# Newbie: girls say they're intimidated by my looks, which products are best for me? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 22, 2010, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016 "2010-08-22T22:29:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sparcreame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@sparcreame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sparcreame)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2010, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/1 "2010-08-22T22:29:18Z")
Ok I already get alot of IOI’s from girls but every time i meet anew girl they always say their intimidated by my looks and are scared to talk to me cause they think i wouldnt waste my time on them.So what products should be best for me…?? ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/2 "2010-08-23T04:05:05Z")
[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will take some of that edge off.. so will acting friendly. ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 4:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/3 "2010-08-23T04:08:15Z")
> [@sparcreame](#): > > Ok I already get alot of IOI’s from girls but every time i meet anew girl they always say their intimidated by my looks and are scared to talk to me cause they think i wouldnt waste my time on them.So what products should be best for me…?? They answered this question in your other thread with some great suggestions. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/4 "2010-08-23T04:56:44Z")
> [@sparcreame](#): > > Ok I already get alot of IOI’s from girls but every time i meet anew girl they always say their intimidated by my looks and are scared to talk to me cause they think i wouldnt waste my time on them.So what products should be best for me…?? Also consider the body language, you may be signaling. We all consciously focused on the spoken words in a conversation, however the subconscious mind is where the majority of the work load takes place, as our subconscious mind are constantly reading body language. The right body language can spark interest, attraction and acceptance. The wrong body language can trigger discomfort, and a host of other negatives. There are several exceptional threads on the subject within the forum; perhaps that’s something you may want to consider. As forementioned you have already received fine suggestions from members pertaining to [pheromones](https://a314.com/). MVKBUGATTI ---
**Author:** ![Unique](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unique/32/935_2.png) [@Unique](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Unique)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 2:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/5 "2010-08-23T14:17:02Z")
In your situation you might want to consider either instant openness or instant honesty Will make you easy to talk to and not intimidating ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/6 "2010-08-23T15:22:43Z")
The warmth that [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) offers IMO would work well. It’s more approachable and would keep your alpha vibe strong. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/7 "2010-08-23T16:02:04Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > The warmth that Instant Gentleman offers IMO would work well. It’s more approachable and would keep your alpha vibe strong. Another good suggestion. IG does help ease off some intimidation factors. Not to mention it pairs superbly with just about every product AD makes. ---
**Author:** ![sparcreame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@sparcreame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sparcreame)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2010, 5:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/8 "2010-08-23T17:38:27Z")
Ok but without even using the products i think CTTM and IG would work together…but another thought i had was maybe it would be easier on females if i initiated the conversation first but then i wouldnt need any of the products cause i already look good(not trying to be conceited) and once i start talking to a female i usually taker her home so no need for the TUTH either so idk ---
**Author:** ![Unique](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unique/32/935_2.png) [@Unique](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Unique)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2010, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-girls-say-theyre-intimidated-by-my-looks-which-products-are-best-for-me/41016/9 "2010-08-24T07:20:02Z")
Anyone can benefit from pheromones, doesn’t matter what you look like Hell just take a look at the womens section I don’t even use pheromones personally to attract women… its not my number 1 objective with them