# New user, advice welcome and wanted... (long) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 30, 2009, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571 "2009-03-30T20:22:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![candiru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c0e974/32.png) [@candiru](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/candiru)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/1 "2009-03-30T20:22:36Z")
Well first off I guess I’ll go through the basics: I’m 26 I’m male I live in Atlanta I work in a professional environment (selling high-end merchandise to wealthy clients) so I’m always in a suit. Since I’m in sales I was wondering which would be better, Instant Honesty or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)? I want to get the Ammunition cologne since it seems like it would be a nice every day type wear-around cologne but thought adding a spritz of one of the others might enhance the desired effects (i.e. increasing sales). I’ve used Phero-colognes before and I wanted to give these a try after searching the internet. The first product I used with pheromones was “Realm” cologne. It had a nice smell and I definitely noticed a difference with regards to how sexual a woman was around me, especially my girlfriend (at the time; single now). I’ve since tried “Pherlure” cologne with mixed results. I’m out of both of those now so I thought I’d give one or more of these a try. Since I’m new to these “tailored” pheromones and have no idea how an oil would work (kind of an expensive at $70 to experiment with) I was thinking of sticking to the sprays (why no Alpha A314 spray?) but I’m open to hearing thoughts from experienced users. Has anyone mixed A314 with Ammunition in a work environment such as mine? Like most [male] users I enjoy increased attention from women but I also want to see if I can increase my sales like some of these pheromones promote they can do. I’m of course skeptical of that, but since I’ve had positive experiences with pheromones with regards to the opposite sex, why not see if someone smarter than I has come up with a tailored product that could benefit me? I’d be glad to share my experiences once I figure out which ones to buy. Thanks in advance for any help/advice. Regards, G. ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/2 "2009-03-30T20:28:45Z")
Hey Candiru, welcome to the forum! for sales i would prefer Honesty combined with A314 as Honesty provides a feeling of connection and makes people believe in your words more… As A314 uses a oil base its effects last the whole day while the spray pheromones effects last around 4 hours… You could combine A314 with Ammo, but its better to use either A314 or Ammo as a base and add [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) to it… Aside from sales: Tell us a bit more about your personality and where you want to use the pheromones and what you hope to achieve by using them so we can give you good advice for your specific situation… have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/3 "2009-03-30T20:35:46Z")
Hi Candiru, and welcome!! Unfortunately as a female, I cannot advise you on men’s products from personal experience, but as Magnum advised, A314 or Ammo mixed with Instant Honesty or even [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) are very effective combos. A little greater insight into your personality and how you relate to others will help us to even more precisely guide you in which products would be best for you. Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![candiru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c0e974/32.png) [@candiru](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/candiru)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/4 "2009-03-30T20:48:43Z")
Hi Magnum and Sillykitty, Thanks for your quick replies. As for my personality… I’m a rather laid back guy who doesn’t really frequent bars (although sometimes I try to make myself go). Women usually approach me as opposed to the other way around but I’d like to be more of the “hunter” instead of the guy a women has to approach. It probably boils down to me avoiding rejection by way of being the pursued instead of pursuing. I’m that guy that finds out later a girl had a total crush on me but I never made a move. In other words, an idiot when it comes to reading women. I’d like to feel more confident and _want_ to approach a woman I find interesting. I’m tired of missing opportunities! Of course like I said in my earlier post I’d also like to see an increase in sales (money in my pocket). These are my two main objectives so I hope this helps. ~Candiru ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/5 "2009-03-30T20:57:45Z")
In that case, I would say A314 tempered with Instant Honesty (increases quality/depth of conversation) and/or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (increases quantity/ chattiness of conversation) would probably work well for you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/6 "2009-03-30T21:18:11Z")
ok - lets see… Pheromones alone won’t make you a hunter but they can give you more confidence and urge to act upon your desires. Here are a few options: AMMO is best to increase attraction, women who are interested in you will show it more clearly - it also makes women want to talk to you more and it will aslo make you a bit more confident [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is not as sexy as Ammo, but it gives you more confidence than AMMO. (If you think that attraction is not the problem for you). TUTH is good if you are going to date a girl - it will arouse her and she might show more that she is attracted to you, it also helps to signal her that you are not just a good friend but there might be more (in that aspect similar to AMMO but sronger) It also can make you follow your desires a bit more agressively A314 is also good for self-confidence, its worth a try not only for sales but also for dating (but not all girls like its strong presence) For sales you really should try A314 - its the best product for that purpose (remember there is a money back guarantee for it - so you have nothing to loose here)… if you still don’t want to invest the money you could also try MX103, which is very similar to A314, its an experimental spray version of it but it has no money back guarantee and the effects won’t last as long.. A good combination is A314 for respect and authority and Instant Honesty for a connection between you and your customers, it provides a feeling like you have known each other for a long time…and will make them more willing to listen to your advice… Optional you could add Instant Shine which makes you and the people around you feel happy, its also good to increase confidence a bit more (but not as strong as Gentleman, A314 or AMMO) Conclusion: Ammo (or Gentleman), TUTH, Honesty and Shine for the girls A314 (or MX103), Honesty and Shine for sales For help with recognizing womens signals you might want to read this post: > [@How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333): > > Multiple looks. Women have much better If you catch us looking at you more than once, it’s probably becuse we’re attracted and we can’t help it. You catching us looking at all. Women look at you fast. If you catch us looking at you, this may be because we’re attracted. Not always (I get horrified when I see someone catching me looking when I’m not actually interested), but often. You guys have muscle, but we have social muscles. WHen you catch us being less than discreet, we often mean it and/… hope that helps magnum ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/7 "2009-03-30T21:29:45Z")
Magnum has given you ‘dead on’ suggestions. If you can try all he’s recommended… you won’t regret it. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/8 "2009-03-30T23:04:36Z")
Hi candiru, Welcome to the forum. You are right on A314. It is for work and business. It can project yourself as capable, trusted and reliable person. AMMO is for attraction. For work, I suggest you stick to A314. For social, you can use AMMO. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2009, 2:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-advice-welcome-and-wanted-long/27571/9 "2009-03-31T14:20:53Z")
Hello There, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Well actualy there is a [A314 spray](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic-spray/) but its out of stock at the moment. MX173 is the current A314 formula in spray version. There are a few others in testing as well like MX103 which stinks pretty bad smell wise and MX102 through I believe MX105. They go in and out of stock but we can work around this by starting with IG. IG will give you a smooth respected vibe as well and is a good choice when A314 is not something you want to spend the money on just yet. I suggest using it with Ishine in a work environment. The Ishine will add a charismatic charm and warmth. The plus is these will work well socially as well but if your looking for something with more of a sexy push to it then check out AMMO as well. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Tisha Hostess/Guide