# Newbie here! How do I Turn a flirting friend into a seduced/horny friend? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 3, 2007, 6:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-how-do-i-turn-a-flirting-friend-into-a-seduced-horny-friend/6384 "2007-11-03T06:06:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![ProtoJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7feea3/32.png) [@ProtoJay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ProtoJay)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2007, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-how-do-i-turn-a-flirting-friend-into-a-seduced-horny-friend/6384/21 "2007-11-05T16:50:34Z")
I agree with the guy talking about sexual harrassment. “Dont shit where you eat” I was once told… Its 100% right, unless your really desperate theres no need to look at work for relationships, sex, etc… It will very often backfire. Even if you succeed, the fact you work together and she can potentially start problems at work, get promoted, etc, may tip the power balance of the relationship too much in her favour… Think about when/if you break up. Your better off picking up a copy of the game or mystery method off amazon and going to a bar… I work pheros at work, mostly for the authority and to increase presense and do my job better. Not to pick up women… If it was a customer/client, maybe, but definately not co-workers, subordinates or managers… Same with flirting, its to make the work relations better and do the job better, never to start a relationship. One guy I know, is going out with a girl from our work. I feel sorry for him, she practically controls him. I think its probably a mistake. In fact, correction… If you dont value your job, plan on leaving, or dont mind losing it, then go ahead and start a relationship with a coworker. Otherwise, if its a job you need, depend on, and want to keep, then KISS (keep it simple stupid), and leave your female co-workers at a respectful distance. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2007, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-how-do-i-turn-a-flirting-friend-into-a-seduced-horny-friend/6384/22 "2007-11-05T19:30:46Z")
How about if they don’t work in the same location, but are in the same organisation at different levels? Just wondering how that would be. ---
**Author:** ![ProtoJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7feea3/32.png) [@ProtoJay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ProtoJay)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2007, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-how-do-i-turn-a-flirting-friend-into-a-seduced-horny-friend/6384/23 "2007-11-06T00:41:45Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > How about if they don’t work in the same location, but are in the same organisation at different levels? Just wondering how that would be. Still isnt a great idea… There is a world full of girls out there… While its good you wouldnt see her all the time, she may be higher or lower up in the hierachy, or still able to cause problems if you “fratenise” at work… ---
**Author:** ![Twogunz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4da419/32.png) [@Twogunz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Twogunz)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2010, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-how-do-i-turn-a-flirting-friend-into-a-seduced-horny-friend/6384/24 "2010-06-24T23:50:20Z")
> [@Smudge](#): > > Very good advice, tacitus. I have been giving massages since I was about 7 and can testify massages work **beautifully**. Take things slow and focus on her during the session and you will find the experience **very** rewarding. Better still, take a couple of lessons. That way, you can just take the lead. Some people don’t know what they want by looking at the books/pics. Besides, I find checking the books every 5 mins kills the flow and sensuality. Oh Yes massage works wonders. I ran across a very old latin text wherein it goes on to describe teh debauchery in Rome at the time and how a technique called “cupping” (not quiote a perfect translation) was used to put the women right over teh top in a matter of minutes (yes I do read latin… no I am not a pedophile I mean a priest studied it in high school) Now I have tried cupping when doing sensula massage and I can promise you her eyes will bulge, her teeth will sweat and you will send her home crying to her mama … its that good . Of course some Ammo and a bit of TUTH on your own body as you of course have your shirt off flexing those muscles… you do have muscles dont you? well loosen her up with a goos massge front and back, then gently cup her and watch the fireworks explode. Enjoy [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-how-do-i-turn-a-flirting-friend-into-a-seduced-horny-friend/6384.md?page=1)