# New User, would love some advice :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 26, 2009, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451 "2009-03-26T22:08:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rowen88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rowen88/32/767_2.png) [@Rowen88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rowen88)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/1 "2009-03-26T22:08:31Z")
Hi everyone, Just discovered this site today and am really intrigued! Looking to buy some pheromones tonight, so I’m hoping someone might be able to guide me in what to get. Be warned I am a complete amateur and don’t really know anything about the terminology I’ve found on this site, but I’m a quick learner. Firstly - I am a student who will be looking for a job and attending interviews soon and it would be fantastic to have something that could potentially enhance my chances of making a great lasting impression! Of course it would be nice for people to be pleasant in general, I am quite an ‘aesthetically concerned’ (for want of another term) 20 year-old girl and get negative responses regularly, especially from women - in fact it’s almost as if I give off bad pheromones! And finally, it would also be good to feel good about myself, and generally cheery. I have read quite a few posts about [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), so I thought that might be good to start with? However I have also read that ‘TAL’ is a favourite of a lot of people? Also, was wondering how exactly people tailor their own mixtures of pheromones? How do you work out how much you need of each, etc? Would be great if someone could help. Thanks so much. ---
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/2 "2009-03-26T22:17:25Z")
hey rowen88- good intro. for interviews, i’d recommend mx134 or 300. it’s a very good phero for when you want to present yourself as a well-to-do person. potential employers may seek this in an employee and if you’re interviewing with a person of the same nature, perhaps better rapport could be built. ishine can help with the girls and yourself, especially if you tack it on with one of the mx’s. when used alone, it gives a general glow to others and may give you a feel-good vibe. tal is more for advanced users. once you start with the consumer line you’ll better understand which of the advanced things to pick. i personally don’t “mix” in the sense of combining pheros into one tube. however, i do layer, and that’s spraying pheros on top of others. this is a trial and error thing. start with one spray and check your results, then go to two, etc. welcome, and hope this helped. edit: getting my pheros mixed up. MFG is right, you want to go with mx134 or mx300. ---
**Author:** ![Rowen88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rowen88/32/767_2.png) [@Rowen88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rowen88)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/3 "2009-03-26T22:19:39Z")
Also…was just wondering where I can find instant shine for women, as there is only mens’ on the website? thanks 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/4 "2009-03-26T22:20:41Z")
Hey there Rowen, welcome to the forums! It’s no problem to be new to phero’s, we all were at some point. 😃 Firstly, a small tip: if you answer a question or two and wait for Tisha to swing by (may be early tomorrow, at latest), you’ll be able to get a $25 gift certificate off that first order. So just hang on to that enthusiasm and browse around the women’s Sticky notes for some extra information. Now then, down to buuuuusiness. Let me see if i can clear a thing or two up, then i’ll go into recommendations. First off, i’m sure you’re confused as to what TAL and TAH are. These are the two main ingredients in the Instant Sexiness line for women. TAL is in Instant Sexiness A and TAH is in Instant Sexiness B. IS/a gives off a strong, confident, sexy woman vibe like Angelina Jolie in tomb raider. IS/b gives off a softer, kittenish, sexy vibe, kinda like Marilyn Monroe. It’s probably best for you to start with one of those line before experimenting with the straight TAL or TAH like some of the more experienced ladies here do. But i’ll let a girl recommend which of those to get. 😉 You were correct, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) would be a great buy for you! It’s a “feel good” vibe (excuse the pun 😃) that makes the people around you more upbeat and energetic, while also giving alot of people the self-effect of a bit of a confidence boost. Good for just about anywhere. I believe that the female equivalent of the men’s awesome work product (A314) is MX134, but it is currently sold out. ☹ However, they have the same product with a different scent packet (Neroli = orange-y note) called MX300. And i just checked and that one is in. So that could be a good one for you. So yeah, those three would be my recommendations, but like i said, wait for Tisha and a girl or two to drop by, since you know… they wear the female ones. 😮 But feel free to ask any questions and good luck with your trials! Cheers! EDIT: Oh, just saw that other post. Instant Shine started off as a men’s product, but the daring women here tried it and fell in love with it as well. So technically, it’s a unisex product, but is labelled as a men’s product. So don’t worry, you can wear the men’s one. ---
