# Newbie alert! With Loads of questions! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 8, 2011, 4:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701 "2011-02-08T04:07:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dex-zone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e0b2c6/32.png) [@dex-zone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dex-zone)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 4:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/1 "2011-02-08T04:07:41Z")
Hey! I just found out about the whole pheromone thing and I’m curious as to how effective it is… been trying to research the best pheromones etc… particularly with gay asian guys (since I am one). Like, if I get a ‘cocktail’ of pheromones Mystery Boy + Instant Shine + [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Or would it be better to just use one at a time? Which part of the body would you spray it though? Just neck, wrist etc? Also, is there a difference between… oil vs spray? Mmm… which would be better for a night out since I live in the UK, it’s pretty wet most of the days… and dry too… I personally would want something that’ll last… long enough til dawn… Will sweating affect the pheromones? Oh, will alcohol affect pheromones? Because, you know, when you drink, you start smelling like alcohol after a while. 🙂 Sorry for the bombardment of questions 😃 ---
**Author:** ![dex-zone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e0b2c6/32.png) [@dex-zone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dex-zone)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 4:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/2 "2011-02-08T04:31:53Z")
Oops, overly enthusiastic with my questions, I forgot to introduce myself Hey, I didn’t get to introduce myself… Anyway, hey everyone… I’m a mid/late 20s gay asian guy (depends on how u see it. . . half full or half empty? ;P) living in the bustling and craaazy life of london. Now, I’ve never used [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) before so I’m still new at this whole concoction and everything… though, it does seem appealing. I guess being in London, everyone’s either beautiful or stunning or whatever and it kind of overshadows those average looking fellas such as yours truly… Well, I’m not looking for a miracle product to suddenly make me attractive 😛 I’m just hoping the pheromones would grab some guy’s attention long enough to realize I’ve got a bloody great personality _heh heh heh_ 🙂 Well, on the other hand, I sure do hope pheromones would get guys to come up to me in a club and hit on me… ahaha 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 5:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/3 "2011-02-08T05:10:29Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk! Mystery boy would be of course one of your top choices. Sadly it’s never in stock. Socials lie IO, IH and ISHINE has been proven to work very effectively with gay men. You should give these a try 😉 If you are trying to come off more “feminine”, you can even try out [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A or B for women. Of course only gay men who are willing to play the “daddy” part will get attracted to you. Have fun at all times 😉 ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 11:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/4 "2011-02-08T11:46:40Z")
Welcome to the forum! Most users do mix more than one product but you should try each product on it’s own so you can see how it works and what the best amount to use is for you. There is varying opinion on the best place to spray them but the most popular areas are the wrists and neck. The difference between oil and spray is that oil diffuses slower but lasts longer. Unfortunately the only oil product offered in the store at this time is A314 and that’s probably not going to give off the vibe you’re looking for. You can always carry a to-go bottle and reapply if they’re not lasting long enough. Sweat can cause pheromones to last for a shorter amount of time. Alcohol may cause reactions to be more extreme or different but it shouldn’t affect the pheromones in any other way. In terms of what products would be best for you, you hit it right on the head. Mystery Boy, Instant Shine, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Mystery Boy is not in stock at the moment though. Instant Shine and Instant Openness should definitely help make men more likely to start a conversation with you though. Turn Up the Heat is a strong sexual product that you could also use, just be careful not to spray too much. There aren’t as many gay users here as straight so there’s not as much information on the subject but I think those 3-4 products should give you a solid base. Maybe you can shed more light on the topic of pheromone’s effects on same sex relationships. Feel free to share your experiences around the forum. Good luck and have fun. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2011, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/5 "2011-02-10T22:37:02Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Dex! Boogie answered your questions very well but most of the questions you have can be found by reading the stickys in the store section and men section of the forum. > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… For a highly sexual atmosphere that are usually in gay clubs tuth will work well but for daily use to attract someone I suggest you use ammunition. Of course, ensure no matter what you choose you test them our separately and when you are confident as to what they do start mixing. **Your gc was issued! 😃** ---
**Author:** ![dex-zone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e0b2c6/32.png) [@dex-zone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dex-zone)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2011, 12:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/6 "2011-02-11T12:26:58Z")
hey all, thanks for the advice… anyway, this is what I ended up getting: Ammo, TUTH, mini IS and I got a free mini IH. Pretty gutted [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) is never in stock… is it ever going to be in stock?! I wonder if I could preorder. 🙂 Will probably test them out tonight… arrived just on time because, I’ve got a date in the afternoon and a party to go to later in the evening. Wish me luck! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2011, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert-with-loads-of-questions/47701/7 "2011-02-11T18:14:14Z")
> [@dex-zone](#): > > hey all, thanks for the advice… anyway, this is what I ended up getting: Ammo, TUTH, mini IS and I got a free mini IH. Pretty gutted Mystery Boy is never in stock… is it ever going to be in stock?! I wonder if I could preorder. 🙂 > > Will probably test them out tonight… arrived just on time because, I’ve got a date in the afternoon and a party to go to later in the evening. Wish me luck! Yeah, sometimes some mones aren’t in stock for a while, then, appear with a several bottles of the stuff and its a first come, first serve… Though, you could always call Steve O at the number at the top of the page and ask as well… Couldn’t hurt… Congrats on your mone stash! Let us know what you tried and how it went! I’d suggest you go to the men’s section and open up a journal to chronicle your adventures!