Hi Pfsnc and welcome to the mone forum! You’ve got some good stuff picked out, the Instant Shine is a great social, starter mone. It’s usually part of my mone applications. I feel a bit more relaxed and others are at ease with me and tell me I look youthful… nice results!
I suggest you look the gentleman’s threads, he’s a forum member who is in a similar situation as you describe yourself. Here is his journal:
For getting a deeper sense of connection and communications, I’d suggest you also add IH. I get a feeling from others that they’ve known me for a while, like a long time friend that can have the confidence to open up intimately. Great for LTR.
Welcome again and hope to read up on your journal on how these mones helped you out!! 
Oh, and I’m around your age and I use 2x IS. I did my sweet spot testing, to see how much application of IS gets the best results. Basically, I’m at 2 sprays of regular strength to get some self effects in me and some consistent effects on others. So, since I have IS 2x strength, I only go for 1 spray or 2 at the most. More than that is a waste of mones from what I found in my testing. My journal is on my sig below, the Amazing in a bottle link.