# Newbie alert! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 5, 2009, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766 "2009-04-05T21:05:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![snyper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@snyper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snyper)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766/1 "2009-04-05T21:05:46Z")
Hello everyone, Please excuse my clumsiness as I am pretty new to all this. I ran across this site while researching [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I am a 47 year old white male from MS. I have been aware of pheromones for quite some time and decided to find out more. It is extremely cool to find a forum where I can learn from others experiences. I have been married for 17 years, so I’m not looking for something to help me “hook up”, just a little something to spice up things at home. On the research side, I have adult attention deficit disorder and yes, ADD does have a big impact in relationships and in the sack! We tend to have low self esteem and be a little shy (Instant Shine could help!), and many other “issues”. I’ll be glad to post how pheromones help me and will gladly help anyone else. ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766/2 "2009-04-05T21:16:47Z")
Hello and welcome! Hmm, so you’ve used pheromones a bit already. Are you perhaps ready for the better stuff like the putatives or experiment mixes? Have you/or do you want to use pheromones for anything besides increasing your relationship with you wife? Ishine is a great tool as you pointed out. Have you tried IH yet? It helps make you and the other person much closer to each other. IO is also great when you want to make the conversation a little easier. Do you have problems with starting or keeping up with a conversation? IO will definitely help with that. Well it looks like you know a little more then the average noob. Let us know if you need anything. I hope to see you in the forums. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766/3 "2009-04-05T21:31:34Z")
Hi snyper 🙂 Welcome. Well, there are a lot of married people here looking for the same thing. You’re in good company. Our sweet happykitsune 🙂 has given you great suggestions. I’ll add AMMO to that, it’s a nicely balanced sexual attractant…along with a little Honesty…it may be just the thing to spark the Mrs. 😉 Take a look at the sticky’s at the top of each forum. It’s a good place to start learning more about what pheromones can and can’t do for you. Start testing each individually so you can determine your sweet spot, the dose that works best for you. Then you’ll be better able to use them to your advantage. Have fun and keep us posted. Bella ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 10:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766/4 "2009-04-05T22:54:03Z")
Hi snyper, Welcome to the forum. I suggest you try SHine, IH and AMMO. Shine can boost your confidence and counter your shyness. It will also make you feel good. IH will make your partner closer to you. It can makes her talk personal and deeper with you. It will enhance relationship. AMMO will add the attraction. She will be attracted to you again. It can sexually attract her too. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 9:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766/5 "2009-04-06T09:36:41Z")
Hey There Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 A lot of members are married and have started using mones to spice things up in there relationships. I started for the very same reason. I suggest you take a look at TUTH to spice up the bedroom atmosphere. I also suggest IH for a close intimate feel. It induces deep conversation as well but the connection feeling it gives is great. Last but not least check out Ishine for a warm, youthful, uplifting charismatic, charm. This one is great for any situation. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Have fun Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 11:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-alert/27766/6 "2009-04-08T11:05:47Z")
Welcome snyper, have fun experimenting and let us know your experience.