# New User **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 15, 2015, 11:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339 "2015-12-15T11:10:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jpg999](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ecccb3/32.png) [@jpg999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpg999)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 11:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/1 "2015-12-15T11:10:52Z")
Hi all, new to [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) (and forums). Middle age gay male looking to try it out. (meet people & be more desireable). I’m more interested in manly men. I welcome any recommendations. Thanks 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![mrseeker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrseeker/32/5177_2.png) [@mrseeker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrseeker)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 12:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/2 "2015-12-15T12:17:39Z")
Hey there, Welcome to the forums. Can you give us a bit more information about yourself, and what you are looking for with pheromones? A bit of background information (like age, are you introvert or extrovert, what are you aiming for, any specifics you like to share) so they can give you the 25$ gift card. Based on what you have written down, I would say to take a look at “[Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/)”. There have been a lot of talks on the forums about it (some refer to it as MB) and it seems to work pretty well for gay males. On average 2-3 sprays should work. There are other pheromones that work well, but this is the best I can give based on the information that you have provided. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/3 "2015-12-15T13:22:49Z")
Hi there, and welcome to the forum . Best known product for gay men (to increase desirability ) is MB . you can use it with IS, if you wanna be more confident in looks, and give a happy vibe. or IO , if you have trouble breaking ice, or initiating conversations. or with IH , if you want connection to be deeper with your exposed mate. you can read more on this forum , its full of information and personal experiences. keep posting and take care ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 2:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/4 "2015-12-15T14:11:39Z")
Hello jpg999, Welcome to the forum. Like mrseeker said additional info will help us out. I can tell you HankBuddy journal is worth checking out as he is an older gay man who has a really great journal. With MB I haven’t seen to much use on it, but it is designed for gay men. I have a couple of gay men friends myself even though I am straight and this is what works around them. **Ammo** This works really well on gay men. Very balanced and is for attraction. Some gay men think the scent can be very strong so I would look into the [Summer Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as it is lighter. **IG** Men also seem to like this as well.What is good here is this can also be used for work because it will give out a more mature leadership vibe. Will boost confidence to and this will go well for work. I know these 2 work for sure if you want some options. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/5 "2015-12-15T14:12:38Z")
Hi jpg999, Welcome to this forum. I have no knowledge of the gay side of pheromones usage, so I cannot be of much help. However, our friend Hankbuddy will probably drop by and give you good advice on the subject. You can also have a look at his journal in the men’s section. Please tell us more about yourself, personnality, and type of man you are looking for, I am sure this will help users give you the best advice possible. By doing so, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/6 "2015-12-15T16:22:45Z")
Hi JPG! Welcome to the forums. Like you, I’m a middle aged gay man, and like you, I prefer my men to be men. I know a couple folks here suggested Mystery Boy. Frankly, I haven’t used it and don’t see any need to use it. Products that straight men use to attract straight women is appropriate for gay men to use to attract other gay men. I’ve had really good results using Ammo and A314. With Ammo, I get lots of attention and phone numbers from guys. Guys will usually come up to me to check me out. With A314, I come across as a higher status guy who gets to pick and choose who I talk to. It also leaves a stronger impression in guys’ minds. Overall, A314 fits my persona, but I recently got a new bottle of Ammo. I’ll be using that again in the near future because I like the more social aspects of it. If you want to rely on your own charisma without the sexual tension, use Instant Shine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). This combo is great to making other people around feel good about hanging out with you, while encouraging a bond of friendship. Overall, it’s a great combo for meeting new people. After establishing rapport, you can add Ammo or A314 to really get a guy’s attention. I invite you to read my **journal** ([An Older Gay Male Perspective](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-older-gay-male-perspective/64949)) using these products. I’m still experimenting with solo products and various combinations. Read post #116. I explain my theory on how pheromones work on gay men. Anyway, the recommendations I provided are general enough to apply to a very wide social and work situations. If you can provide more information about yourself, such as your temperament, confidence level, where you intend to meet guys, we can provide more specific recommendations. But, definitely take a look at the Intro Pack for Men. I use a lot of the products in there, and some! Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 16, 2015, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/7 "2015-12-16T06:13:59Z")
Hi there! Kindly verify your identity. Please send me via PM your real name, billing and shipping address, and your store account username. This ID verification is in connection with the intro GCs only. If you think it’s too much and you don’t need the intro GC, you can ignore this request. 🙂 Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