# New user **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 29, 2010, 8:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151 "2010-04-29T08:12:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 8:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/1 "2010-04-29T08:12:47Z")
Hi everyone, my name is Nick. I’m a 30 year old male from Chicago. I’m pretty new to mones. I used some I bought over the Internet maybe 6 or 7 years ago and I was surprised at the time to have a lot of luck with it. I really don’t remember what the product was but I remember going for a routine haircut and the stylist I was given at random was totally blown away by me. She actually asked me out for drinks that night and we started a LTR. I have to say, I thought this girl was out of my league, and I have no doubt the mones did the trick on her. I haven’t used any since then. I’ve had very good luck meeting and dating high quality women. I lived in Las Vegas for about 3 years and had plenty of luck and another LTR without the use of mones, but I can say there were no reactions like that of the aforementioned hairstylist. I moved back to Chicago for work and immediately met and fell in love with an incredible woman. We have dated for about 6 months and I made a few very minor mistakes with this woman and about two weeks ago she said she wanted to take a break. She has since agreed to see me next week, although it will be brief. She will be doing some spa treatments on me and we will have a little time to chat. I got to thinking about how I could maximize the time and the closeness that we will share next week and the light bulb went off. I remembered the hairstylist. So, I’ve been doing a lot of research, sifting through all of the products out there on the net and finally decided to purchase A314, TUTH, and instant shine. I don’t have a lot of time to find out where my sweet spot is with these, but I’m hoping they will give me an advantage to get things back on track with my lady next week. I think maybe I should have gotten the IH as well, since I hear that it allows people to be more truthful with you, which in turn makes them trust you more. Trust is the issue she has with me at this point. I wanted to use the A314 to enhance my value and respect that she does have for me, kind of like “why did I let him go?”. We have an incredible sexual relationship so I didn’t think it would be too risky to throw a little TUTH in there, and round it all off with some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), to enhance the fun, sociable qualities she already loves about me. Maybe IH is missing, but like I said I don’t have a lot of time to experiment. I’m interested in hearing from others in the mones community about how you think this mix might work, given the goals I have for it. I’m also interested in hearing from PUA’s, women, or really anybody who might have advice or tips on how I should handle our first encounter next week, which will be our first time together in three weeks. Thank You everyone, especially Radman513 for all of your help. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 8:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/2 "2010-04-29T08:19:03Z")
Honestly, if your game is really good I’d just suggest some IH and IShine (maybe some IG to add extra comfort and make her feel like you’re on top of things.) IG also helps to make girls feel comfortable around the wearer, kind of like they’re being protected. IH also increases comfort, so these two would be a good match. IShine helps to increase mood/brighten moods, and it also helps give the wearer a healthy attractive aura that pulls people in. So I’d say you can pull these off without -none, since it seems like you know your stuff. A314 is great too, it’s like IG on steroids with other mones helping to drive the Androsterone in A314. However, it’s a little bit more serious than IG (which is also Androsterone based.) A little IH and IShine can help to lighten it and make it comforting though. ---
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/3 "2010-04-29T08:26:39Z")
I thought about the A314 being serious but I think that’s important. I have one thing she really wants me to change and some important business to take care of so I want her to feel the seriousness and urgency I have about it. I did get the IS to help soften or round it out. I also went with the TUTH because I do want a little bit of sexual tension in there. I’m just thinking I missed out on the IH and hopefully Steve will throw on a togo. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 8:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/4 "2010-04-29T08:32:24Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Well, I would definedly go with Instant Honesty and Instant Shine. If the issue is trust then those would be something to help you with gain some trust in her eyes. Also consider [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) or A314 if you already have it. I probably wouldn’t wear TUTH this time. ---
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/5 "2010-04-29T08:41:49Z")
OK, I have A314, IShine and TUTH…I can add the IH, but why not use a little bit of the TUTH for this encounter? We already have a very healthy, passionate sex life…I don’t think I’d be coming across as only wanting that. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 9:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/6 "2010-04-29T09:01:20Z")
You can add the TUTH of course, if it’s been awhile since you last saw her or if she has her own unknown reasons as to why she wanted that break then it may be good to start gradually at first then hit her with the -none. If you want you can do it the same day too, but maybe just spray it on after you guys have gotten acquainted again. ---
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/7 "2010-04-29T09:08:07Z")
She knows exactly why she wanted a break. So do I. This is a woman with extremely high self esteem, which is why I chose the A314 over IG. I’m not going to have a lot of time with her initially, but I’m hoping to invite her for dinner later that evening. I will probably feel her out when we meet and ask her then to meet me later. I’m thinking a small shot of TUTH might get her there, but then again, I don’t want her thinking “I’m not yet ready to have sex with him again”, and in turn decline the dinner invite. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 10:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/8 "2010-04-29T10:59:48Z")
> [@NM110279](#): > > She knows exactly why she wanted a break. So do I. This is a woman with extremely high self esteem, which is why I chose the A314 over IG. I’m not going to have a lot of time with her initially, but I’m hoping to invite her for dinner later that evening. I will probably feel her out when we meet and ask her then to meet me later. I’m thinking a small shot of TUTH might get her there, but then again, I don’t want her thinking “I’m not yet ready to have sex with him again”, and in turn decline the dinner invite. Yeah, I hear you. Spraying the TUTH to your chest will help to make it not be so intense since the clothes and location won’t let it hit them as hard as if it were on open skin. It’s really strong, and one spray should be enough for someone your age. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/38151/9 "2010-04-29T23:31:48Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.