**Author:** ![Rowen88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rowen88/32/767_2.png) [@Rowen88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rowen88)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/5 "2009-03-26T22:42:12Z")
That’s fantastic, thanks so much for your help jayarea and mr feel good! I will wait around for my discount, very excited 🙂 my only problem with the TAL/Instant Sexiness thing is that it’s not primarily male attention I’m going for… I’d rather see a difference in women’s attitudes towards me, although I’m sure it would be fun to see just how far you can manipulate men through [pheromones](https://a314.com/)! It seems they could be the secret of getting exactly what you want from life?! Seems too good to be true… lol! (I mean pheromones could be the secret, not men!) ---
**Author:** ![Rowen88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rowen88/32/767_2.png) [@Rowen88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rowen88)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/6 "2009-03-26T22:43:53Z")
> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > EDIT: Oh, just saw that other post. Instant Shine started off as a men’s product, but the daring women here tried it and fell in love with it as well. So technically, it’s a unisex product, but is labelled as a men’s product. So don’t worry, you can wear the men’s one. Mr.Feel Good, does this mean the one on the site listed for men is not fragranced like an aftershave/cologne? Thanks 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/7 "2009-03-26T23:15:45Z")
HI Rowen. Welcome to the forum. Forthe interview, I suggest MX300. It can make peple think you are capable, trusted and relaibale person. A fo the feel-good pheromones, I agree with SHine. It can boost confidence. It will also uplift you mood and the mood ofthe people around you. For the start try one phero at a time to get to know he effect and your sweet spot. After doing that, you will know how to use them together to get your desired result. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Rowen88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rowen88/32/767_2.png) [@Rowen88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rowen88)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 11:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/8 "2009-03-26T23:26:37Z")
> [@jamesbonded](#): > > HI Rowen. > > Welcome to the forum. > > Forthe interview, I suggest MX300. It can make peple think you are capable, trusted and relaibale person. > > A fo the feel-good pheromones, I agree with SHine. It can boost confidence. It will also uplift you mood and the mood ofthe people around you. > > For the start try one phero at a time to get to know he effect and your sweet spot. After doing that, you will know how to use them together to get your desired result. > > Good luck Thanks a lot for your post, jamesbonded. I am definitely going to go with instant shine 🙂 The impression I am getting of [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is that it could, just possibly, be potentially dangerous if you catch yourself in the wrong scenario with the wrong people! Just wondering if you or anyone else have any perspectives on this? I also got the gist that some users have found it attracts a certain type of man…more caveman-esque (haha!) - could this too contribute to a more sinister side of possible effects? Hmm…😕 ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/9 "2009-03-26T23:28:05Z")
> [@Rowen88](#): > > Mr.Feel Good, does this mean the one on the site listed for men is not fragranced like an aftershave/cologne? > > Thanks 🙂 Almost all of the consumer line (with the exception of Spaceland, A314, and Ammo) are scented as [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/). That’s the orange-y note i told you about, it dies down pretty well after 10-15 min and is very easy to cover with a fragrance, if you’d care to. Now spaceland is an herbal EO (smells like a pine tree to me) and the other two, A314 and Ammo, are different cologne scents. But for your picks, they’ll be just fine. 😃 EDIT: hmm, i don’t think i’d heard that about Instant Sexiness… then again, i don’t tend to browse through the stories of women’s products as much. You say you’ve seen sign of the jock-ttraction from these stories? Interesting. Well, i’ll leave it to any females that’ll stop by to answer that one. Sorry, i gots nothing. ---
**Author:** ![therapygirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/therapygirl/32/1880_2.png) [@therapygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therapygirl)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2009, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/10 "2009-03-27T00:04:37Z")
Hey Rowen, Glad you’re here! After you get a feel for instant Shine, you may want to try Instant honesty. It gives people a trusting feeling, like they have known you for a long time. It deepens the level of conversation too. Useful for interviews because they will feel “familiar”, and will trust you more. You may want to give it a try too! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2009, 9:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user-would-love-some-advice/27451/11 "2009-03-28T09:42:35Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I am Glad you decided to join us. I would suggest you look at three products to fit your needs. They come in to-go size so you can check them out before investing in a large bottle. Isexiness A which contains TAL and gives a strong sexy vibe. MX300 which is the women’s version of A314. This will inspire people to be more accommodating and respectful and give a strong capable vibe. Ishine for a warm uplifting pull. This is one of my favorites as it makes everyone including the wearer feel fantastic. If you have questions just ask and we look forward to seeing you in the forum **Your GC has been sent** Tisha Hostess/Guide