20Z1TypeS)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this-single-at-21-which-pheromone-would-get-girls-to-notice-me/34181/8 "2009-11-20T19:12:25Z")
Thanks, i will definently be giving that a try.