# New to this... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 2, 2011, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591 "2011-08-02T22:33:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![shygirl87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c2a13f/32.png) [@shygirl87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shygirl87)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2011, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/1 "2011-08-02T22:33:17Z")
Hi there! I’m a 23 year old girl from toronto Ontario (Canada). I’m a bit shy and was looking into the effectiveness of pheuromones in hopes it could possibly help with this. When people start to talk with me it’s a little easier to open up. But I find that part always seem to be the obstacle; maybe I look a little intimidating (hard to believe considering I’m a wee little thing). Anyways, hoping this will help me Along the way 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2011, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/2 "2011-08-02T22:33:48Z")
Hi! Cool to see you here! I like shy and intimidating girls 😉, no worries, I think this help. Bye… 😛 Looolll… 😃 Nonsense, we can help you. First try [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), the shine maker and your mood explodes in a positive way. It’s also party in the bottle. For the open up effects test IO, it’s the icebreaker. And for more bonding, depth and trust you need IH. Great for new friends, dates and workplace. Mones maybe help but not necessarily, you must be congruent with them. You can have much better effects if you are more open to others. So I hope the Instant Shine do this for you. 😉 Sweetgirl, how you find this wonderful place and are your shyness the only problems or you need something else? Maybe for dates? If you give us some more info we can make some great recommendations and you can get a $25 gift certificate. We all don’t bite and every new member is a win for us! So come on and speak with us, especially with Pagodeiro, he is really lonely, because he don’t have Soul Glo… 😃 Warmth wishes. ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2011, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/3 "2011-08-02T22:33:49Z")
**Hello and welcome to the Club !** **I´m happy about every new women here !** Hmm shygirl87 You´ve found the coolest place of the internet … this is not only a board to discuss about Phermones … here are all topics present concerning life improvement … Many professionals here ( some hair cutters like Soul Glo 😃 ) \*\*and many people who are only interested in making their life and the life of others a bit nicer and better **as for beeing shy … i think that everyone feels a bit insecure at some point of their everyday´s lives … It´s not just you .. it´s everybody else too** **You would simply not expect from the most people .** **Look i know many guy´s who are dying … shivering with fear if they have to talk to a girl … sounds strange huh ..** Pheromones can be very effective tools … if you´ve got the right ones ..and .. if you´ve learned how to use them properly In order to guide you with choosing what´s interesting for you it would be necessary to reveal a bit more about you .. what made you interested in Pheromones .. where have you heard about them … and how have you found this board ? do you have any other fiels of usage in mind where you could benefit from using Pheromones … dating … work … school ? you say you´re abit shy and you need something that will make you more approachable … there are 2 Products that could be interesting **- Instant Shine** **it´s the feelgood Product that makes you more smiling and put´s a nice and charming vibe around you … people will like it to hang around you** **- [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) .** **it´s a conversation starter Product .. it´s the thing if you need people to talk more … make them chattier and more open … this one will make you more approachable as well .** do yourself a favour and read up on the stickies here in the intro board and at the women´s and male´s place ( nooo not only guy´s stuff there .. it´s general informatinon ) **you´re going to stumble about this thread as well ..** **[http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/how-do-i-qualify-25-gift-21539.html](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/how-do-i-qualify-25-gift-21539.html)** **this one´s not in the stickies but i think it´s a great overview about what to know when new here \*\* \*\* [Pheromone F A Qs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517)** well now shygirl .. i´m happy that we have you around and i hope to hear from you more … **Pago** ---
**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2011, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/4 "2011-08-02T22:39:26Z")
Hi there, shygirl. Welcome on board. I have been using mones for about 12 weeks, and I´m having lots of fun. Also, my social lifes is better than in a long time. Pople seem to be more eager than ever to talk to me, and I´m meeting new people ssems to be easier then ever. I don´t have any experinece with women´s products, so I can´t help you to choose. I would sugegst you to read all the sticky threads in the women´s section, specially the following: > [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258): > > Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to … > [@LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383): > > Hello people! For awhile now I have been wanting to compile your wonderful experiences for everyone, especially us newbies. I find myself constantly searching, searching, searching for your pearls of wisdom and thought - why not put some together on one page? I know there are other fantastics posts out there with the phero meanings, descriptions, and what they are designed for and what is in them, but this one only has direct, random quotes from all of you based on your own personal experienc… > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… > [@How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192): > > Its a question we all ask at some point… The very first thing to do when you begin to think about purchasing pheromones is to start observing people before you use them. Ask yourself what are peoples normal general reaction to you and others around you. Are they open and friendly ? Are they intimidated ? Do they acknowledge your presence ? Do strangers generally talk to you ? Are people in a great mood when hanging around you ? Do people treat you with respect ? Are guy/girls open to you… Take some notes, take a look at the store, and ask to the girls about the products that seem to be more interesting. Alos, don´t forget to tell us something more about yourself, as explained in this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) People around the forum is very friendly and love to share their knowledge. Hope this helps. Talk to you soon. ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2011, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/5 "2011-08-02T22:51:19Z")
