# Newbe **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 30, 2011, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311 "2011-01-30T09:46:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CalicoBlue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@CalicoBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CalicoBlue)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/1 "2011-01-30T09:46:28Z")
Good Morning, About me.. middle aged, single midwesterner.. looking to put some spice in her life. Been single now for quite awhile, just working on my career, and now I think it might be time for me to do a little living. I thought maybe [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) could help. I got the idea from a male friend of mine who hinted around that he was using them. He is a pretty average guy, but seemed to have the dating life of a guy way above average. So I wanted to see if that could work for women as well. I am far from a wild child, in fact the complete opposite. I am looking for a mix that will help me get back into the game. I am not ready to play in the super bowl yet, but just to get me back in the game. Would love the coupon for 25 dollars and some help on what to buy. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 11:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/2 "2011-01-30T11:06:05Z")
Hi there Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Yes pheromones work very well for women. They are used for so much more then just attraction to I just love them. I would start with the basics. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A or B. A is more of a Angelina Jolie sexy… strong independent alpha women. B is more Marilyn Monroe… sweet soft girly. I think they have only B in stock in the to-go section so start with that one. I use both and they do attract attention. Next I suggest Ishine for a youthful, uplifting magnetic warmth. Love this mix for a million reasons. Last but not least either IO or IH. Both of these cause attraction and more communication and interaction with others. IO is more laid back chatty fun, it draws people to you. IH is deeper more intimate conversation. It gives a feeling of connection and comfort. IH is my favorite of the two. If you have any questions just ask and I hope to chat with you in the ladies section. Its a great community here and we help each other out with all sort of social issues and stuff and its a great place to learn to use mones. Mick comes in once a day to do the GC’s so I am sure she will be sending you one. You may want to add a little about your personality to this thread so you dont have to wait. This also helps us point you to products that could be useful to your needs. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![r3mpuh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/r3mpuh/32/584_2.png) [@r3mpuh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/r3mpuh)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 4:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/3 "2011-01-30T16:00:57Z")
Hi there CalicoBlue! Hope you will enjoy your time here! 🙂 Tisha summorized everything very well! Don’t really know what to add, but it seem like IS/b to-go bottles also is out of stock to me. 😕 well, you could begin to try out the Instant Shine/[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), those really are great products for both genders. The smell is just great to imo. (: Me myself, I have actually tried out the Instant Sexiness A product, and yeah I’m a dude. xD It’s primary made for Women, so for me it worked more like a social product. But my friend mom/sister seemed “slightly changed” from normal when i talked to them. I guess they some what stole the phero-signals the IS/A sent out and acted on them. Here are som good sticky threads i can recommend you reading from the Women Section: > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… > [@How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192): > > Its a question we all ask at some point… The very first thing to do when you begin to think about purchasing pheromones is to start observing people before you use them. Ask yourself what are peoples normal general reaction to you and others around you. Are they open and friendly ? Are they intimidated ? Do they acknowledge your presence ? Do strangers generally talk to you ? Are people in a great mood when hanging around you ? Do people treat you with respect ? Are guy/girls open to you… > [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258): > > Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to … > [@LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383): > > Hello people! For awhile now I have been wanting to compile your wonderful experiences for everyone, especially us newbies. I find myself constantly searching, searching, searching for your pearls of wisdom and thought - why not put some together on one page? I know there are other fantastics posts out there with the phero meanings, descriptions, and what they are designed for and what is in them, but this one only has direct, random quotes from all of you based on your own personal experienc… Good Luck & Show no mercy! ^^ Besh whishes Pettersson ---
**Author:** ![lamentofking](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@lamentofking](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lamentofking)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 4:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/4 "2011-01-30T16:14:16Z")
Welcome to the forums . ! Hope you enjoy your stay here . ( I know I am . ) 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/5 "2011-01-30T19:03:13Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Tisha already did a great job helping you! You could buy ISHINE as your first purchase. Lights up the mood and atmosphere around you. People will comment on how you are actually “glowing”. You will be surprised. Now, you also might want to buy [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A or B. A is more alpha than B so pick whatever suits you the best 😉 IO or IH are to enhance your conversation with others. IO =quantity. IH =quality. Enjoy your time here 😉 ---
**Author:** ![CalicoBlue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@CalicoBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CalicoBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 6:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/6 "2011-02-01T18:31:04Z")
Thank you so much for the help, much appreciated. I will try IS when it comes in stock, Is there a good mix, that I should go with? ---
**Author:** ![CalicoBlue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@CalicoBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CalicoBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/7 "2011-02-01T18:44:48Z")
My personality, I am more introverted than extroverted, not the most outgoing person. Loyal to the ones closest to me. Focused and dedicated to getting ahead, not had much time for partying, or relationships. I would say I am an easy going person, a gentle spirit, with a big heart , but ambitious to a fault. I am thinking maybe IO would work for me in social situations. Maybe I will try that one. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbe/45311/8 "2011-02-01T23:42:06Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Calicoblue! The socials will do great for you since you have not had much time for partying or relationships. Once you start being more social and using the sexual [attraction pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) that will make you feel confident and get more attention you will be amazed how that part of your life will change for the better. Pop into the female section to get to know the ladies better and for us to share experiences. **Your gc was issued! 😃**