# New User Looking for More Attention... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 7, 2009, 12:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476 "2009-07-07T12:01:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9e8a1a/32.png) [@guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/guy)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 12:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/1 "2009-07-07T12:01:04Z")
Hi, I am new here. I have not tried phermones before and would like to try one. Apparently there are many available. I am not sure which one I should get. I would like a particular girl to pay more attention to me and hopefully get a relationship - both physical and otherwise going with her. I am decent looking and have a successful career and in general reasonably popular but just can’t seem to make much headway with this particular girl - obviously the one I really care for. lol ---
**Author:** ![marty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marty/32/714_2.png) [@marty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marty)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 12:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/2 "2009-07-07T12:04:24Z")
Hi guy, How old are you? That could have some bearing on what will work best for you. For attraction, you really can’t beat Ammo as a first start. It is a very well balanced mix designed to really catch the attention of the opposite sex without being overbearing. But perhaps in this situation she already sees you as overbearing? If you need to increase comfort, I would look into Instant Shine or [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Shine puts people into a good mood, thus lowering a barrier for you. Instant Honesty helps people connect on a deeper level. It really depends on “why” you are having trouble with this girl. There isn’t really one product that can be recommended to “open the door” for you. We need a little bit more information to help you dissect the problem. You also have to remember that pheromones aren’t magic, you’ll still have to work your own charm as well. They can definitely give you the proper edge though. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 12:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/3 "2009-07-07T12:14:09Z")
HI , Welcome to the forum. Let us help you with some recommendations. Tell us your age and what is your personality. Are you shy or outgoing? Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Taibo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/taibo/32/1396_2.png) [@Taibo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Taibo)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 1:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/4 "2009-07-07T13:49:57Z")
If you want a girl for a relationship, get A314. You’ll gain trust and respect, this is the best product if you want a relationship with a particular girl. For her to notice you, get [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). It will make girls more attracted to you and it may even sexually aroused them. ---
**Author:** ![guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9e8a1a/32.png) [@guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/guy)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2009, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/5 "2009-07-09T04:56:37Z")
Thanks for the great advice. You asked for my age. I am about 37. The girl in question is about 30. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2009, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/6 "2009-07-09T17:36:18Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Guy! Marty already gave you some good recommendations. In order for us to assist you better we actually need more information from you. With this information I would also be able to issue you that gift certificate. This link will help explain further what I mean : [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2009, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-looking-for-more-attention/30476/7 "2009-07-09T17:58:31Z")
> [@guy](#): > > Thanks for the great advice. You asked for my age. I am about 37. The girl in question is about 30. In that case, Ammunition is going to be awesome for you, because it has two of the most important [pheromones](https://a314.com/) for your situation. These are androstenone and alpha androstenol. Androstenone is the primary masculine dominance/sexual pheromone, and it starts fading from a man’s natural signature around age 25 IIRC. More androstenone = more sexually attractive, and this is increasingly true as a woman ages. Typically, more than a small amount of it scares teenage girls, but by 30 women like a nice healthy kick of it. Alpha androstenol signals youth and vitality, and also buffers the aggressiveness of androstenone, while increasing the communication. So she will be percieving you as being close to her in age and more open to talking. I suggest 2-3 sprays of Ammunition to get started, and see what that does for you over the course of a week or two.