# New User Saying Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 2, 2009, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667 "2009-03-02T19:56:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pammyw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e68b1a/32.png) [@pammyw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pammyw)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/1 "2009-03-02T19:56:07Z")
Hi, My name is Pam and I am in my early 40’s. LOL. I live in Texas and have recently found out about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). I want to know more about Copulins and exactly how it attracts men. How effective is it for long-term relationships. There are other scientific forums out there that say that the natural copulins may cause a man to be nicer, happier in his relationship if exposed to it over an extended period of time. Is there any truth to this? Does synthetic copulins have the same effect? ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/2 "2009-03-02T19:58:47Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! I am not a copulin expert, so someone else will need to help fill in on that. How did you hear about pheromones, and this forum? You mentioned long term relationships, I take it you are looking for some time of improvement in your relationship? Looking to use at work or just at home? Let us know more about you and we can try to help more. ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/3 "2009-03-02T19:59:44Z")
Hey Pam and welcome to the forum! I do not know much about women’s mones, but we have many users on this board who do! To give better suggestions though it helps to know what your personality is like, and how you plan on using mones. Hope to hear from you soon! ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/4 "2009-03-02T20:03:36Z")
Hi Pam, welcome to the forum! Cops are pretty much like diamonds, just cheaper… A girls best friend 😃 To sum them up…they turn men on and raise their testosterone levels by 140% within (I belive) 20 minutes or so 🙄 I’d say they would be great for LTR’s…would definitively help the spicing things up in the bedroom part… I don’t know about the longterm effects but I’m sure Tisha or one of the other veterans can tell you. So are you also interested in other phero’s or just in the cops? I’d love to help you with a few suggestions but it’s a lot easier if we know a bit more about you and your personality. How would you describe yourself? Shy, outgoing, chatty? What’s your main objective for using phero’s? General social situations, family life, work etc? ---
**Author:** ![pammyw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e68b1a/32.png) [@pammyw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pammyw)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/5 "2009-03-02T20:19:34Z")
> [@MikeMan22](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum! > > I am not a copulin expert, so someone else will need to help fill in on that. How did you hear about pheromones, and this forum? You mentioned long term relationships, I take it you are looking for some time of improvement in your relationship? Looking to use at work or just at home? > > Let us know more about you and we can try to help more. I literally stumbled on this about 2 weeks ago after reviewing the Science of Sex where he talked about Copulins and then went googling everything to do with Copulins and this forum came up. I want to add more spice to my current relationship. We have been “dating” for almost 8 months. I would like to have more “intimacy”, but want him to be the one to initiate it. I already know he finds me attractive. He is 12 years younger than me, but it would be hard to tell as I look at least 10 years younger and work out constantly so I am in very good shape. In fact just the other day a 24 year old guy tried to hit on me. Anywho I digress. I suspect that I produce a lot of copulins because I seem to have an effect on men where they are very possessive and jealous with me. In every long term relationship I have been the one to end it and they always want to get back with me. I don’t know if it has anything to do with copulins. Just wondering. I do not take birth control pills, eat very well and would be considered more of a natural girl. The guy I’m dating is very Alpha Male, and very much the leader in the relationship and in control, doesn’t show much emotion but has a very kind heart. So I’m looking for him to loose a little bit of that control so we can have more fun. Hope this makes sense. ---
**Author:** ![pammyw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e68b1a/32.png) [@pammyw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pammyw)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/6 "2009-03-02T20:28:30Z")
> [@Xiphoid](#): > > Hi Pam, welcome to the forum! > > Cops are pretty much like diamonds, just cheaper… A girls best friend 😃 To sum them up…they turn men on and raise their testosterone levels by 140% within (I belive) 20 minutes or so 🙄 I’d say they would be great for LTR’s…would definitively help the spicing things up in the bedroom part… I don’t know about the longterm effects but I’m sure Tisha or one of the other veterans can tell you. > > So are you also interested in other phero’s or just in the cops? I’d love to help you with a few suggestions but it’s a lot easier if we know a bit more about you and your personality. How would you describe yourself? Shy, outgoing, chatty? > > What’s your main objective for using phero’s? General social situations, family life, work etc? I basically just want to use the pheromones in social situations at least to start out. I work from home. Although I don’t see it, but I’ve been told this a lot, I come off as very confident and could be very intimidating. I guess I would be an Alpha Girl. LOL. Although I’m definitely wanting to temper that a bit as I am with a very Alpha Man and we butt heads over this at times. Other than the turn on part which I definitely want, is there anything to make an alpha man more like a cub at times and less like a lion. Am I expecting too much from pheromones? I am definitely not shy. I would be interested in other pheromones as well. He also does not easily trust people and although he probably shares with me more than anyone else he can be very secretive about his feelings. So to recap, I guess I could use something that would make me come across as more girly, less intimidating, something that will heighten the sexual attraction, and something that will make him more open with me. Please let me know if you need any more information to provide suggestions. Thank you all for your quick response. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/7 "2009-03-02T20:30:08Z")
> [@pammyw](#): > > I want to add more spice to my current relationship. We have been “dating” for almost 8 months. I would like to have more “intimacy”, but want him to be the one to initiate it. > The guy I’m dating is very Alpha Male, and very much the leader in the relationship and in control, doesn’t show much emotion but has a very kind heart. So I’m looking for him to loose a little bit of that control so we can have more fun. > > I suspect that I produce a lot of copulins because I seem to have an effect on men where they are very possessive and jealous with me. Although it’s good you don’t use BC pills, age is also a big factor in natural copulin levels…they unfortunately decrease with age ☹ Nothing wrong with giving nature a li’ll helping hand though 😉 For your relationship I’d suggest you have a look at IS/b… Alpha males have a tendency to be more responsive to TAH heavy phero’s as they have a softer feminine vibe instead of a dominant alpha…It basically lets them feel all manly and gets their protective instinct out 😃 To create a bit of intimacy try IH… It’s great for creating that closeness and intimate feeling with conversations 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![pammyw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e68b1a/32.png) [@pammyw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pammyw)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/8 "2009-03-02T20:41:06Z")
> [@Xiphoid](#): > > Although it’s good you don’t use BC pills, age is also a big factor in natural copulin levels…they unfortunately decrease with age ☹ Nothing wrong with giving nature a li’ll helping hand though 😉 > > For your relationship I’d suggest you have a look at IS/b… Alpha males have a tendency to be more responsive to TAH heavy phero’s as they have a softer feminine vibe instead of a dominant alpha…It basically lets them feel all manly and gets their protective instinct out 😃 > > To create a bit of intimacy try IH… It’s great for creating that closeness and intimate feeling with conversations 🙂 Thanks I’ll check those 2 out and let you know my results. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 3:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-saying-hello/26667/9 "2009-03-03T03:17:28Z")
Hello There, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Xiphoid has given you a great run down on copulins and what products to check out. I agree IS/B and IH are great to start with. If you have questions just ask and I look forward to chatting with you in the forum **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha