# Newbi, and what I'm trying to accomplish **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 18, 2012, 12:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900 "2012-06-18T12:09:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![s\_t\_f](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5ac83/32.png) [@s\_t\_f](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/s_t_f)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 12:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/1 "2012-06-18T12:09:12Z")
Hi all, I’m a 31yo Male from wisonsin, usa. I just recently came across an add for nexus [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and became very interested and ended up here. I have always had a more negative reaction with women for no real reason. They say I’m attractive but they just kind of shy away from me. My current gf’s best friend met me for like 5 minutes and we just exchanged hi’s. Her friend said I give her a rapey/killy/ vibe. I have never laid a hand on a girl. I’m almost convinced that it is my pheromones causing this. So What I would like to accomplish. I would like my current gf to be generally more interested in me. She loves the sex and thinks it’s the best ever. She says she is very attracted to my looks but still seems distant. Could this be a normal reaction to my current pheromones? I would also like to be able to have women look at me in a generally more interesting way. Not to “get” other women, I am completely commited. But If I have women wanteing to be around me, will that not spark an intrest in other men wanting to follow me in business as well. Kind of earning their respect as well.? Does thsi make sence? But most importantly I want to make things better between me and my gf. She says that she loves my natural smell. But I believe that their are some natural pheromones working against me that won’t let herself completely go around me. What is the deal with the nexus brand? Is that garbage or will it work? Any advice will be greatly appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![sheenis-envy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c57346/32.png) [@sheenis-envy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheenis-envy)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 1:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/2 "2012-06-18T13:18:58Z")
Hello and welcome to Pherotalk. The rapey/killy vibe is probably the last vibe you would ever want to throw off. I think you would benefit from some of the socials. IS will give you that feel good happy vibe, others around you will feed off this vibe and enjoy being around you. Maybe next shoot for some IH, it will make others feel comfortable around you and be able to talk honestly with you about anything. For the girlfriend, these will help, but also look into some Ammo and TUTH. Ammo will help you throw off a confident sexual vibe. TUTH is very sexual and may be something that will add that extra spice to your love life with the gf…keep reading as much as you can until you gt your $25 Gift Card. There is more [pheromone](https://a314.com/) info here than anywhere else online. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 1:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/3 "2012-06-18T13:42:08Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Thanks for your introduction! First off all, I don’t know about this nexus product. When it comes to your natural pheromones. Maybe you produce lot of Androstenone. That could explain why girls are indimidated around your presence. Anyway I would suggest some social products to make you more approachable. Instant Shine is good product to make everyone happy around you. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) could help you become closer with your girlfriend. Check these products out! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 1:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/4 "2012-06-18T13:45:32Z")
> [@s\_t\_f](#): > > Her friend said I give her a rapey/killy/ vibe. I have never laid a hand on a girl. I’m almost convinced that it is my pheromones causing this. So What I would like to accomplish. > > What is the deal with the nexus brand? Is that garbage or will it work? Any advice will be greatly appreciated. Okay - You give off that vibe, yet you are interested in a supposedly overt and very masculine mix that is highly likely to up the aggressive/creepy vibe even further? I say supposedly because Nexus has a reputation for being one of the shittiest and shonkiest phero products on the market. In fact any phero sold with the sort of overblown claims they make on their website is best avoided. Sheenis’s advice is excellent - Look to socials IO, IH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and the light status product IG to soften your natural signature and add a more pleasant social and engaging layer to your interactions. The more balanced none-based product Ammo will also help you project a social/sexy and masculine vibe without the creep-factor. TUTH is very overt and can backfire socially but should be good with your GF because she is already attuned to your phero signature. ---
**Author:** ![s\_t\_f](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5ac83/32.png) [@s\_t\_f](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/s_t_f)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 1:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/5 "2012-06-18T13:57:34Z")
I’m sorry I must have forgot to finish the sentence. I’m looking for something that will make me more socialable and trustable. Something that will let girls feel at ease around me. And girls have said they are very attracted to me but are intimidated to approach or talk. I think I’m in the right place to solve my social problems and fix these bad vibes I’m giving off. Thank you so much for all your help. I still am tring to learn all the verbage here and what mones accomplish what. I was thinking of buying the starter kit But may just put together a kit myself as I think I need more social balance. Once I figure out what I will order I will post it here. Any suggestions are most welcome! ---
**Author:** ![s\_t\_f](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5ac83/32.png) [@s\_t\_f](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/s_t_f)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 4:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/6 "2012-06-18T16:48:04Z")
I got my gc. So should I buy the nebi kit? I’m leaning towards it to try certain mixes in certain senarios. Then buy more of a direct line based on what I find. Is this spot on? Am I thinking right for a newb? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/7 "2012-06-18T21:37:02Z")
The kit is a real good combo of mones. You could try several out and then focus on the commercial line that will work best for your particular situation. My 2 Cents. 1Alpha ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2012, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/8 "2012-06-19T01:39:16Z")
Hello there Welcome to Pherotalk 😃 So your have the creepy guy vibe. Its ok doesnt mean your a killer but it can pose a problem with people getting close to you. You need to warm that vibe up some. I highly recommend Ishine and IH. Ishine for warmth, IH for connection and trust. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) would be good for general sexy attraction. You do not want to go to crazy with the heavy masculines. They will just enhance that natural vibe your trying to avoid. Ammo is nicely balanced. If you have questions just ask. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![s\_t\_f](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5ac83/32.png) [@s\_t\_f](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/s_t_f)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2012, 5:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/9 "2012-06-19T05:12:12Z")
Is this creepy guy vibe really linked with my natural mones? Is it weird how my natural smell is throwing up red flags? I will get the starter kit for now and am sure I will place another order very soon. I will be waiting to go out with my gf till I get these to see if their any different effects when we go out. I wil post back with what I decide to try first! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2012, 2:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbi-and-what-im-trying-to-accomplish/55900/10 "2012-06-20T14:17:47Z")
Welcome Rk, You received excellent advise and if you want to try out the newbie kit go ahead. You can use your $25 gc and 500 reward points but I will stick with the products that were recommended first _ **Your gc was issued!** _