# New User Introduction from QC IL

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [November 3, 2011, 5:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124 "2011-11-03T17:55:57Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![hethrlynn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/57b2e6/32.png) [@hethrlynn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hethrlynn)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2011, 5:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124/1 "2011-11-03T17:55:57Z")

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Hi…my name is Heather I am 36, single, live in the Quad Cities IL, I’ve been told I am attractive I have a few extra pounds to lose. I found this site by doing some searches on google and this site popped up. I am pretty shy when it comes to meeting new people I think it is hindering me in the dating world because I am just too quiet and I have hard time saying what I want to say to people, I can come up with it but actually saying it just never seems to happen for me. I am wondering what pheroamone would work to get me to be more chatty without having to consume a ton of alcholic beverages when out with a guy. And also I wouldn’t mind upping the attraction factor. I tend to be quiet in most social settings even though I actually love to be out in the crowd it just seems I usually end up in the background.

I am wondering what you guys would suggest for me.

I have done a little bit of research and read somewhere that andrestonel is sometimes recommended for shyness and I was wondering if that is correct? I have had a few experiences with so called “pheramone” products but really have not had any that I would say work.

So hopefully I can find out what you suggest and get that $25 GC so I can get started. 🙂

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**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2011, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124/2 "2011-11-03T18:08:50Z")

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Hi there Heather.

Welcome on board.

I don´t have any experience with women´s products, so really don´t know what to say. If they work as good as men´s line, you can expect an increase in the interest of people in socializing with you, and an increase in attraction from the oppsoite sex.

If you have not laready done it, I would suggest you to read all the sticky threads in the women´s section, as a good starting point.

Once you gain some knowledge about women´s products, you can vist the store and read carefully the products descriptions and sugested dosages.

When you are ready to make an order, it would be good to ask for advice to advanced women users. You can find them in the womens journal section. I would suggest you to read a few of the journals, and ask directlu to the people you find you have more thing in common, or at least similar objectives.

Hope this helps.

talk to you soon.

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**Author:** ![Marihino](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marihino/32/1286_2.png) [@Marihino](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marihino)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2011, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124/3 "2011-11-03T18:12:26Z")

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Hi Heather,

yes, androstenol is recommended for shyness. Personally, even though I do recommend androstenol-based products such as Instant Openness and Instant Honesty, I wouldn’t recommend it for you for the particular purpose of overcoming your own shyness. Of course there are some so-called “self effects”, that’s not (in my opinion and experience) really how pheromones work. Pheromones are one of the ways your body communicates with others around you. With using [synthetic pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) you have control over that communication, it’s not (again, IMO, IME) something that should be used instead of a drink, or instead of self confidence.  
I was extremely shy when I was very young. There’s only one real way to overcome that. If you’re shy, just stop being shy and be awesome instead. Sounds stupid, but that’s how it works. Self-confidence is a self-powering engine. You just have to start it, give it an initial push. Life gets better and you just keep being this way. One reason for shyness is a fear of people reactions. You need to realize that nothing bad can possibly happen, the worst thing would probably be someone’s lack of enthusiasm.

Of course pheromones are a great subject to learn about and a great tool to improve life. I’m sure you’ll get a lot of valuable advice here.

Welcome 🙂

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124/4 "2011-11-04T03:51:02Z")

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Hi there Heather,

Youve already gotten really good advice so mainly going to say hi.Hmm,instant openness will be a good one for what you want.It makes you and the people around you more chatty so its easier to start and keep a conversation going.Not everyone gets the self effects though,it still makes it easier anyway because you dont have to do all the talking if they are more talkative.(\>_\<)That being said they just help so will depend how shy you are.You may want to read up on some books on conversation as well.Leil lowndes has a few good books on how to overcome shyness and talk to people.For upping the attraction factor,you may want to give [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a try as well.Good luck and hopefully things will go well for you.You just have to realize your an awesome person Marihino said and everything else will fall into place(^_^)Catch ya around.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [November 8, 2011, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-introduction-from-qc-il/53124/5 "2011-11-08T21:25:48Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk heather!

To start of for your shyness I recommend IO to ease you into conversation

shine to make you feel calm and refreshed, give of that glow that draws others to you

is/b to make you feel comfortable in your skin

I think you should read up on mx397 and mx398 to see if you want to try these out

I know these will assist you in the areas you are looking for, happy testing

Your gc was issued! 🙂