# NewBea :) desperate for help! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 23, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095 "2009-06-23T05:35:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b5e925/32.png) [@Bea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bea)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095/1 "2009-06-23T05:35:11Z")
Hi everybody, First of all I have to say that this is the first forum I ever sign up to. English is my second language, so please, forgive me any imperfection in expressing myself. I found this site a few days ago while googling for pheros, and I became addicted to it. I’m new to pheros, but already fell under their spell. I am rather shy person, doubting my appearance (hair too thin, nose too big, hips too wide, etc.), so you can imagine what does it do to my self-esteem. What I would like from pheros (for now) is: 1. Make myself (and those around me) feel like I am a goddess 2. Make my husband to “rediscovered” my beauty and attractiveness, see the same glance of admiration in his eyes after 12 years of marriage, as at the beginning. To make him stop for a moment and look at me, REALY look at me like the first time we’ve met. And I think that the best way to achieve this, is to show him that other men find me attractive. So I look for attention and admiration with a subtle hint of sexual interest. It also would be good for me to loosen up a bit. I’ve ordered one bottle of MX135, and can’t wait to try it. Steel I’m not sure if this was right choice for my needs. Also I have no clue how much and where (on my body) I should use it. Please, help me to start this exciting journey on the path of pheros, as I feel lost!!! 😕 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095/2 "2009-06-23T06:13:06Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Your english is great so do not worry about that. I understand you just fine so that is not a problem. We have a lot of people here for whom english is a second language so we are all used to that. I see you have already purchased MX135. Being a guy I have never used it so I cannot comment. I do know quite a few of the ladies here do use it and like it so with a little procatice you should do pretty well with it. In the future you may also want t consider IH. It helps generate feelings of connection - feeling closer to other people. As a result you often get deeper conversations. Just be ready for anything to come out of those conversations. Good luck and let us know how it goes. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095/3 "2009-06-23T06:16:33Z")
Hi Bea! To help with the shyness, Instant Openness is great. It really helps to get conversations started. To help with your confidence and with your husband, you should try Instant Sexiness/a or Instant Sexiness/b. Instant Sexiness/a will give you a strong, sexy aura. Instant Sexiness/b will give you more of a soft, kittenish, sexy aura. They are both good. If you only try one, then the best way to choose is to determine what kind of vibe you want to give out, and what kind of vibe is more attractive to your husband. To start with any of the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/), you need to try them one at a time, at first. For one week, spray one spray only. Good places to spray are your hair, your neck area and your wrists. Go about your day in the normal way, try to forget you have it on, but at the same time notice if there are any reactions from other people that are different from normal. If you get good effects at one spray, then you have found your correct dosage for that product. If not, then the next week, do two sprays, the same way. If nothing, then try three. For these products, usually between one and three sprays is usually good. Every person is different, and every product is different. For one product you might need only one spray for the best effect, and for another you might need three. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 6:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095/4 "2009-06-23T06:35:25Z")
Hi Bea, Welcome to the forum. I can see your English is excellent. MX135 is sure a popular phero for the women here in Androtics. I would like to suggest [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) as well. It can make you attractive and sexy again. There are 2 versions of IS. IS A is to make you more dominant and tougher like Angelina Jolie. IS B is to make you more feminine and softer like Monroe. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 1:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095/5 "2009-06-23T13:24:41Z")
Hi Bea Welcome to the forum MX135 is a fun sassy mix with a light sexual kick to it. Its good for being the center of attention and when it contained copulins it was more sexual then the current forumula. Now dont get me wrong MX135 is still one of the best I have used and I been using mones for 9 years. I do suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) for attraction and a feeling of confidence. You may want to look into copulins though. As we age women make less copulins. They signal youth and fertility and raise mens testosterone signaling the mating urge. Testing has shown that when men were exposed to women first without copulins then with them wearing copulins they scored the same females higher in attractiveness with the presense of copulins. You can get them over at love [scent.com](http://scent.com) We talk about the product alot in here its called Essence for women or EOW. Look forward to getting to know you in the forum Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2009, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbea-desperate-for-help/30095/6 "2009-06-24T20:02:51Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Bea! Say it with me in chant form : I AM BEAUTIFUL AND DESIRABLE. EVERY MAN LOVES ME INCLUDING MY HUSBAND AND EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO BE ME. You will be amazed the kind of things you can accomplish with the mind literally. The mind believes whatever you tell it to. While [pheromones](https://a314.com/) can give you that edge and do wonders for you, it can only do so much. You already received some great advice so: Your GC is on it’s way!