# New User - First Time! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 7, 2009, 1:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819 "2009-04-07T13:02:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pgarner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/edb3f5/32.png) [@pgarner](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pgarner)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/1 "2009-04-07T13:02:41Z")
My name is Mary, I’m a 48 year old divorcee, and I am hoping to hear about products on this forum that will be of benefit to me! Although I believe I’m a very outgoing person and make friends relatively easily, it always helps to have extra assistance in developing relationships…right? Looking forward to hearing from folks and reading about their experiences so I can make the right choice of product! I have tried to intelligently investigate [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and find out if they really work. My ultimate goal is to find a product that helps with confidence in all different relationships, personal and business. While my business deals mainly with elementary schools, I still have to deal with adults in the promotion of the business, so any edge helps! Thanks for the forum! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/2 "2009-04-07T13:08:44Z")
Welcome to the forum. Please give us a few details about your personality. How do you interact with people generally? Also, what kind of situations do you find yourself in where you would like to see some changes? Ishine is a product that tends to give a young, healthy vibration and many people feel it gives them extra confidence. You may want to give that one a try. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/3 "2009-04-07T13:09:00Z")
Hi there, and welcome We are going to need a bit more info from you. Could you please answer these questions: **a) Your age,** **b) Sex (male, female),** **c) General location (don’t worry, nobody wants to stalk you 🙂), and** **d) Most importantly, tell us a bit about yourself**, **your personality** , **why you’re here, and what you hope pheromones will do for you.** ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/4 "2009-04-07T13:10:30Z")
HI pgarner, Welcome to the forum. The guys have said it. Tell us more about your personality. Let us know who are your targets too? Then we can recommend the right pheromones for you to try. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![pgarner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/edb3f5/32.png) [@pgarner](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pgarner)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/5 "2009-04-07T13:24:35Z")
Thanks to all of you! I have edited my original post to tell a little about myself. If you can think of other things to mention that would help me, it would be greatly appreciated! Many thanks again! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/6 "2009-04-08T02:00:11Z")
Ishine gives a youthful energetic edge kids often like. Just go easy on it till you see how they respond. You might try io and ih to help with talking to people and building rapport. If you can give us a bit more detail on how your present interactions work and which direction you would like to nudge them we can better suggest products. ---
**Author:** ![pgarner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/edb3f5/32.png) [@pgarner](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pgarner)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 2:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/7 "2009-04-08T02:31:06Z")
Hey, GWTW! I actually dress up in a wig, glasses and overalls and become sort of a country bumpkin. My character is well known in the school and in the county where I’m located, and the kids respond great already. Occasionally, though, it’s when I’m with a group of adults that I begin to feel a little discomfort, just as myself. Although I believe I’m friendly and outgoing, there’s just this little “thing” that sometimes gives me a sensation of, “Gee, what am I doing here? Maybe I should just leave.” Also, as a newly divorced middle-aged woman, there’s the whole “attraction” thing as well. Any suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 3:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/8 "2009-04-08T03:30:08Z")
> [@pgarner](#): > > Hey, GWTW! I actually dress up in a wig, glasses and overalls and become sort of a country bumpkin. My character is well known in the school and in the county where I’m located, and the kids respond great already. Occasionally, though, it’s when I’m with a group of adults that I begin to feel a little discomfort, just as myself. Although I believe I’m friendly and outgoing, there’s just this little “thing” that sometimes gives me a sensation of, “Gee, what am I doing here? Maybe I should just leave.” Also, as a newly divorced middle-aged woman, there’s the whole “attraction” thing as well. Any suggestions? Ishine and io should go well with your country bumpkin persona and increase comfort with the interactions. For attraction, try isex. The ladies can advise on use of this one better than I can. You may want to pop over to the women’s forum to ask about that one. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 10:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/9 "2009-04-08T10:53:15Z")
As others have said for business Instant Openess and Honesty. For the good times [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Good luck and let us know how you go! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-first-time/27819/10 "2009-04-09T07:20:42Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest you look at [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A which is a sexy confident strong female vibe. This is good in a work environment as well as socially. Ishine would be my next choice for a warm youthful charismatic vibe. You mention your outgoing so the above would fit your needs well. You may want to check out IH though to help build more rapport in relationships. **Your GC has been sent**. If you have questions just ask 😉 Cya in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide