# Newbie: First post, so confused! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 16, 2011, 6:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-first-post-so-confused/50768 "2011-06-16T06:38:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2011, 6:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-first-post-so-confused/50768/2 "2011-06-16T06:57:15Z")
> [@missleroux](#): > > Hello everyone! I am so excited to be beginning my adventure in using pheromones. I have been interested in using these since I was 13 but never had the cash until now haha. > > I am a 20 year old female living in Canada, I am extrememly friendly and helpful but put off a bad vibe for some reason. I have always had a very hard time attracting good looking men (even though I believe i am very attractive) and I have a hard time making friends. I got bullied very badly in Highschool and developed a crippling case of social anxiety that I am slowly beginning to break out of. > > I first heard of pheromones when I was browsing the web as a teen. I really was going to try anything to make friends. My hopes are now that I have them I will become the type of woman I have always wanted to be. > > You know those girls that aren’t really particularily attractive and really not all that different from anyone else but all the men flock to? I want that person to be me. I want to be the centre of attention when I walk into a room. I have always dreamt of being a head turner and I don’t understand why I am not turning head already? I will be posting pictures of myself so you will understand my confusion. I believe that maybe I do not produce enough pheromones for myself and maybe that is why men and others do not find my attractive. > > Today in the mail I recieved a bottle of Primal instinct for her and by accident Scent of Eros but I believe they sent me the male version instead of female. I ordered a package off of love-scent that was suppost to include PI, PCC and two test packets 1 of the edge and the other of alter ego. > > I tried out both the PI and SOE (even tho I am pretty sure it is for men) and I did not find any results coming from it. the SOE turned me on more than anything but that’s because it smells like men to me lol. I put on 2 drops in total of PI behind my ears, on the sides of my neck and on my wrists. I also tried the SOE on my wrists. > > It was nice out today so I was very only shorts and a tank. I am not sure how I should be using these products =( ahhh > > I would like to attract any gentlemen that are between 20-28 and attractive. I am 5’6" 120lbs, curvy, long blonde hair, green eyed, with a gorgeous smile and full lips. > > Nice to meet you all!! > > Maria Hi and welcome, missleroux 😛 That was a pretty awesome intro but can you tell us how you found this site? Just a word on Pherotalk forum etiquette; this forum is for the Androtics products discussion. Generally we don’t name the products from other companies, other than in passing notes. Just a friendly little heads up for the future. 😃 Now, about the rest, I don’t know why you’re not getting the guys attention. I’m giving you a couple of links to read and get better informed as to what these products can do and some basic information which will help you formulate a plan of action: **An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of** ([An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003)) [How To Find Your Sweet Spot](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1) [The Superior and Correct Way to Make a New Mix](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-skin-is-a-pheromone-mixing-canvas/34388) The socials are a good start. Instant Shine - gives you a shine people want to be near and stay near. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) - personally, I’m in love with this stuff. It’s called an ice breaker mone and it promotes easy, light communication. Quantity vs quality. For me, personally, it de-stresses me. Instant Honesty - promotes deeper interaction, bonding and conversation. Quality vs quantity. For women, Instant Sexiness/B is awesome. I get a feeling of sexy confidence. I love the way I feel wearing this. Read some of the womens journals - this is how we communicate here. We have a couple of experts on human interaction here and we’re all here to help and expand the body of data. Again, welcome to the forum and plan some fun to have in your part of the continent. 😉 --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-first-post-so-confused/50768)._