# Newbie hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 20, 2016, 6:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-hello/66087 "2016-06-20T06:39:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Wolfe0418](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7cd45c/32.png) [@Wolfe0418](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfe0418)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2016, 6:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-hello/66087/1 "2016-06-20T06:39:27Z")
Hi, all! I’m a 38yo divorced single mother of 2 boys. Located in the oh so hot & HUMID state of Mississippi. I’ve been venturing out into the dating world but with not much luck. I will say that there’s one guy who is my best friend & we basically have a relationship but he’s holding back (he is opening up to me, though). I’d love some advice on a good pheromone to get him to stop being so scared of commitment - if there is such a thing. I mean, we do everything couples do & I’ve even begun to let him come around my boys. Heck, he spent the night once when my youngest was home.. If not him, I just need some advice on a good pheromone to start attracting a better/higher class of man (read: emotionally available/stable). Yeah, I’ve done all the work on me & all that jazz - don’t even get any of the court ordered child support but take proper care of myself & my boys so.. I don’t believe the problem is me. My friend, kraley1978, told me all about the success she had when she was using [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) from this site & I completely trust her opinion. Any advice on good pheromones to try for a woman returning to the dating world after about a year (separated Jan 2015, divorced Dec 2015, tried dating in Oct/Nov 2015 & gave up)…? Sorry for the rambling.. I tend to do that. Hehe ---
**Author:** ![Light\_of\_the\_Moon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/90ced4/32.png) [@Light\_of\_the\_Moon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Light_of_the_Moon)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2016, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-hello/66087/2 "2016-06-20T08:38:44Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk! I’m genuinely happy to see more women joining around here! One thing that helps people give advice is to tell a little more about your personality. Most people say to try the Instant Packs (Instant Shine, Instant Sexiness, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), etc). It’s a bit pricey, but it gives you samples of the most popular products. I didn’t try them all, but I tried enough to give me a feel for the Pherotalk products. Do you want to date your friend? Or do you want to attract other men as well? ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2016, 2:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-hello/66087/3 "2016-06-22T02:56:33Z")
Hi Wolfe0418, Welcome to the site. I totally agree with getting the **Female Wardrobe** as you would get everything you need to get started and will try to explain it the best I can. first things first is you need something for attraction because without this it will go no where. The kit will have both IS/A and IS/B with B being the softer version and I would start with that one first because A is way more in your face and some guy’s don’t like it. You will have to test both to see what is a better fit. Now you will need something for communication to see where it goes. This is where the other 3 come in IS, IO, and IH. **IS** This will boost your confidence and put him in a great mood and will help make things fun and is appropriate for any environment and situation. **IO** This is an ice breaker and will make him want to approach you which is the first step. I would suggest a combo like either IS/A or IS/B and this to help get things jump started when you go out. **IH** This will promote bonding and deep conversations. I would consider wearing this down the road after a few dates or this would be perfect to try on your friend to see how he really feels about things. Ok so if you spend $100 or more after the $25GC is applied you get free shipping in the states which is a $10 savings. The female kit is $100 and with the $25GC it is now $75. I would add something that might get your interest so you get the $10 savings. Now MXS are experimental and do not have the same guarantee, but some are really good and worth looking into. For your goal and attracting men I would look into **MX274** or maybe some if the other women can suggest some better ones for you. I suggest a MX because there really is nothing left from the instant line to suggest. Good Luck and I hope I helped and you understand how the free shipping work and everything. If not I will try to explain it better.