# Newbie but hopeful! with QUESTIONS? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 25, 2009, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570 "2009-10-25T14:18:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2009, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/1 "2009-10-25T14:18:39Z")
Hello everyone, my name is Kylee.. I was told of this site by my sister, I don’t have a computer to just play on so i’m never online except at work - so I am using hers, she told me all about this place. I may not get to check in often but wanted to post this. Heres my situation - I currently work in an office setting and found there to be a bit of chemistry with one of the 3 guys that work there. It goes both ways, we have been talking a bit and he seems somewhat interested. Problem is that he is nephew to the boss! So it can create a bit of an issue. I need the boss to see me as worthwhile, trustworthy..etc. (female boss if that matters) I want the guy to want nothing more that to be with me.. haha My sister suggests the mx134. What do you all think? I want to place an order this week. What would be your top 3 or 4 suggestions? Thank you all. Kylee ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2009, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/2 "2009-10-25T14:34:32Z")
Hi Kylee, Welcome to the forum! From what I understand MX134 is no longer available, but the substitute is MX300. Some of the woman (myself included) have had some success with MX320. It’s a guys mix, but I found increased respect levels. That being said, are you sure you really want to date the boss’s nephew? It’s never a good idea to date someone you work with (what happens if you break-up? How will you keep your mind on your work?) If you really want to pursue this, then I’d also suggest some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to see how your boss feels about you now. Good luck, have fun & please post your results! Also, give us some more info about yourself. How old are you? Are you outgoing or shy? ---
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2009, 2:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/3 "2009-10-25T14:42:46Z")
thanks.. yes we have been working together for 3 years and have become close. We are good friends wanting to take it a step further. If it doesnt work out then it doesnt, we’d go back to being friends. We were both in past relationships that didnt work. We work second shift so its hard to date, we have both had the same dating problems outside of the office. I think we could be great together given the chance. It like we found something that was staring us in the face all along. I am 42 he is 40. I am outgoing most of the time. The boss likes me, but I think shes unsure of the situation with working together. However we do have 2 married couples there as well. Gotta run or i’ll be late. I will check back for more advice. Thank you! ---
**Author:** ![Tester5000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e99b99/32.png) [@Tester5000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tester5000)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2009, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/4 "2009-10-25T18:13:43Z")
A work romance can be a wonderful thing… One of the Problems I can see along the way is the romance may lead to loss of performance at the workplace, on the other hand intimacy and trust can make you the perfect team for handling difficult tasks. This isn’t really the type of question one goes up to the boss with and asks for permission 😉 ---
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/5 "2009-10-26T01:44:51Z")
Yes, true.. not a typical question you’d ask your boss! HA! But he didn’t want to take the chance of us getting fired so he asked her. Shes the strong/strict type yet can have fun and be playful so shes been making jokes to him about it but has not yet given us the go ahead so it is difficult right now. I dont see it leading to loss of performance at work because we are busy and focused but like to have fun thru the day, I think all of that will be okay. But in any case, any advice of some good tester sprays for me to try? He has women hit on him often so I need something to help keep the focus on me. haha ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 1:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/6 "2009-10-26T01:49:43Z")
> [@smidgen](#): > > Yes, true.. not a typical question you’d ask your boss! HA! But he didn’t want to take the chance of us getting fired so he asked her. Shes the strong/strict type yet can have fun and be playful so shes been making jokes to him about it but has not yet given us the go ahead so it is difficult right now. > I dont see it leading to loss of performance at work because we are busy and focused but like to have fun thru the day, I think all of that will be okay. > But in any case, any advice of some good tester sprays for me to try? He has women hit on him often so I need something to help keep the focus on me. haha How about the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) line. It doesn’t contain copulins anymore so, it should be relatively safe. Are you more a confident Alpha type woman or a little shy? Also, do you know if your target likes soft kittenish women or strong Alpha ones? ---
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/7 "2009-10-26T02:11:02Z")
my “target”. haha I like that.. well he tends to be a little shy at first (we went out for a drink once) but I know he is a strong sexual type (from the friendship talks we had in past) I know it can be a very passionate relationship given the chance.. I can be a little shy, I know I need to open up a bit more, be a bit more aggressive. ---
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 1:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/8 "2009-10-26T13:28:46Z")
> [@smidgen](#): > > my “target”. haha I like that.. well he tends to be a little shy at first (we went out for a drink once) but I know he is a strong sexual type (from the friendship talks we had in past) I know it can be a very passionate relationship given the chance.. I can be a little shy, I know I need to open up a bit more, be a bit more aggressive. so what sprays do you suggest?? I want to order today..😕 ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 2:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/9 "2009-10-26T14:05:01Z")
Well, if you want to be a little more aggressive, I would suggest Instant Sexiness A then. Also, get some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). It is good for every day & every situation (well, except for a funeral). Did you get your CG yet? If not, wait because the $25 would cover the cost of a TOGO size of those two & all you’d have to pay is shipping. ---
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 3:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/10 "2009-10-26T15:05:20Z")
> [@ladyofthewoods](#): > > Well, if you want to be a little more aggressive, I would suggest Instant Sexiness A then. Also, get some Instant Shine. It is good for every day & every situation (well, except for a funeral). Did you get your CG yet? If not, wait because the $25 would cover the cost of a TOGO size of those two & all you’d have to pay is shipping. no I didnt get the certif yet, how long does that usually take? Can ya tell i’m a little anxious? haha ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/11 "2009-10-26T15:25:52Z")
Maybe a day or two, but it was over the weekend. Steve should be answering you today with it. If he doesn’t, call the 800 # that’s in the NEW USERS thread. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/12 "2009-10-26T22:08:36Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![smidgen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@smidgen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smidgen)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-but-hopeful-with-questions/33570/13 "2009-12-13T03:20:09Z")
update- okay so the boss is allowing us to date.. we hang out together alot, he comes over we watch movies, its more like we are the best of friends.. he stays over, we cuddle, but the sex has been slow.. I want a deep passionate relationship but he seems to want to take it slow..or hesjust unsure where to go with me.. he mentions how he is shy around me, but not sure why.. tells me to be the agressive one.. he has been in relationships with some crazy girls in the past and I am more real/down to earth, so I think he is unsure how to act around me.. in 2 months we have only been sexual 3 times.. and I have initated it.. sometimes it makes me feel like I am the only one interested.. (although I really know he wants more) I want him to be more agressive and want me.. what do you all think might help in this situation?? Something to really get to him??