# New User **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 15, 2015, 11:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339 "2015-12-15T11:10:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 6
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339/6 "2015-12-15T16:22:45Z")
Hi JPG! Welcome to the forums. Like you, I’m a middle aged gay man, and like you, I prefer my men to be men. I know a couple folks here suggested Mystery Boy. Frankly, I haven’t used it and don’t see any need to use it. Products that straight men use to attract straight women is appropriate for gay men to use to attract other gay men. I’ve had really good results using Ammo and A314. With Ammo, I get lots of attention and phone numbers from guys. Guys will usually come up to me to check me out. With A314, I come across as a higher status guy who gets to pick and choose who I talk to. It also leaves a stronger impression in guys’ minds. Overall, A314 fits my persona, but I recently got a new bottle of Ammo. I’ll be using that again in the near future because I like the more social aspects of it. If you want to rely on your own charisma without the sexual tension, use Instant Shine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). This combo is great to making other people around feel good about hanging out with you, while encouraging a bond of friendship. Overall, it’s a great combo for meeting new people. After establishing rapport, you can add Ammo or A314 to really get a guy’s attention. I invite you to read my **journal** ([An Older Gay Male Perspective](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-older-gay-male-perspective/64949)) using these products. I’m still experimenting with solo products and various combinations. Read post #116. I explain my theory on how pheromones work on gay men. Anyway, the recommendations I provided are general enough to apply to a very wide social and work situations. If you can provide more information about yourself, such as your temperament, confidence level, where you intend to meet guys, we can provide more specific recommendations. But, definitely take a look at the Intro Pack for Men. I use a lot of the products in there, and some! Good luck! --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-user/65339)._