Newbie buying my first bottle: good-looking, in shape but shy, need an ice breaker

I would start with the instant line of products. Instant Openness or Instant Shine would be my recommendations. Also Ammo would be a good choice, but remember to test each product out by themselves to find your sweet spots.

Read through these threads also,

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