> [@shygirl87](#): > > Hi there! I’m a 23 year old girl from toronto Ontario (Canada). I’m a bit shy and was looking into the effectiveness of pheuromones in hopes it could possibly help with this. **When people start to talk with me it’s a little easier to open up. But I find that part always seem to be the obstacle;** maybe I look a little intimidating (hard to believe considering I’m a wee little thing). Anyways, hoping this will help me Along the way 🙂 Hey shygirl - those guys are naughty - just posting a brb line! Welcome to the forum - we love it when fems make it here - not a lot of us in comparison to the guys. Anyway, to business. Go here and check out this link; get the details covered (you can just hit edit in your first post) and when she sees all the details, Mickaelia will be by to issue your GC. [How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) Specifically, IO will help with that. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) just like the name says - gives you and those around you the inclination to open light, easy, pleasant chat. Quantity vs quality. Good for the start. Then there’s Instant Honesty - which will facilitate a deeper communication and bonding. Quality vs quantity. But you need to be congruent with the vibe your giving with the mones. I mean, don’t be sitting in a corner facing the wall and wearing IO. Put a relaxed face on at the minimum, with open body language - otherwise you will be contradicting the mones and people will get confused and ignore the mone signature - because you are visually and attitudinally contradicting what they’re picking up. I use the mones just to make the day to day living better - never thought that was a possibility when I joined. I love how they help the day and me move along smoothly - with smiles and easy interactions along the way. You’re more than welcome to read the journals; you will find as many reasons for using mones as there are people with journals. 😃 So, welcome again, plan for some fun, and know life’s about to change - in as big a way as you intend it to. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2011, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/6 "2011-08-03T20:02:27Z")
Welcome to pherotalk shygirl! Johnny made some great recommendations and so I do not have much to say except we should be getting restocks as soon as early next week if you want to hold of on your order to purchase the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/b. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![shygirl87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c2a13f/32.png) [@shygirl87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shygirl87)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2011, 12:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/7 "2011-08-04T00:10:59Z")
hehe thank you for your kind words of advice 🙂 Sincerely? I’m looking for a way for people to strike a conversation with me without feeling reserved (the whole intimidation factor 😛) and to feel more confident in myself. Now i’m not saying I have and _extreme_ case of low self-esteem but it can get down there sometimes. I’m opting to try out the instant openess, with a touch of instant honesty… and I think i want a big bottle of IS 🙂 the thing is i’m not too sure of the difference between IS a and b. Could someone assist me here? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2011, 12:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/8 "2011-08-04T00:43:33Z")
> [@shygirl87](#): > > hehe thank you for your kind words of advice 🙂 Sincerely? I’m looking for a way for people to strike a conversation with me without feeling reserved (the whole intimidation factor 😛) and to feel more confident in myself. Now i’m not saying I have and _extreme_ case of low self-esteem but it can get down there sometimes. I’m opting to try out the instant openess, with a touch of instant honesty… and I think i want a big bottle of IS 🙂 the thing is i’m not too sure of the difference between IS a and b. Could someone assist me here? 🙂 No need to wonder. IS/A is not coming back. IS/B is what you will be wanting by the sounds of you, anyway. IS/A was and alpha female vibe - apparently. IS/B is a softer, kittenish approachable vibe. I am told I’m intimidating - so I only ever tried to get IS/B - and I love it. ---
**Author:** ![shygirl87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c2a13f/32.png) [@shygirl87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shygirl87)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2011, 2:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/9 "2011-08-11T02:39:51Z")
Thanks everyone for your help. I just received my order today in the mail 😃 going to start out small and test the effects of each product for a week individually and see how they go 🙂 I have IO, IH, IS, ISexiB :3 very excited for this. I think I’m going to start off with IS and then see how this goes first 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2011, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-to-this/51591/10 "2011-08-11T02:48:21Z")
> [@shygirl87](#): > > Thanks everyone for your help. I just received my order today in the mail 😃 going to start out small and test the effects of each product for a week individually and see how they go 🙂 I have IO, IH, IS, ISexiB :3 very excited for this. I think I’m going to start off with IS and then see how this goes first 🙂 Please go away and come back without this stuff… 😃 Because, I don’t want to falling in love with you… 😛😉