# New user - Married guy **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 3, 2009, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796 "2009-11-03T22:03:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jbnewberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ce7236/32.png) [@jbnewberry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jbnewberry)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2009, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796/1 "2009-11-03T22:03:17Z")
hello. i am new to the world of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). 31 yr old male - happily married for 10 years. The main reason i ended up here was that i wanted something to help grab a little more attention from my wife. As the years flew by, our sex life kept slowly sinking to a point that it is almost non existent. We have both been very faithful to one another and plan on spending the rest of our lives together. I have been remaking my self from the inside out over the last 6 months - working out, being a better husband and father - to the best of my knowledge. My wife acts interested in me sexually maybe once or twice a month. With the daily challenges of life - changing jobs - our 2-yr old boy - sex has fallen by the wayside. I feel like it needs to be a much bigger part of our lives. I am looking for a mix of mones that will help to spark an interest from my wife and something to make her a little more comfortable with her sexuality and less inhibited. Our sex life could be SO MUCH MORE FUN without all her inhibitions. I would appreciate any possible suggestions. I’m willing to try anything. thanks ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2009, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796/2 "2009-11-03T22:13:10Z")
Hey jbnewberry, Welcome! There are a few things you mentioned in the post that I believe pheromones can help you with. First off your process to improve yourself may also be amplified by using [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It will give a vibrant youthfully shine to yourself. This one is great during the day or at night. To mix in with this when you want more sparks try TUTH in the bedroom. It will create more sexual desire. Cheers Daset ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2009, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796/3 "2009-11-03T22:13:23Z")
Welcome to the forum jnewberry! As the guys will tell you, Turn Up The Heat is supposed to be good for sexual response. However, it’s also important to take time to be a couple & not just the parent, the homeowner & the worker. Maybe it’s just a matter of setting aside the time away from the kids to take your time & do it right. Maybe a weekend away will help. Bring some Turn Up The Heat & Instant Honsty (so you have deep communication) & see what happens… ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2009, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796/4 "2009-11-03T23:16:15Z")
I would suggest Instant Shine, Instant honesty, and Ammo for starting out. Starting slower will have a better effect than just pouring on TUTH and expecting to get laid, Instant shine will give you more cuddly and I want to be around you feeling to her. Ammo for a lighter going out to dinner wear it tends to build as the night goes along and will help get her fire going before you get home. Remember communication is key to any relationship so [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will help with the pillow talk before and after. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2009, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796/5 "2009-11-03T23:46:05Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![jbnewberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ce7236/32.png) [@jbnewberry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jbnewberry)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-married-guy/33796/6 "2009-11-04T03:21:49Z")
Thanks to all for the suggestions. I just placed an order and will start trying some combinations as soon as they arrive. This community has been so warm and accomidating. We celebrated our 10th anniversary on oct 23rd. I had a great weekend trip planned. grandma was keeping my little boy for a night. booked a presidential suite at her favorite hotel. I called the hotel the week before and arranged to have a dozen roses waiting in the room when we checked in. Had champagne and chocolate waiting as well. Wouldn’t you know it, the day before we departed - our babysitter fell through - so we had to take our little boy. It was still a fun trip and my wife was so suprised with everything. We didnt get to celebrate proper though. I am planning another getaway toward the end of november. Hopefully i can create some anticipation for my wife. I love it when i tell her everything i have planned a week before and she gets to let her imagination run wild. This time, hopefully i will have a little phero edge to help facilitate the right atmosphere and mood for my wife - then the real fun can start! Thanks to everyone who posted possible mixes. This is very important to me. Rest assured i will be trying each one by themselves and in a mix - and will know the right mix that my wife will respond to the best. Thanks again,