# Newbie arrived **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 27, 2007, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251 "2007-02-27T14:34:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![excalibre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@excalibre](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/excalibre)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2007, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/1 "2007-02-27T14:34:05Z")
Hi everyone , I just want to let you guys know I m glad to know there is so many people who share the same interest in this forum . Hope i can contribute a bit back to you guys soon. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2007, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/2 "2007-02-27T14:38:42Z")
> [@excalibre](#): > > Hi everyone , I just want to let you guys know I m glad to know there is so many people who share the same interest in this forum . Hope i can contribute a bit back to you guys soon. Thanks Hey excalibre, welcome! We are glad to have you here too! Please let us know a little bit more about yourself. Also, what interests you about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/)? Do you have any prior experience with it? Hope to hear from you soon.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![excalibre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@excalibre](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/excalibre)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2007, 2:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/3 "2007-02-27T14:57:16Z")
I’m a guy 34 years old not attached yet. Just surf some website and come across the Pherlure and come to know about pheromones. Excited toi find out more Hope to learn from u guys ---
**Author:** ![The\_GQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@The\_GQ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_GQ)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2007, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/4 "2007-02-27T18:17:40Z")
Welcome to the boards excalibre, we’re glad that you can join us. The entire crew here will help you reach your pherogoals based on what you have in mind. What do you want to use the pheromones for? Do you have any products in mind already? Take your time and we’ll all try and help you make the right decision on getting whats best for your needs! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![excalibre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@excalibre](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/excalibre)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 12:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/5 "2007-02-28T12:39:29Z")
Hi GQ, first of all I would like to improve my relationship with peolpe around me first. My current situation is that people always seems to dodge me whenever they encounter me .Even when talking there is seldom eye contact. I don’t blame them at all and I think it is my low self esteem that have cause them to treat me like that. Do you think there is something that could help me?? ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 2:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/6 "2007-02-28T14:35:17Z")
first of all, only you can improve your self esteem. taking baby-steps insures that it cements, believe me,alot of us have been there. confidence factor in men _without failure_ overrides looks in the attraction department. men never _get_ that because they are visually oriented toward women. they think we prioritize the same. socially its the same deal. Gem’s posts will be invaluable there, i promise 😉 with that said, instant shine will be your best friend for a while. it’s uplifting; its a confidence booster. its inviting. people get closer because they get happy around you,lol. maybe not within 30 seconds, but definately withing a few minutes! next on the list would be something that encourages conversation (and you will have to deal with people talking to you) i definately recommend IO or CTTM. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is a great stand alone as well, because people are attracted to it. i personally got respect wearing it.(yes its a mens product,yes i cant live without the smell ) good luck, and remember if you want to try several, try those to-go sizes 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/7 "2007-02-28T20:30:09Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > first of all, only you can improve your self esteem. > > taking baby-steps insures that it cements, believe me,alot of us have been there. > > confidence factor in men _without failure_ overrides looks in the attraction department. > > men never _get_ that because they are visually oriented toward women. they think we prioritize the same. > > socially its the same deal. > > Gem’s posts will be invaluable there, i promise 😉 > > with that said, instant shine will be your best friend for a while. > it’s uplifting; its a confidence booster. its inviting. people get closer because they get happy around you,lol. maybe not within 30 seconds, but definately withing a few minutes! > > next on the list would be something that encourages conversation (and you will have to deal with people talking to you) i definately recommend Instant Openness or CTTM. > > Ammo is a great stand alone as well, because people are attracted to it. > > i personally got respect wearing it.(yes its a mens product,yes i cant live without the smell ) > > good luck, and remember if you want to try several, try those to-go sizes 😉 And the Oscar for AWESOMESTLY COOLESTO goes to Lor for some GREAT advice. ![academyAward.jpg](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/3/3b9d830339c366a928b70de4da0915832b017176.jpeg) ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/8 "2007-02-28T22:02:10Z")
[http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/love0063.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/love0063.gif) thank you, thank you SteveO, you are a boon to the community as well! ---
**Author:** ![The\_GQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@The\_GQ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_GQ)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/9 "2007-02-28T22:28:33Z")
That smilie kills me Lor! But in all respect to you and steveo…_cheers_ _stands up and applauses at the announcement_ 😃 -GQ ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/10 "2007-02-28T22:55:43Z")
> [@The\_GQ](#): > > That smilie kills me Lor! But in all respect to you and steveo…_cheers_ _stands up and applauses at the announcement_ 😃 > > -GQ darn, i missed the announcement? 😕 ---
**Author:** ![excalibre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@excalibre](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/excalibre)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/11 "2007-03-01T03:52:17Z")
OK still waiting for the gift voucher to sent to me yet. Will update u guys on any further advancement on this tread hope to see results soon. BTW still haven’t received the voucher . Anyone knows who should i ask for ---
**Author:** ![The\_GQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@The\_GQ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_GQ)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 4:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/12 "2007-03-01T04:12:53Z")
Jasmin handles the GC’s if thats your question of who handles the vouchers. I’m sure she’ll do her best to get it out to you ASAP, you can always let her know as she’ll kindly respond and be happy to assist you. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2007, 7:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-arrived/2251/13 "2007-03-09T07:34:27Z")
Welcome to the forum, excalibre. Your gift certificate ha been sent.